Speaker 1: Round. Allow me to introduce myself in Angela and Charlomagne
Speaker 1: the guy. Well, y'all became a long wait. I think
Speaker 1: that y'all have a certain amount of respect for you
Speaker 1: know what everybody else does, and y'all are just the
Speaker 1: best of what y'all do. This platform, the reach y'all
Speaker 1: hat that you earned make space for somebody like me.
Speaker 1: You guys have a direct line to the coaches. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I'm on the ready with a Dolomagne DJA empty.
Speaker 1: All I do is read about the Breakfast Club every morning.
Speaker 1: Good you guys are trending every you know, I dragged
Speaker 1: my ass out of bad I'm like, uh, what happened
Speaker 1: on the breakfast Club today? Good morning Usa, yo yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo.
Speaker 1: I'm DJ Envy And howbody named is Charlottagne, the guy
Speaker 1: with the world most dangerous mornings. You're to Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: and currently we are on vacation. Man, totally disconnected. Yes
Speaker 1: we're not even really here. You think you're listening to us,
Speaker 1: but we're not. Well, we are not we're here in spirit.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be playing some of our
Speaker 1: top interviews and some throwbacks. So keep a lot right,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be running the boards and we'll see ell
Speaker 1: in the new year. Happy holidays. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning. This is your time to get it off
Speaker 1: your chests, whether you're mad or blasted, so we better
Speaker 1: have the same dry we want to hear from you
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. Hello. Who's this Hi? This is Jlisa.
Speaker 1: Good morning, Jelisa, getting off your chests. Yes, today I
Speaker 1: just got pulled. Don't move about a cost for no reason.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm just standing it. This is terrible where
Speaker 1: you're calling from. Um I live in North Carolina, but
Speaker 1: I'm from Jerushy. Why they say they pulled you off
Speaker 1: for mama, I'm supposed to beleeve that. Um My break
Speaker 1: light wasn't working. Bluff reminds you I never even had
Speaker 1: a break That's an old, that's a that's an old
Speaker 1: tricking U by both police officer, especially in the Carolinas.
Speaker 1: That's right, you break right out. He told me, he
Speaker 1: told me I was drinking and driving. I told him out, said, said,
Speaker 1: I do not drink he said, are you sure? I
Speaker 1: said yes, I do not drink at all. So he
Speaker 1: comes back to my car. Then he gave me a breastalizer.
Speaker 1: So I said, oh, how do I do this? He said,
Speaker 1: take a deep reason and then blow. I did that?
Speaker 1: Tell you why I came back zero zero? I said, see,
Speaker 1: I told you that. What's the next step from here?
Speaker 1: He gives me something talking about, oh you have to
Speaker 1: go to court, what your tall light is out, and etcetera, etcetera.
Speaker 1: But it's a brand new car, yes, brand new cars. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because he's harassing you. But he had to give you
Speaker 1: a reason. He had to give you a reason for
Speaker 1: pulling you over. If not, he'd have been told me,
Speaker 1: let you go, just let it go. I just put
Speaker 1: out thought like he had to meet a deadline on
Speaker 1: making a certain amount of money, because you know how
Speaker 1: they're doing New jac Or in New York at a
Speaker 1: certain amount, like a deadline, they have to make a
Speaker 1: certain amount. So he feels like though he can't make
Speaker 1: that amount in a certain time from you want to
Speaker 1: write a bush ticket's language, you should definitely go to
Speaker 1: court and fight that one, mama, And you have the
Speaker 1: paperwork that you just bought a car. Have the paperwork
Speaker 1: say he was harassing you, that you were zero point zero.
Speaker 1: He's probably gonna say that he's seeing you squerve and
Speaker 1: you were driving a radic, so he assumed that you
Speaker 1: would drunk. But I would take that to court, mama. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the best thing to do, right, absolutely, Yeah. And
Speaker 1: I just want to give a shout out, you know,
Speaker 1: to New York and New Jerius, because you know, I'm
Speaker 1: from up top, but I live down here and it's
Speaker 1: crazy how police are now on the need. Okay, We'll
Speaker 1: be safe out there and be careful. I'm glad you
Speaker 1: made it out of there. Yeah, don't let everyone your
Speaker 1: day have a name day, you guys, just stay blast you. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? It's me. I'm not gonna tell you my
Speaker 1: name right now? All right, me? What's up? You know
Speaker 1: you're on the radio. You can remain anonymous. Man. You
Speaker 1: could have said any name, but we're rocking you. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I want to get off my chest the fact
Speaker 1: that Direct needs to pay me my money. I pay
Speaker 1: the mortgage for him to live in a house and
Speaker 1: he's not paying and he's messing up my credit. You
Speaker 1: gotta give us some context, queen, what are you calling from?
Speaker 1: And who is there? That's your baby daddy, a boyfriend
Speaker 1: or some ex boyfriend or ex husband. No, my former husband.
Speaker 1: Oh he owe you child supporters something now no child support? No,
Speaker 1: I said he owed you child support. He owed me
Speaker 1: mortgage your money for living for free and messing up
Speaker 1: my credit. Oh okay, Well you're not gonna get that money, mama.
Speaker 1: You know that. I'm gonna have to He ain't got it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Well he needs to get out, she said.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it out of the ass one way
Speaker 1: or the other. You're not gonna get that money, Mamma,
Speaker 1: You're gonna drive yourself crazy. Just kick that kick him
Speaker 1: out and just just think about it like this, that
Speaker 1: investment you paid, his investment, not to have him in
Speaker 1: your life. No more ever. Thank you at bye. But
Speaker 1: you have a great labor Day weekend? What I brother,
Speaker 1: get it off your chest? Yeah, I don't want it
Speaker 1: out there. And everybody you know, if you ever a
Speaker 1: business idea or a thing he's trying to put on,
Speaker 1: don't assume it's gonna be successful. Because we have feeling.
Speaker 1: Get friends, they're don't support you. It's not how it works. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what happened, man, So I in an event it's called
Speaker 1: Natale Games through it for the first two years in
Speaker 1: my hometown in Indiana. I think it's gonna be successful.
Speaker 1: Didn't get as a turnout wanted, depending on family and friends.
Speaker 1: They me put it together. It was a good Georgia
Speaker 1: down to Georgia, and it's gonna be one of the
Speaker 1: biggest tenness games down here in the state. And I'm
Speaker 1: bootstrapping it all myself, most team or nothing. How do
Speaker 1: I think the handicaps off? Janie? You know, I tell
Speaker 1: myself that's how it always is. Man. You know that,
Speaker 1: you know, nine times out of ten, you're gonna get
Speaker 1: more support somewhere else than in your hometown. You know
Speaker 1: that shouldn't be like that, though it shouldn't be. But yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, you can't ever expect, and I've learned
Speaker 1: this from you know, starting businesses. You can't ever expect
Speaker 1: the people around you that they have to do things
Speaker 1: to support you. You still got to act like you
Speaker 1: out there doing it on your own and put forth
Speaker 1: all the effort like you're not gonna have that. And
Speaker 1: if they do support you, that's a great and amazing surprise.
Speaker 1: That's just the way people are sometimes. It's a breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club. I'm tying doing if this
Speaker 1: is your time to get it off your chest, whether
Speaker 1: you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five one
Speaker 1: five one, we want to hear from you on the
Speaker 1: breakfast club. Hello. Who's this? Yeah? What's up? Heavy? This
Speaker 1: is Tyler for Chicago, Tyler from the shot What I
Speaker 1: brought to get you off your chest? He's Tyler. Hey,
Speaker 1: what's going on, Charlotte? How are you supping? Dog? Let's
Speaker 1: black and Holly favorite King, That's what's I got this up?
Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm glad the guys are here. Maybe y'all
Speaker 1: can help me out. I'm in a little bit of
Speaker 1: a pickle. What's up, man? What's your pickle? So, man,
Speaker 1: my big sister she got into some stuff man. Last
Speaker 1: weekend she got in trouble, a little roadways incident that
Speaker 1: went all the way left and she ends up getting
Speaker 1: arrested and hit with a class acceality show. Her bond
Speaker 1: was one hundred thousand dollars and I gotta pay ten. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't want to pay ten. I got a vacation
Speaker 1: coming up in two weeks, and I feel like maybe
Speaker 1: a little jail time might give a little care, you know. No,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tell you something. Um, I went
Speaker 1: to I went to jail one time for pointing in
Speaker 1: presenting the fire arm. I think the charge, the charge
Speaker 1: originally was a Sultan battery would attempt to kill. I was.
Speaker 1: I was in the back seat when one of them,
Speaker 1: my homeboys, you know, was on the front and shot.
Speaker 1: And my dad did the same thing. My dad let
Speaker 1: me sit for like forty five days. Number one. The
Speaker 1: bond was high and he was waiting for he was
Speaker 1: waiting for the bond to be reduced, but he did.
Speaker 1: He was he was letting me sit on purpose because
Speaker 1: he said he wanted me to learn a little lesson. Now,
Speaker 1: this is your sister's first incident. Uh yeah, but she's
Speaker 1: forty two years old. Though she's forty two. What happened?
Speaker 1: She allegedly pulled out a weapon or something, Yeah, she did.
Speaker 1: How do you know about this? Did you hear about
Speaker 1: this on Facebook? No? I don't know. I mean, I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: the only way you're gonna get a felony for a
Speaker 1: road rage is if you a weapon. Brother, Let me
Speaker 1: ask you a question. If you let her it was
Speaker 1: pretty bad. If you bad, if you let her sit
Speaker 1: a little while longer with a bond, go down. I
Speaker 1: don't be so because it's she hit like she ended
Speaker 1: up getting to it with a lawyer who happened to
Speaker 1: be white. She's white, So it's pretty bad. Bro. We
Speaker 1: got to get her a really good lawyer, like I'm
Speaker 1: talking about, like a Jewish lawyer. Like at the end,
Speaker 1: there's some good there's some good black lawyers, man, there's
Speaker 1: some great black attorneys. What are you speaking? When's the vate?
Speaker 1: When's the vacation? Look, it's in two weeks. I'm supposed
Speaker 1: to go down and know it's my only vacation time
Speaker 1: of the year, and I'm as a conflict. Man, I
Speaker 1: don't know if I want to spend this money because
Speaker 1: I'll think I'm gonna get it back. I'm going on vacation.
Speaker 1: Let me all right, let me ask you a question. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait. College Now, if
Speaker 1: you was in the same incident when she bailed you out,
Speaker 1: that's the thing I don't know. Let me my twin sister, yes,
Speaker 1: but my older sister I don't know what does your
Speaker 1: heart tell you to do? What is your spirit telling
Speaker 1: you to do? Right now? Forget because the only thing
Speaker 1: that causes complicates the devil. Keep my money, That's what
Speaker 1: the That's what the Lord is telling me. To keep
Speaker 1: my money because I worked hard for Charlotte. Enjoy your vacation, King.
Speaker 1: Enjoy your vacation. King. She's forty two years old. She
Speaker 1: ain't got no money. Did she got a crib of anything?
Speaker 1: That's the day she kind of she's worked for the city.
Speaker 1: Her husband got a little bit of money. But her husband,
Speaker 1: she got a husband. And enjoy your vacation, King. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Okay, I appreciate your Enjoy your vacation, King.
Speaker 1: Y'all you figure that out. When you come back from vacation,
Speaker 1: you'll have a clearer mind. But what about if her
Speaker 1: husband ain't got no money, we ain't got nohing to
Speaker 1: do it that you'll have a clearer mind to think
Speaker 1: about it. After that vacation I did started, I started
Speaker 1: to go fund each other. I don't want to that money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: enjoy your vacation, King, call us and tell us about
Speaker 1: your vacation. You take it, Yello, man, enjoy your vacation, man, sister,
Speaker 1: God bless her forty two. God bless your kid. God
Speaker 1: bless her, God bless her. She got a husband, she
Speaker 1: made a choice. Let that man go. Enjoy the vacation.
Speaker 1: When you come back, then y'all figure it out. Enjoy
Speaker 1: your vacation. Brother, get it off your chest. The Breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: Good morning, The Breakfast Club Special guests in the building,
Speaker 1: A smarting sir. You had a brother, g herbo hair.
Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? And when you got what I got? Drinks? Man,
Speaker 1: my blood cousin, Man, what's going on? Feeling good? I'm
Speaker 1: good brother. First of all, happy birthday. And it's crazy
Speaker 1: because I thought I listened to Survive's Remorse. Yeah, a
Speaker 1: whole other goddamn but I had to think up there
Speaker 1: an hour and change that fast. Oh man, I'm excited. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm just happy to be here. Brom. I'm blessed, you know,
Speaker 1: to be able to put this project out. But it's
Speaker 1: it's born than just an album. I feel the universe
Speaker 1: and the energy like around it. Like I really feel
Speaker 1: like it's a moment of triumph for me when I
Speaker 1: wasn't even trying to celebrate, you know, what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like I went through so much recording this project and
Speaker 1: just so much in life growing as a man, and
Speaker 1: this album is a complete reflection, a complete testament of
Speaker 1: who I am and how grown as a man. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I was gonna ask you know
Speaker 1: you had two kids, and I've been seeing your video
Speaker 1: of your of your kids beating you up right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna ask you know, how has that changed you? I
Speaker 1: always say, like the happiest I'm gonna ever being just
Speaker 1: hanging with my kids. You know what I'm saying, especially
Speaker 1: when I got all three of them in the house together. Man,
Speaker 1: It's it's perfect. You know what I'm saying. And your
Speaker 1: side the only thing you know I'm thinking as I'll
Speaker 1: walking here for real, and I knew y'all was gonna
Speaker 1: ask you something about my kids and the main the
Speaker 1: reason why I go so hard and why so important
Speaker 1: because the talent that I spent away from my kids
Speaker 1: gotta mean something. Man, I'm really sacrificing time away from
Speaker 1: my kids, not seeing them for this. You feel me,
Speaker 1: So it gotta mean something. It gotta you gotta work,
Speaker 1: you know, it gotta work for me. It gotta work
Speaker 1: for them because that's the foundation that I'm laying. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm saying it, and my kids don't know they ad
Speaker 1: g Herbert for real, Like he'll sign no because everybody,
Speaker 1: you know, we'll be walking or in the airport or
Speaker 1: something and people would be like heyo, sign hey, like
Speaker 1: he fied he don't really understand. He asked me now
Speaker 1: like daddy and my famous we want to tell them now. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's different, man, Like just having them around other kids
Speaker 1: and stuff. You know, they treat them like a celebrity.
Speaker 1: But it's like I'm saying that to say, like I
Speaker 1: want all my kids to have foundation balance. You feel me,
Speaker 1: So it got to mean something me moving fast, I'll
Speaker 1: be on the road so much and worry about money.
Speaker 1: And you you don't even you don't even realize you're
Speaker 1: really raising your kids a certain way. You I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: I don't want my kids to write grow up how
Speaker 1: I grew up, for one, But I don't want to
Speaker 1: grow up just like an industry kid or like you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I want my kid to grow
Speaker 1: up regular man. I want them to just have his innocence.
Speaker 1: You feel me that chrismatic and freedom to just beat
Speaker 1: them all my kids, you I'm saying, and that's important,
Speaker 1: so and all you to say that I gotta go hard. Well,
Speaker 1: I could have the freedom to take a y'all for real,
Speaker 1: like a real year, to just travel and be with
Speaker 1: my family. You know what I'm saying, Like I always
Speaker 1: been wanted to be that type of artist to have it,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I ain't gonna be able to
Speaker 1: raise my kids right if I'm just focused on Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm on the album too. Understand that. But how did
Speaker 1: he react? He was he called me on FaceTime that
Speaker 1: he called me first. He's like, Daddy, it's your birthday.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it's my birthday. He said, I didn't
Speaker 1: miss it? Said no, He's I was so scared I
Speaker 1: was gonna miss Your birthday just dropped. Your birthday just dropped.
Speaker 1: When he talking about the album, Your Birthday just came
Speaker 1: out and he was um, he listening to the song.
Speaker 1: He was listening to UM put me on the TV
Speaker 1: and he turned around like it's just crazy that he
Speaker 1: really understand it, you know what I'm saying, Like he's
Speaker 1: seeing and not he a fan of the music. For him,
Speaker 1: just listen to my music because he just fan of
Speaker 1: music and the culture, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: that's like I noticed that, and that's why on what
Speaker 1: my kids, I just let him how I grew up.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm so smart that I was exposed so much,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, you gotta still expose
Speaker 1: your kids two things so we could learn. Like I
Speaker 1: feel like that's knowledge that my son growing and I'm
Speaker 1: just be able to like polish it all up just
Speaker 1: about talking to him. And you know, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: honest with all my kids, you know I'm saying, And
Speaker 1: that's how they're gonna have to structure that foundation, because
Speaker 1: that's how I got My parents were just honest with
Speaker 1: brutally on it. We saw you in a protective father
Speaker 1: more when it was when you was out with your
Speaker 1: child and somebody, yeah was being a little too pushy.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the crew league. The crew league. I adn't
Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, I'm cool, I'm friendly, you
Speaker 1: know I'm saying, but I would just be trying to
Speaker 1: like it ain't really that, you know, because a lot
Speaker 1: of times people be trying to go viral, and I
Speaker 1: was stopping it right then because head had been something
Speaker 1: that would have offended me, it would have went all
Speaker 1: the way to a whole other level. So people thought
Speaker 1: I was I was joking, but I wasn't. Really, I
Speaker 1: wasn't Madden, and I was just showing them like, don't play,
Speaker 1: especially when you with your kids. We can't even play
Speaker 1: well with nobody that I care about, you feel, especially
Speaker 1: my kids. So I just wanted to just let like
Speaker 1: just draw that line right there. All right, we got
Speaker 1: more with g Herbert when we come back. Don't move.
Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, Breakfast Club holding everybody
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we all
Speaker 1: the breakfast club was still kicking it with g Herbal Yee.
Speaker 1: What do your parents have to say about this? Because
Speaker 1: I'm sure my mom will be calling me all the
Speaker 1: time saying she's proud and stuff like that. She just
Speaker 1: called me the other day like you're so smart. She
Speaker 1: was watching one of my interviews and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: But she know I had to turn into this, but
Speaker 1: she said, like she just told me this look saying.
Speaker 1: She was saying, she said, You've always been the captain
Speaker 1: of your ship vessel of your soul, because when I
Speaker 1: was sixteen fifteen, I was really making decisions like a
Speaker 1: grown man. You know what I'm saying. My mom was
Speaker 1: letting her sixteen year old son leave out the house,
Speaker 1: and she know I'm not going to school. She know
Speaker 1: I'm about that, you know what I'm saying, dance with
Speaker 1: the devil in a sense, and she allowed me to
Speaker 1: do that. And I feel like if she didn't allow
Speaker 1: me to do that, I wouldn't even be the man
Speaker 1: that I am right now today, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I get credit to both parents. You know, what
Speaker 1: could you have for seeing your career in lasting? Really,
Speaker 1: it's been a long time already than you're only twenty
Speaker 1: four years old, because you have foreseen this back when
Speaker 1: you were like sixteen years old, that you would have
Speaker 1: this longevity, that you would be here, you'd be moving
Speaker 1: to LA you'd be having this life. I wanted to be,
Speaker 1: but I didn't know what I needed to do to
Speaker 1: get there, because, like I said, I was really suffering
Speaker 1: from a mental illness. I had PTS decens I was
Speaker 1: a kid, So I really thought that I was gonna
Speaker 1: be able to be in the hood and maneuver the
Speaker 1: same way I did when I was in the streets,
Speaker 1: and we all know that's not the recipe for success.
Speaker 1: So I wanted I had these aspirations, but I feel
Speaker 1: like life going through the stuff that I'm you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like just the life though at you
Speaker 1: I feel like kind of gave me to what I
Speaker 1: got now to really make sure I'm staying around. Because
Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna be on my block and
Speaker 1: the Rose Royce kicking it with fifty is you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, You know, like that with the biggest
Speaker 1: target on my forehead forget my back. So I really
Speaker 1: thought that that was gonna be my life. But I
Speaker 1: like now, like probably in the past two or three years,
Speaker 1: I knew it, like I noticed for a reason. I
Speaker 1: know I'm doing something because I'm here to stay, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Because you would think that your
Speaker 1: your hood would be happy for other black men whom
Speaker 1: it would be happy for you. Yeah, you shouldn't have
Speaker 1: to move away from that. Yeah, but you also can't
Speaker 1: go on the Rolls Royce in the middle of the
Speaker 1: hood and just be all the time. Yeah, that's also
Speaker 1: kind of like rubbing stuffing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: some people look at it, but I always but it's
Speaker 1: like inspiration. It's inspiration. It's inspiration because I was I
Speaker 1: was on them same corners, stub shoes, guns, all that.
Speaker 1: I was on them, same corners, doing everything that they
Speaker 1: was doing. And then they really like, I'm humble, bro.
Speaker 1: I touched the people, like pull up in the Rolls
Speaker 1: Royce truck and hit on everybody. I'm gonna pull up
Speaker 1: in the Rose Race truck and lets the kids hop
Speaker 1: in my shop? What did you for world mean to you?
Speaker 1: That's my little brother man. I think about them every
Speaker 1: single day. Um, you know, and I'll be saying like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I'm in New York. I'll probably
Speaker 1: ain't gonna like me saying this, but I think like
Speaker 1: what Juice was to our generation, Brough and an impact
Speaker 1: that he had on us is what Biggie did for
Speaker 1: New York for real. He had that like that Biggie
Speaker 1: Pop effect. Why he said, he means so much for
Speaker 1: this generation. But was it that that that gave me
Speaker 1: that feeling? The content with it? His commercial success, it
Speaker 1: was all, but it was also his vulnerability. He like
Speaker 1: he was a vulnerability in his music. Man, he helped people,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, when I met that kid,
Speaker 1: he had in his id already. He wasn't trying to
Speaker 1: chase the glory. He wasn't doing none of the stuff
Speaker 1: he was doing because he was famous. And I feel
Speaker 1: like inside out he did what made him happy. And
Speaker 1: with him being itself, he had laid that leg He
Speaker 1: got a real legacy that's gonna live on forever. And
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I feel like, so that's what
Speaker 1: what I mean. Better, So, how do you prevent a
Speaker 1: situation like that? I mean, you can't really prevent anything.
Speaker 1: Like when you think about that and you processed that,
Speaker 1: how do you how do you avoid something like that?
Speaker 1: Happened to me? Um, life is gonna be life. That's
Speaker 1: why I did go to the detox facility that I
Speaker 1: went to because I knew I was at it. I
Speaker 1: got an addictive personality. I used to drink a lot
Speaker 1: of lane. I used to pop a lot of pills,
Speaker 1: and so I knew that the same way I was
Speaker 1: in the streets, and I knew that I could die
Speaker 1: being in the streets. I knew I could die from
Speaker 1: drug abuse. You know what I'm saying, drug addiction. Every
Speaker 1: day I did. I'm like, of course I don't want
Speaker 1: to die. That ain't gonna be me. But I knew
Speaker 1: I could you know what I'm saying. So I moved
Speaker 1: accordingly like that And it was really my son, Bro,
Speaker 1: my son, and reason why I went. The reason I
Speaker 1: think is so dope when a brother like you talked
Speaker 1: about their mental health issues and goes to therapy, because
Speaker 1: that's all Jewics world needed. He needed someone that one
Speaker 1: conversation to say, Bro, whatever you're dealing with, the anxiety,
Speaker 1: the trauma to PTSD, we'll get some health. But I
Speaker 1: used to talk to Jews. I remember one time we
Speaker 1: was in London. We had a conversation for like an
Speaker 1: houris in the hallway our hotel, and I was just
Speaker 1: telling them how to deal with everything, like his success,
Speaker 1: how to deal with being in a relationship, how to
Speaker 1: deal with you know what I'm saying, everything where his
Speaker 1: family really not having nothing to do with music, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, this dealing with life. We appreciate
Speaker 1: you for joining us. J Herb always the breakfast club,
Speaker 1: good morning, taking you back right back with the classic
Speaker 1: re one. We would It's the Breakfast Club was a podcast.
Speaker 1: It's topic time. The phone called eight hundred five A
Speaker 1: five one oh five one to join it to the
Speaker 1: discussion with the Breakfast Club. Talk about it morning. Everybody's
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne the guy, we are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Now if you just joined us, Charlomagne gave
Speaker 1: Donkey data who man This dude from New York City.
Speaker 1: Man his name is um Edwin Petroza and he actually
Speaker 1: stabbed a man named jay Neuez the death because Jay
Speaker 1: new Neez held the door for him and jay Neunez
Speaker 1: said to him, why don't you say thank you? And
Speaker 1: Edwin said, I didn't ask you to hold the door
Speaker 1: for me, and then that led into an altercation that
Speaker 1: led him to stab jay new Right, so we're asking
Speaker 1: eight hundred five A five one oh five one, or
Speaker 1: do you expect to deserve a thank you? By the way,
Speaker 1: that goes with that whole you're welcome thing, y'all keep saying, like,
Speaker 1: if you open the door for somebody and the person
Speaker 1: doesn't say thank you, and then you say you're welcome,
Speaker 1: that's kind of the same thing as saying, hey, why
Speaker 1: don't you say thank you, which led to this altercation,
Speaker 1: which led to this incident that's never happened to me.
Speaker 1: I just say you're welcome and keep moving. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: had a whole Hello's welcome. This is from Damp Road
Speaker 1: Campter Road seven five seven. Yes. Now, now you're walking
Speaker 1: in the store and you and you decide to hold
Speaker 1: open the one of these doors for somebody and they
Speaker 1: don't say nothing what you're doing. I'm loving if they
Speaker 1: don't say thank you, Oh you let the door Sam, Yes,
Speaker 1: because I say thank you when I'm in trying faking someone.
Speaker 1: Let you do the little wave like thank you. I
Speaker 1: do that too, So it's common courtesy. And if people
Speaker 1: can't say thank you, they don't converge the common courtesy.
Speaker 1: But you know, you can't expect you from other people, man,
Speaker 1: and and and sometimes when you don't get you from
Speaker 1: other people, you know, like it just is what it is.
Speaker 1: It's common courtesy. So I'm going to let the door go.
Speaker 1: That's just rude. Thank you? And how do you let
Speaker 1: the dog go before? Because if you're holding the door
Speaker 1: and they don't say thank you, they already got to
Speaker 1: get through those I do that too, though that I
Speaker 1: know exactly what you was talking about. What you said,
Speaker 1: because I do the same exactly. You just let it go.
Speaker 1: They hit them baking the back of the back of
Speaker 1: your back of the ass. Hello, who's this all right?
Speaker 1: This is Bianca calling from I'm calling from the Bronx
Speaker 1: right now. Oh oh boy. That somebody walking that door.
Speaker 1: You hold that door for somebody, they don't say thank you?
Speaker 1: What is the BX door? Listen, that's a problem. Like
Speaker 1: if you can't give a person a common curtesy of
Speaker 1: same thank you when they hold the door for you,
Speaker 1: that you are a trash from the being out them line.
Speaker 1: But we know, but we know it is though. That's
Speaker 1: my point. It's like, if you're if you're a good person,
Speaker 1: you gotta just be cool with being a good person
Speaker 1: because everybody not gonna do do you the way you
Speaker 1: would do somebody else. I mean walk, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna throw off my whole day by not
Speaker 1: saying thank you. But I am looking at you and
Speaker 1: wonder what's wrong with you? Because who sup that? And
Speaker 1: I mus say and I was saying, this isn't go together.
Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes people aren't paying attention. They on their phone,
Speaker 1: they're doing things and you say you're welcome, They're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. Different yeah, and you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, thank you. It could be just an oversight,
Speaker 1: know when the person is paying attention, you know, and
Speaker 1: they just walk through the door like you owe them
Speaker 1: that and they don't say thank you? What you exactly?
Speaker 1: Thank you? B X. I'm gonna tell you you're welcome.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you how this altercation started. Once again,
Speaker 1: they held the door. I'll tell you that'll be more
Speaker 1: of the story. Hello, who's this? Four? Three? Oh boy,
Speaker 1: I see how this is gonna goes. So you walk
Speaker 1: somebody walking through the door, you hold the door from
Speaker 1: they keep people. We don't say nothing. Man. I feel
Speaker 1: just like, man, my grandma taught me every big further
Speaker 1: than money, and I think, what if you want to
Speaker 1: do pretty young li with a night spooky? That's the
Speaker 1: feet last uh type? I added school where you know,
Speaker 1: like it feel like I'm do it, but really no,
Speaker 1: I do feel good. And then hey when that hey,
Speaker 1: when that girl with your big bunky walked by, you say, boy,
Speaker 1: that girl fat out many man, I just smile. Man,
Speaker 1: you know what, so what are you doing? What are
Speaker 1: you doing with like saying, somebody Charlottagne, you know, thick
Speaker 1: thighs over there, he comes to it? Shut up, man,
Speaker 1: you know what I what I do is I'm going
Speaker 1: firth and I just kind of hold the door and
Speaker 1: let him coming behind me. But he don't walk in
Speaker 1: before you. No, no, no, it depends. It depends. I
Speaker 1: thank you. By what's the ball of the story though,
Speaker 1: I mean more of the story is. Man. You just
Speaker 1: can't expect things from people. You can't expect you from
Speaker 1: from other people. And I'm not gonna take it personal.
Speaker 1: You know, if if if somebody doesn't say thank you,
Speaker 1: because I'm not holding the door for them because I
Speaker 1: want to thank you, I'm holding to doing them because
Speaker 1: I'm a nice person. It's just the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Speaker 1: the breakfast Club. Morning everybody on DJ m Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlotte and the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We
Speaker 1: got a special guests in the building. She's got a
Speaker 1: new book out her Uphill, her memoir. That's right, great
Speaker 1: picture by the way, thank you. How many of them
Speaker 1: do you have to pick through before you landed on
Speaker 1: this one? You know what? Um and this is gonna
Speaker 1: sound far more delicious than I actually mean it. But
Speaker 1: that was from a Playboy shoot. I did, what Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you Playboy? Yeah, because Playboy, um, reading for the
Speaker 1: articles is good writing, it's very good writing. And Playboy
Speaker 1: every let me see what pictures on the back. They
Speaker 1: did a feature on me um at some point. I
Speaker 1: think it was earlier this year. And so the photo shoot, Uh,
Speaker 1: the photographer I think believe his name is Eric Carter.
Speaker 1: He's based out of la He took some phenomenal photos.
Speaker 1: So because during covid um, you know, we couldn't really
Speaker 1: work out how to you know, get new photos taken.
Speaker 1: So I was like, I love these from the Playboy shoot.
Speaker 1: That's play a joke on the husband be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm doing a shoot with Playboy. Oh I totally did.
Speaker 1: Like that was just like I'm gonna being Playboy. He
Speaker 1: was like, what anymore? No, I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think it's like a more of a you know, content
Speaker 1: or they've always had good articles and play I'm serious, listen.
Speaker 1: Alex Hayley wrote for play Boy. Okay, so like, I
Speaker 1: don't think anybody ever went to Playboy for the articles
Speaker 1: you're telling on yourself right now. But that's okay. I
Speaker 1: love the title little Book to uphill. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: a play on your last name, of course, but I
Speaker 1: mean it actually isn't. It's not, And it was not
Speaker 1: my title idea. This was not the original title that
Speaker 1: I wanted three that came in third. No, the original
Speaker 1: title I wanted was Broken Curses because I talked a
Speaker 1: lot about my family history, family trauma and all of
Speaker 1: that and my mother and I'm sure you know, you
Speaker 1: guys have heard this before from elders or from your
Speaker 1: parents or uncles or whatever, but the fact that there
Speaker 1: are generational curses, and my mother used to talk about,
Speaker 1: you know, breaking those in our family. And so that's
Speaker 1: why I wanted to name in Broken Curses. But my
Speaker 1: publisher they thought it was a little too negative, that
Speaker 1: it wasn't uplifting enough. And my book editor, Shannon shout
Speaker 1: out to you, Shannon, she came up with that title.
Speaker 1: Up you okay, And I said to you, the chosen
Speaker 1: one because honestly, you talk about your mom and the
Speaker 1: things that she's been through and your whole family, and
Speaker 1: it's a lot, and so how did she feel about,
Speaker 1: you know, these stories being told? So I talked to
Speaker 1: my mother, But we had numerous conversations about what was
Speaker 1: going to be in this book, and she knew what
Speaker 1: I was doing in the journey that I was on
Speaker 1: and writing it, and knew that I wanted to write
Speaker 1: it transparently. But honestly, Angel, that was probably the most
Speaker 1: difficult part, because I was I was. I was in
Speaker 1: the unfortunate position of asking my mother about the worst
Speaker 1: moments of her life. And I tried to save those
Speaker 1: conversations for last, if you will, so that we could
Speaker 1: talk about it'd be happier things and fund memories, just
Speaker 1: to kind of not come from a traumatic, you know, perspective.
Speaker 1: And so it was tough. I mean, my mother told
Speaker 1: me some stories I did not even know. You know,
Speaker 1: the story that I tell in the book about her okay,
Speaker 1: but you know, I guess it's an example of a story.
Speaker 1: But the story I tell them the book about how
Speaker 1: one of her low points during her addiction was being,
Speaker 1: you know, caught in this drug house and having to
Speaker 1: hide out from drug dealers in that house on the floor,
Speaker 1: on a rat infestive floor. I didn't even know that
Speaker 1: story until she told me, because I happened when I
Speaker 1: was in college. I was so scared with that part.
Speaker 1: It was underneath those dirty clothes, rats running around, yep,
Speaker 1: and she had to stay and I thought they was
Speaker 1: going to steal her car while she was inside. Uh. Well,
Speaker 1: her her car as our tail did eventually get stolen,
Speaker 1: you know. Um, and uh it was nothing she could
Speaker 1: do about it, but it was where she was at
Speaker 1: the time that was stolen. At what she was doing.
Speaker 1: How did you feel having those conversations with your mom,
Speaker 1: because that had to be emotional. I was reading some
Speaker 1: of that stuff that she went through and I was
Speaker 1: like in tears. Um it was. It was difficult, and
Speaker 1: but I think for her it was cathartic because these
Speaker 1: are traumatic incidents that you know, during the time after
Speaker 1: she was you know, sexually abused, and as I telling
Speaker 1: the book, she was the victim of a violent rape.
Speaker 1: You know, people weren't going to therapy then, like that
Speaker 1: wasn't suggested and as you know, Charlemagne from your work
Speaker 1: and mental health in our community, that was something we
Speaker 1: didn't do. So imagine going through all of that with
Speaker 1: no therapy. And that's why, as I discussed in the book,
Speaker 1: she was going through very severe PTSD and did not
Speaker 1: know it because that wasn't a term then that we
Speaker 1: even were familiar with. And so um, yeah, those are
Speaker 1: those are difficult conversations, but I think um at the
Speaker 1: end of them, it was really healing for both of us,
Speaker 1: you know, to be honest, like I, I certainly knew
Speaker 1: about the trauma she experienced, but her going into detail
Speaker 1: it gives me a better and more enriched perspective about
Speaker 1: who she is. Yelow, I feel like it allowed you
Speaker 1: to give her more grace. Yeah, and listen, people have
Speaker 1: been asking me about what I want people to take
Speaker 1: away from this book. It's a few things, but one
Speaker 1: of the most important things is that I want I
Speaker 1: want people to know you should talk to your people
Speaker 1: while they're here, right like your mother's, your auntie's, your father,
Speaker 1: whoever in your family, find out about them because usually,
Speaker 1: like especially your relatives and especially your parents, they live
Speaker 1: the whole life before you even got here. And writing
Speaker 1: this book it really made me miss my grandmother who
Speaker 1: died in twenty and ten, because I realized I didn't
Speaker 1: ask her nearly as much about her life as I
Speaker 1: should have. You know, even I know it's hard sometimes
Speaker 1: for parents and grandparents to share, you know, traumatic moments
Speaker 1: or their failures or disappointments, but it helps you see
Speaker 1: them as full of people, and maybe that does allow
Speaker 1: you to give them more grace with some of the
Speaker 1: decisions they made and even in some respects to how
Speaker 1: they've treated you. I was gonna ask, did you understand
Speaker 1: more after talking to your mom in writing this book,
Speaker 1: because now, even for myself, I didn't really understand until
Speaker 1: I had kids, And then when I had kids and
Speaker 1: I'm living my own life, I'm like, that's why my
Speaker 1: dad did that, That's why my mom acted that way.
Speaker 1: But you know, during the time, I don't want to
Speaker 1: say I hated them what you hated what they were
Speaker 1: doing right, But now I was like, damn, I understand.
Speaker 1: So did you understand more and were able to? You know,
Speaker 1: what I understood more is why even in present days
Speaker 1: she lives with so much regret. We had an interesting
Speaker 1: conversation recently about that because I forgave my mother for
Speaker 1: this a long time ago. I've let this guy because
Speaker 1: I think as a kid, you know, it was it
Speaker 1: was different because her trauma was something I had to
Speaker 1: navigate around. So it felt like my childhood was being
Speaker 1: stolen from me and so you know, you carry some
Speaker 1: resentment for that, and so I let that go. I
Speaker 1: forgave her, encouraged her as she was turning her life around.
Speaker 1: You know my mother, I mean, she's got her masters now,
Speaker 1: you know, she got her bachelor masters. You know, she
Speaker 1: out educated me, which I'm very very proud that she
Speaker 1: did that, and she went back to school in her fifties. Okay,
Speaker 1: and so um, you know, this has really been a
Speaker 1: remarkable turn amount for her. But yeah, I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: once I let all of that stuff, you know go,
Speaker 1: I think I was good with it. But she I
Speaker 1: think she still struggles to forgive herself because she feels
Speaker 1: like she missed so much. And but the thing isn't
Speaker 1: It's something I wrote in the book. It's like my
Speaker 1: mother was there for everything, Like even though you know
Speaker 1: she had a severe addiction. I didn't I have one
Speaker 1: of those stories where my mom was missing for days,
Speaker 1: like or didn't feed me, or the lights was cut off,
Speaker 1: and she was very protective of you no matter what.
Speaker 1: So like I didn't. That wasn't my story necessarily, because
Speaker 1: I know some people who are the child the child
Speaker 1: of addicts, they do have that story. But she was there,
Speaker 1: but she wasn't always present, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And so I think because she was trying to, um,
Speaker 1: you know, figure out how to come out of all
Speaker 1: the darkness she was in. I had to figure out
Speaker 1: ways to navigate around her abuse, her drug abuse. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's like, I don't know what
Speaker 1: mood you're gonna be, and I don't know what person
Speaker 1: I'm getting today. I don't know when I come home
Speaker 1: what dynamic I'm going to find. And so that for
Speaker 1: me was where the resentment was coming from. Its feeling like, man,
Speaker 1: I got to do all this, you know, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: trying to be a kid, and it's all this seriousness
Speaker 1: and darkness kind of around us. And so I think
Speaker 1: once I really talk to her about it, and we've
Speaker 1: talked throughout the years, but it definitely helped me to
Speaker 1: understand a lot of the decision she made. Watching what
Speaker 1: she went through. Did it like scale you away from
Speaker 1: drugs and alcohol? Oh? I mean, you know, like I've
Speaker 1: never ever tried hard drugs in my life. I don't
Speaker 1: know anybody who's done any of that. I mean that
Speaker 1: I know, I don't. I'm not on that scene I'm
Speaker 1: not about that. I mean I smoked a little weed
Speaker 1: like hearing there, Um they had taken an edible or
Speaker 1: two me like like that's about it. Um. And I
Speaker 1: do like tequila. But knowing the history of addiction in
Speaker 1: my family has definitely maybe more cognizant of somethings. All well,
Speaker 1: don't move. We got more with Jamal Hill. She has
Speaker 1: a new book up Hill that's out right now. We'll
Speaker 1: talk to it some more. It's the Breakfast Local Morning Wanting.
Speaker 1: Everybody is dj Envy Angela Yee. Charlomagne, the guy we
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club was still kicking it with Jamael Hill.
Speaker 1: Ye did your mom forgive her mother? Did she have
Speaker 1: that opportunity to have those conversations? So they didn't, They
Speaker 1: didn't get to the best place they were. There was
Speaker 1: always unconditional love. My mother loved my grandmother fierce. But
Speaker 1: when my grandmother made the decision not to believe her
Speaker 1: about the abuse my mother suffered at the hands of
Speaker 1: her brother, it was a fracture in their relationship that
Speaker 1: never healed. And unfortunately, even when my grandmother died, like
Speaker 1: my mother's was her caretaker, you know, like she regardless
Speaker 1: of whatever state their relationship was in in the moment.
Speaker 1: My mother was never going to abandon and stop loving
Speaker 1: my grandmother. And my grandmother definitely loved her, but she
Speaker 1: herself was somebody who you know, we used to have
Speaker 1: conversations about this, Like she used to tell me, like
Speaker 1: she didn't really want kids, and she felt she was
Speaker 1: a very smart woman, you know, and she was really
Speaker 1: she really wanted a career, like the kind of career
Speaker 1: I had, not necessarily a journalist, but she wanted a career.
Speaker 1: She wanted to travel the world, all these things. And
Speaker 1: she was born in nineteen twenty five, and so education
Speaker 1: for black women was not a thing in terms of
Speaker 1: people thinking that they should be educated or that there
Speaker 1: was value in that. As you know, during those times,
Speaker 1: I mean, everything that a woman wanted to get financially
Speaker 1: or any upper mobility came through marriage. And so she
Speaker 1: was married three times and you know, she she had
Speaker 1: her three kids, but she was just in many ways
Speaker 1: trapped in a life she didn't feel like she chose.
Speaker 1: And UM, I think because of that, she wasn't the
Speaker 1: best parent to um, my mother and to um, you know,
Speaker 1: my uncle that she she could have been. She struggled
Speaker 1: a lot that got avicted a lot. Her grandmother was
Speaker 1: a functional alcoholic. Like they they had some they had
Speaker 1: some trauma, some real issues. And so she was a
Speaker 1: great grandmother to me, and my mother would still call
Speaker 1: her a great mother despite all the all the you know,
Speaker 1: troubles that they went through. But I just think that,
Speaker 1: um my mother never got the grandparent I got right,
Speaker 1: you know. And I was asking, is there anything that
Speaker 1: you decided not to put in the book? That she
Speaker 1: was like, you know, let's leave this out or I'm
Speaker 1: gonna take this out. Other family members are not gonna
Speaker 1: like this. I know y'all like to hear the inside,
Speaker 1: y'all know, I know, people keep it real here and
Speaker 1: the tea. There was one thing I cannot tell y'all
Speaker 1: what it was. Me and my mother got into an
Speaker 1: enormous argument about this, and the thing is is that
Speaker 1: it was the only thing in the book. She was
Speaker 1: because she got an early copy, like an advanced reader
Speaker 1: copy where you can still edit and change things, and
Speaker 1: she was hot about it and we had it out.
Speaker 1: But the funny thing was, after our argument, she told
Speaker 1: you know, some of her friends about it, and they
Speaker 1: told her she was tripping, and I had a time
Speaker 1: to think about it, reflect on it. I talked to
Speaker 1: my husband about it. And you know the thing, when
Speaker 1: you write a memoir, you're writing about people who really exist,
Speaker 1: and so you have to be careful, truthful, but careful,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So that's why when I
Speaker 1: talk about the abortion I had, I did not use
Speaker 1: the person's real name because I don't know if they've
Speaker 1: told that story. I don't know if his people know
Speaker 1: or what state that's in, and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: take away that opportunity from him to tell his story
Speaker 1: his own way. So with my mother, I had to
Speaker 1: think about the fact that what is this relationship going
Speaker 1: to look like after this book? And while I didn't
Speaker 1: anticipate my mother but stopped talking to me or that,
Speaker 1: but it could be a wage issue. And this is
Speaker 1: in print, you know what I'm saying, it's forever, right,
Speaker 1: So I had to really think about do I really
Speaker 1: want to do this. I can't imagine what it could
Speaker 1: be because there's so much. I'll tell y'all, fair, I
Speaker 1: tell y'all, even look your journal, you discuss that, yeah,
Speaker 1: oh gee man? And for parents, let me ask the
Speaker 1: guys in the room because y'all have kids. Would you
Speaker 1: read your daughter's journal if you saw it laying around?
Speaker 1: I would tell my wife you would, really because you
Speaker 1: don't want to read it. Yeah, yeah, I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't want to read it. What I do think I
Speaker 1: probably would read it only because I just feel like
Speaker 1: there's certain things that we should know his parents, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I would definitely, you would definitely
Speaker 1: read it because and I would only read I say yes,
Speaker 1: because I've gone through the phone. Oh, I mean that's
Speaker 1: not the same though, Yes, it is exactly. They could
Speaker 1: not beat you some things. It could be just you.
Speaker 1: It could be you just venting something. You know, something's
Speaker 1: bothering you that you don't talk about when you're thinking
Speaker 1: about committing suicide or hurting yourself or hurting somebody. So
Speaker 1: if I can stop that, and maybe you hate me,
Speaker 1: but hopefully you love me less because I was able
Speaker 1: to stop that. Now, if it's something else, I mind
Speaker 1: my business and act like I didn't read it. But
Speaker 1: it was something, then you could have, you know, hurt
Speaker 1: yourself for somebody else, hurt a classmate. Well, how do
Speaker 1: you look at that, Jamil? Obviously I disagree, and I
Speaker 1: got my asshoop because of it, okay, and ever, and
Speaker 1: that was the thing, is that because of all the
Speaker 1: you know, tumultuousness in our life, that I needed someplace
Speaker 1: to vent. You know, I couldn't vent to my grandmother
Speaker 1: because my grandmother didn't that causes friction between her and
Speaker 1: my mother. I was too embarrassed to vent to my
Speaker 1: friends and let them in on the issues. Not like
Speaker 1: I could pick a teacher because that's a double ass
Speaker 1: whooping coming right. He didn't have the didn't have therapy.
Speaker 1: So my journal was literally that And so I think
Speaker 1: that might be, that might be that's the top three
Speaker 1: frightening moment of my life. Did you come home and
Speaker 1: your mother is sitting there with your journal, opening it,
Speaker 1: reading it exactly? I mean that woman, I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like, you try to kill me straight up?
Speaker 1: When she read the advanced copy of the book. Did
Speaker 1: it bring you back to that moment? Oh? Like it
Speaker 1: was trigger and writing it, I was just like, okay,
Speaker 1: because that's that's the worst assholee But she ever gave
Speaker 1: me in my life, like there's nothing that comes to
Speaker 1: it was and then she you know, years later, she
Speaker 1: was like you know you didn't deserve them. Well, can
Speaker 1: you go back in time and want me? Can you
Speaker 1: do this? But you know it was, but she it was.
Speaker 1: It was. That was one of our actually most fun
Speaker 1: conversations because there were details of that that I did
Speaker 1: not remember. And I was like, that don't really sound
Speaker 1: like me because she told me that, um well, one
Speaker 1: she was sitting there with my journal and then she
Speaker 1: was like, let's talk about this in the basement. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm never coming back like this, and
Speaker 1: she said that's when I told her that I wanted
Speaker 1: to go live with my father. I was like, what
Speaker 1: would possess me to say that? You were about to
Speaker 1: get And that's why she bagged up all my shot,
Speaker 1: put it in there and took me right to his
Speaker 1: job and was like she's all yours now. And I
Speaker 1: was like, this was a grave mistake on my part.
Speaker 1: This man, yeah, but you know I was able to
Speaker 1: keep a journal later as an adult and I actually
Speaker 1: had an ex who read my journal too, and who
Speaker 1: I mean, people need to not be nosy, and I
Speaker 1: guess it's your child. I understand what they said as fire,
Speaker 1: but man, all right. We got more with Jamal Hill
Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club
Speaker 1: the morning morning, everybody's dj V and shove me and
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club was still kicking
Speaker 1: it with Jameel Hill and my sports question, Oh go
Speaker 1: Raymond Green, Jordan Pools, Raymond Green's punches him in the face.
Speaker 1: Can Jordan Pools stated and play comfortably there? Well? And
Speaker 1: I think this is this was evident before this incident,
Speaker 1: just because the state that they, you know, go to
Speaker 1: states in in terms of their finances. I mean, that's
Speaker 1: a hell of check that don't have to write in
Speaker 1: luxury taxes alone. If they decide to resign Draymond, give
Speaker 1: him a new deal rather, And so I think it
Speaker 1: was probably trending toward him not being there anyway. And
Speaker 1: you know, I know Draymond um good dude. I know
Speaker 1: people have polarizing opinions about him. That was a bad
Speaker 1: moment obviously. Now. The only thing I debated with people
Speaker 1: who called it a sucker punch. That was not a
Speaker 1: sucker punch, right, Like, It's just there's an aggressive moment
Speaker 1: that's happening, and I know that's your teammate, and people
Speaker 1: are like, oh, but you know, he should have recognized
Speaker 1: as his teammate and he wasn't expecting to punch. Have
Speaker 1: you seen family members fright? Yes? I certainly have, right, So, Um,
Speaker 1: I just think that was a really bad moment for him.
Speaker 1: I think he recognizes that. I think he is honestly remorseful.
Speaker 1: But I don't see them coexisting. Jordan Bulls should ducked
Speaker 1: because anything, if you push somebody that hard, you gotta
Speaker 1: expect something that's coming back, right Yeah, Um, I mean
Speaker 1: this is this is not Jordan's Pull's fault at all,
Speaker 1: but I think because of the finances, he won't be there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I was on the fence at first because
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know, because this might be
Speaker 1: one of those oh no, because of this incident, because
Speaker 1: this might want to be one of those things that
Speaker 1: like early in the season, there's certainly, you know, some
Speaker 1: momentum that you have now, but the season drags on,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I don't know how they
Speaker 1: respond and are able to play when you have that
Speaker 1: big of a issue. That's kind of right there. But
Speaker 1: these guys are veterans. I think they're hungry. I think
Speaker 1: they kind of know it's their last stand, So I
Speaker 1: do I expect them to repeat as well. Ben Simmons,
Speaker 1: Russell Westbrook, what's the question? I mean, who's better? What's
Speaker 1: the one word that comes to your mind? Miss? But
Speaker 1: you know, honestly, I feel really bad for Russell Westbrook because,
Speaker 1: you know, especially no, no, no, I mean Ben Simmons.
Speaker 1: I think he's not as bad as people think, you know,
Speaker 1: And and what you hate to see is when you
Speaker 1: look at an athlete and you could tell psychologically something's
Speaker 1: going on, you know what I'm saying, And it's just
Speaker 1: it feels like criticizing him. And this is not to
Speaker 1: say that he doesn't deserve, you know, some criticism, but
Speaker 1: it just feels like he's mentally worn out. That's what
Speaker 1: he seems like to me. Russell Westbrook's the same thing
Speaker 1: is that because Russell it's clearly frustrated. I don't Russell
Speaker 1: doesn't want to play this ship like he doesn't want
Speaker 1: to do that. But now, and this is the gift
Speaker 1: and curse of playing with Lebron. It's never gonna be
Speaker 1: Lebron's fault. I'm not saying it is, but the people
Speaker 1: that play around Lebron. Remember how the people used to
Speaker 1: be on Chris Bosh all the time, like it's always
Speaker 1: somebody that when they play with him, that becomes the
Speaker 1: target for all the frustration over you know, losing, over
Speaker 1: all of this, and it's Russell Westbrook. They have made
Speaker 1: him the villain of the team. And I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about the organization itself, but fans, you know, and he's
Speaker 1: clearly struggling. I kind of agree with what Charles Barkley said.
Speaker 1: I don't really see the joy in his game like
Speaker 1: I used to. Like, he's certainly still a great athlete,
Speaker 1: but you'd be crazy not to think it's not mentally
Speaker 1: wearing on him that he's not thinking about this every
Speaker 1: time he takes a shot. The fact that the fans
Speaker 1: are boring him. It reminds me of when Josh Smith
Speaker 1: played in Atlanta and every time it took a three
Speaker 1: point of the crowd be like no, it's like I
Speaker 1: feel like I hear that every time Russell like takes
Speaker 1: a shot, like people are mad, right, And so to
Speaker 1: play like that in your hometown, right, and that's that's
Speaker 1: the vibe. You can't tell me that that mentally that
Speaker 1: wouldn't break you a little bit. That's interesting because I
Speaker 1: feel like Ben is mental and Russ is just physical.
Speaker 1: The rust still got that energy and confidence if he's
Speaker 1: physically able to play the way he used to. I
Speaker 1: mean I sensed the I sense certainly the energy. I
Speaker 1: don't mean to make a sound like he's melod an
Speaker 1: aner like that, but it's like a joy that comes
Speaker 1: to playing with basketball, and it doesn't feel like he's
Speaker 1: playing with a lot of joy. That's all, no cowboy questions.
Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna get some bolts. I think
Speaker 1: the Giants look good, you know. I mean, I'm sure
Speaker 1: Daniel Jones is thinking about how he got slandered when
Speaker 1: they made that pick, and definitely the last couple of years,
Speaker 1: but they didn't have as good of a team. I
Speaker 1: think because they have now love Brian day Ball like
Speaker 1: you know it definitely one of those coaches I've been
Speaker 1: watching for a while, and so he felt he felt
Speaker 1: like he would be a good fit for this team.
Speaker 1: So look New York Football Jet saying Giants. You know
Speaker 1: Roberts Salt like he was. I'm a forty nine Ers fan.
Speaker 1: He was always wonder well as as she's gonna be
Speaker 1: alliance fan. Yeah, I listened. I value my mental health,
Speaker 1: and that was that's what you're talking about all the time, right,
Speaker 1: It's like mental health as well for my mental health.
Speaker 1: I was never a Lions fan. And it's crazy because
Speaker 1: my husband's a huge Lions fan. He was at the
Speaker 1: Cowboys game. And uh no, I mean so my mother,
Speaker 1: as y'all know from being the book, you know, she
Speaker 1: spent some time in Oakland, um, you know, and that's
Speaker 1: where I was, I think conceived, okay, and so because
Speaker 1: of that, she liked the forty nine ers, and so
Speaker 1: you know, she would root for the Lions and for
Speaker 1: the forty nine ers. She really liked Joe Montana. That
Speaker 1: was like one of her favorite players. And so I
Speaker 1: just you know, they were winning team. Why would you
Speaker 1: not go with the winning team? Right? So it's like, well, greted.
Speaker 1: You grew up in South Carolina, so y'all didn't have
Speaker 1: your own NFL team, and a lot of a lot
Speaker 1: of black fans that were not in um NFL cities
Speaker 1: were Cowboys fan. He was I'm that word like in DC.
Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of a not so quiet secret.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of Cowboys fans in DC, right, And
Speaker 1: so at any rate, so I just became a fortey
Speaker 1: nine Ers fan. I've been with him, um, you know,
Speaker 1: ever since. But Robert Salt was like a great coach.
Speaker 1: Trust so I when he was going through that last
Speaker 1: year with the Jets, I was like, this dude about
Speaker 1: to show. He about to show them because he's got
Speaker 1: the He gets players to buy in, certainly from a
Speaker 1: schematic standpoint, like he's a really good coach. What about offense,
Speaker 1: he'll look a little rough shore we do look a
Speaker 1: little rough. But that defense, it's a championship level defense.
Speaker 1: And this was the kind of defense I wish Tony
Speaker 1: Robot would have had. You know, that's that that's no,
Speaker 1: in no way a shot at Dak Prescott. But people
Speaker 1: like to as you know, um, they like to hate
Speaker 1: on Tony Robo, but they forget that he had categorically
Speaker 1: some of the worst defenses in NFL history. And I
Speaker 1: was like, damn, if they haven't had this defense with him,
Speaker 1: y'all might have won. Y'all might have won a couple,
Speaker 1: but they didn't. Got the second best record in the league.
Speaker 1: You know, we beat them. No, here we go, y'all
Speaker 1: go through this on the Daily Base Show. You know,
Speaker 1: we beat the Giants right, But I like the Cowboys,
Speaker 1: but you don't like picking them over the forty. Right.
Speaker 1: You know you're going to Super Bowl, the Ship Championship.
Speaker 1: We know, we know that in San Francisco. That's why
Speaker 1: we had to come to Dallas last year. Give y'all
Speaker 1: a peace, Okay, we appreciate you. Get up hills all
Speaker 1: right now. I appreciate y'all. Oh, and I just want
Speaker 1: to say one last thing about Jamil Hill. When I
Speaker 1: announced my show, she called me in the middle of
Speaker 1: the night from Portugal. You're in Portugal. No, I wasn't
Speaker 1: in Portugal, but I was. I was somewhere out of
Speaker 1: the country. Was my France. Maybe I was in south
Speaker 1: of France hanging with this dude said remember, oh, yeah
Speaker 1: you were here. Okay, so maybe I was, but I
Speaker 1: was gone. You're gone. No, I went on the night.
Speaker 1: She was like, I just want to say congratulations. I
Speaker 1: would say that it's so nice. Yeah, no, Angela, I appreciate.
Speaker 1: I'm really proud of you for doing your thing. And
Speaker 1: as I wrote in the note to you in the
Speaker 1: in the book, is that you um, you know the agency,
Speaker 1: you betting on yourself, Like that's very not just admirable,
Speaker 1: but it's very inspiring for somebody like me who throughout
Speaker 1: this this season of my career, that's what I've done.
Speaker 1: It's like that on myself. So I love seeing other
Speaker 1: women do um you know the same thing. Yea, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm my girl. Let me tell you something. I was late.
Speaker 1: They were envy with stressed because he had to do
Speaker 1: my job. Because what you want me to leave? Thank you?
Speaker 1: Get up Hill, Jamel Hill her memoirs out right now,
Speaker 1: that's right. I'm trying to be a bestseller, y'all. That
Speaker 1: devil brekfast Club. Wow, donkey to day us to a
Speaker 1: thirty one year old man from Connecticut name for Rinds
Speaker 1: and Murphy. Let let me be the first to admit
Speaker 1: that this young man is the reason your uncle Sharla,
Speaker 1: no matter how hard he tries, can't stop saying the
Speaker 1: word nigga. Okay, maybe the adjustment that needed to happen
Speaker 1: is we don't refer to people as the N word,
Speaker 1: but we just refer to actions as nigga. Tree that way,
Speaker 1: they can apply to all races, colors, and creeds. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying all that to say there's absolutely no way
Speaker 1: you can listen to this story and not say this nigga. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me hear Uncle Rugg's real quick play for me
Speaker 1: one time. Rett me set the tone. I wanted to
Speaker 1: play a game, shut up work. Yes it is now.
Speaker 1: Forenzo was a fugitive and he was on the run
Speaker 1: from Connecticut authorities. See Forenzo was serving a four year
Speaker 1: sentence on a robbery charge. Don't get me wrong, one
Speaker 1: day in prison is one day too long. But a
Speaker 1: four year bid, people will take that scratching a heartbeat. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a high school term. Freshman is senior bomb, four
Speaker 1: years done. Okay, that's one presidential term, long time, no doubt.
Speaker 1: But as someone doing ten years, as someone doing twenty,
Speaker 1: as someone doing life, how did that compare to four years?
Speaker 1: All right? I bet you didn't snatch that four years
Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. But Forenso was serving a four years sentence,
Speaker 1: and clearly he couldn't stay and to be there because
Speaker 1: he was in a halfway house in Bridgeport when he
Speaker 1: left without permission. That was confusing to me about this
Speaker 1: situation is if he was in the halfway house, doesn't
Speaker 1: that mean he was on the way home. I thought
Speaker 1: the point of a halfway house. Was that you were
Speaker 1: halfway home. They send you to the halfway house to
Speaker 1: get you ready to get back adjusted to society. So
Speaker 1: just a little more patience, he would have been home,
Speaker 1: but no, not forenso outside with Colin and when outside
Speaker 1: calls for some reason, niggas pick up on the first ring. Okay,
Speaker 1: So Forends and Murphy left without permission and he got caught.
Speaker 1: Would you like to know how he got caught. Let's
Speaker 1: go to News Observer for the report police. According to
Speaker 1: authorities in Georgia, a man was arrested at his own
Speaker 1: birthday party weeks after he's accused of escaping a halfway house.
Speaker 1: In Connecticut, deputies arrested Forendza Rickie Murphy on Saturday October first,
Speaker 1: a family member's home in McDonough. The thirty one year old,
Speaker 1: who deputy said was serving time on a robbery charge
Speaker 1: at a Connecticut Department of Correction halfway house in Bridgeport,
Speaker 1: was there to celebrate his birthday. Murphy was setting up
Speaker 1: for his party when deputies arrived after they received a tip.
Speaker 1: Murphy was accused of leaving the halfway house without permission
Speaker 1: and had been on the run since August eighth. He
Speaker 1: was booked into the Henry County Jail and faces additional charges. Jesus,
Speaker 1: I understand, I understand why you don't want to come
Speaker 1: back for what? For what? A party? Man? Not just
Speaker 1: any party, his own birthday party for friends, escape from
Speaker 1: jail and then got arrested at his own birthday party.
Speaker 1: Police say they got a tip. But tip do they
Speaker 1: mean invite? I'm assuming an invite. I can't prove this.
Speaker 1: I have no facts to stand on what I say this.
Speaker 1: But I know that this party was promoted on Facebook.
Speaker 1: I just if it wasn't on Facebook, it was on
Speaker 1: social media somewhere. I just know it was somebody DM
Speaker 1: me to invite. I know they had it. He probably
Speaker 1: sent it to his close friends. He probably thought he
Speaker 1: could just send it to his close friends on Instagram
Speaker 1: and nobody would be the wiser. Okay, probably promoted it
Speaker 1: as a welcome home party. I don't know. All I
Speaker 1: know is he escaped from jail in Connecticut and decided
Speaker 1: to go to Georgia and have a birthday party at
Speaker 1: the family member's house, and now he's back locked up.
Speaker 1: Now Forends has been on the run since August eighth.
Speaker 1: He would have eventually gotten caught, guaranteed, But having a
Speaker 1: birthday party while you're on the run as a fugitive,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure probably led to him getting caught faster. Okay,
Speaker 1: friends are all you had to do was that four
Speaker 1: year big and you could have had all the cake,
Speaker 1: all the cast of me goals, and all the chicken
Speaker 1: wings you want. But no, you just had to submit
Speaker 1: to your lower will, your lower nature, and participate in
Speaker 1: N word activities. Please let me get friends and Murphy
Speaker 1: the biggest he are he ha, he ha, you stupid mother?
Speaker 1: Are you dumb? And I know Jesus not come back.
Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure Jeeves regrets dying for okay, so
Speaker 1: he's not making that mistake again, all right, And I'm
Speaker 1: really trying not to say the N word anymore. But
Speaker 1: you have to tell me a word that describes just
Speaker 1: kind of behavior. Better play playing uncle ruggets for more time,
Speaker 1: regis and powerful work. That's all you can say in
Speaker 1: regard to a situation like this. But I will start
Speaker 1: referring to the actions of people as niggatry instead of
Speaker 1: referring to individuals as niggas. That's that's my evolution. What's
Speaker 1: the N word? M President Connecticut had a party in
Speaker 1: the all who said to a Now see, all I
Speaker 1: said was George. Anyone said number eight sounds like they
Speaker 1: ay to me, George is a big place, could be Savannah.
Speaker 1: He was going to be making a lot of places
Speaker 1: to Georgia. You can have a good time after party.
Speaker 1: King of Diamonds. I know diamonds ain't the Miami. Oh,
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Speaker 1: up to? Crystal? Hey? Christal? What's your question for? C?
Speaker 1: And E? All right? So I have a sister with
Speaker 1: fourteen months apart, really close. So we went on a
Speaker 1: trip to the Philippines in December. But two weeks before
Speaker 1: the trip, I got fired for my job. Three jobs,
Speaker 1: didn't it was there for ten years, So I never
Speaker 1: gave her the money for the trip when we came back,
Speaker 1: so I didn't be her. I was in my similars
Speaker 1: about being the preston you know, busk, my job or
Speaker 1: whatever the case was. So fast forward. She told me that,
Speaker 1: you know, I took advantage of her. I'm like, take
Speaker 1: advantage of you, your money's sister, Like we're a dope nobody,
Speaker 1: he's one of us to well, she's not crested the
Speaker 1: twove hundred dollars, and you know, I was just kind
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Speaker 1: a mortgage, I was my job, and we're in the
Speaker 1: middle of Corona now. So now she just matter about
Speaker 1: the talk on knowledge and she feels that I took
Speaker 1: advantage of her. I grew with her dollars. Dollars ruined her. No,
Speaker 1: why do you give her her money back? Because she
Speaker 1: lost her job, she got two kids. She shouldn't went
Speaker 1: to the Philippines then, But then she was already paid
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, clearly it wasn't. So he paid for me.
Speaker 1: Did she tell you that she was paying for you
Speaker 1: or did she paid for it with the assumption that
Speaker 1: you was gonna pay her back? I was gonna take
Speaker 1: her back exactly, so I don't happen. Job, that's right. Okay,
Speaker 1: your sister gotta take that note for me, because she
Speaker 1: see you out here still buying stuff. She see you
Speaker 1: out here still living, you still doing something that make
Speaker 1: her know that you got that twelve hundred dollars the
Speaker 1: last time you went out. Mama came back to Jamaica.
Speaker 1: I know you know it. You should give her money back.
Speaker 1: So you went to Jamaica, You should be ashamed of yourself. Oh,
Speaker 1: you the money back. I gave her her money back,
Speaker 1: but she feels that I took advantage of her. But
Speaker 1: now we're just one situation overall over our lives. But
Speaker 1: I feel like she just mean and insensitive, and based
Speaker 1: off the those feelings that I have, I don't really
Speaker 1: want to have a discussion on her anymore. Like I
Speaker 1: love my sisters, but I don't want to be friends
Speaker 1: with her anymore. Well, if you take advantage of her,
Speaker 1: she should be mad at you. Well if you if
Speaker 1: you gave her the money back, and she's just being
Speaker 1: mad at you for being mad, but she probably how
Speaker 1: long did it take to get the money back? Right
Speaker 1: before you went to Jamaica. It is kind of slack
Speaker 1: that you didn't give her her money back. You just
Speaker 1: out here ball and don't you hate when somebody owe
Speaker 1: you money and they just out here? Wrong? Y'all are
Speaker 1: missing it. I don't have two kids. She has out
Speaker 1: what you want to Jamaica? I got two kids and
Speaker 1: she got it out of here at seven. Listen, you're wrong,
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Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? Kenny? Kenny? My bad? So what's your question? Brother?
Speaker 1: My question is I'm trying to spice up my relationship
Speaker 1: and it's my girl birthday. I have two trip to
Speaker 1: have a trip to del Ray Bs, Florida and have
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Speaker 1: the last time you gave her massage, you looked it
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Speaker 1: it in that I gave a massage of the day
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Speaker 1: talked about spicing it up. I'll tell you what you
Speaker 1: need to do. You make sure you got your flowers.
Speaker 1: You make sure you got little things that she enjoys.
Speaker 1: Maybe thinks from a past that she just likes her
Speaker 1: favorite nail polish, whatever it is, her favorite slippers ain't
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Speaker 1: what's um, what's the occasional out to my girl? Jazz
Speaker 1: Jasu Williams, I love you baby? What's the occasion? Birthday?
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Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey? This is Tony. Hey Tony, what's your
Speaker 1: question for cne? Okay? Um, just a little rundown of
Speaker 1: what happened yesterday. I just need all advice on what
Speaker 1: to do how to handle this situation. Basically, my five
Speaker 1: year old, Um, he's in kindergarten. He was at school
Speaker 1: yesterday and I got a tape from his teacher saying
Speaker 1: that he's coming home with the red face you know,
Speaker 1: mind you that yet green faces you know when they
Speaker 1: do good. She said that he's coming home with a
Speaker 1: red face because he got upset with a little girl
Speaker 1: at school because she didn't want to talk to him,
Speaker 1: and he told her at lunch that he was going
Speaker 1: to burn her house out, and she said that these days,
Speaker 1: you just can't make remarks like that, and he was
Speaker 1: sensing the principal's office and she just wanted to let
Speaker 1: me know and all that kind of stuff. But I
Speaker 1: do kind of honestly feel like that that was a
Speaker 1: bit much like you know, he's only five, for one,
Speaker 1: like you're not gonna go steal my car and go
Speaker 1: burn a house. But how would you handle this and
Speaker 1: this was your child? Well, I think that he's heard
Speaker 1: you talk about them guys. How is you gonna burn
Speaker 1: down one too many times? That's what it sounds like
Speaker 1: to me. That's what it sounded like to me. Man, No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I would just say, keep keep
Speaker 1: this in mind. It's protocol. Now with everything going on
Speaker 1: in the world and all these mass shooting, just protocol.
Speaker 1: Teachers want to make sure they saved their job. So
Speaker 1: no matter what happens, if they hear this, that's protocol
Speaker 1: of what they have to do. But you just gotta
Speaker 1: tell your son just look like, hey, you can't make
Speaker 1: these remarks because people take it serious. I know you're
Speaker 1: not serious. I know you. This is something you've seen
Speaker 1: on TV. But you can't say things like that because
Speaker 1: you can get in trouble. And hopefully he understands that.
Speaker 1: But you ain't gotta worry that. But the teacher gotta
Speaker 1: have more grace too. Protocol. The teacher got to have
Speaker 1: more grace. It's a damn five year old, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? A five year old not about to
Speaker 1: go out and commit a actor arson like the teacher
Speaker 1: got to have a little bit more grace. The teacher
Speaker 1: should actually reach out to you and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I just want you to know this is what your
Speaker 1: son said today. You know, I don't want to see
Speaker 1: him getting any more trouble. They can't, you can't, you know.
Speaker 1: But just this case is like there was a case
Speaker 1: I think a couple of months ago with a five
Speaker 1: year old boy to school and shot a two year old.
Speaker 1: So this case is like that where they got they
Speaker 1: gotta follow protocol. Now she might not believe it, but
Speaker 1: she has to do it just in case to make
Speaker 1: sure everything is all right. So I'm not mad at
Speaker 1: the school doing that because they got to follow protocol.
Speaker 1: It's not like they took the kid and beat him
Speaker 1: outside in front of everybody. They just went. But now
Speaker 1: that kid got a stain, like he got a red face,
Speaker 1: and he got a red face, and people in that
Speaker 1: school probably looking at that five year old different, like
Speaker 1: watch that one. That one's there, he's gonna burn the
Speaker 1: house down, you know. Like actually, and my thing was,
Speaker 1: um that was in a cafeteria and the little girl
Speaker 1: of another color. I'm just I'm saying that white supposedly, Yeah,
Speaker 1: basically I'm black. My son's black um said that she
Speaker 1: she just went up and sold the teacher and they
Speaker 1: never like asked him for his side as a story.
Speaker 1: So basically that's just going by what she's saying. So
Speaker 1: I kind lord have mercy question did he even say that? Exactly?
Speaker 1: That's why I want to know what I'm saying. Now,
Speaker 1: you got to go to school a while. That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. We don't even I'm like, I haven't heard
Speaker 1: you say that he said that. So that's like, and
Speaker 1: you know, you know your kids, you know your kids
Speaker 1: or whatever. You know when they're lying, you know, when
Speaker 1: they're telling the truth. I honestly don't think you said that. Well, mama,
Speaker 1: if he didn't say if he said it, he didn't
Speaker 1: say it. If you get my drift, that boy didn't
Speaker 1: say that. Nobody heard him say that. Don't lie on
Speaker 1: my kid, period period. So you need you need to
Speaker 1: go to school and have that conversation. Did y'all hear
Speaker 1: my son say because my son didn't say it, And
Speaker 1: who you're gonna greet you? You're gonna listen to my
Speaker 1: black son or that white girl. Who are you listening
Speaker 1: to because now I'm feeling a little racism. They're gonna
Speaker 1: listen to the white girl. You know that. No, No,
Speaker 1: not in this day and nation, not in this day.
Speaker 1: Or do I need to get my lawyer involved? Okay, Eban,
Speaker 1: you just said report the threat because I thought he
Speaker 1: said it, but because you assumed he said it because
Speaker 1: he's a little black boy. No, I did I assume
Speaker 1: as he said it because he never said he didn't
Speaker 1: say it. You're lying. No, I'm not lying. He heard
Speaker 1: you say a little black boy and you just see
Speaker 1: that nigga did it. I thought they heard him. But
Speaker 1: if nobody heard him, he ain't say it, you go,
Speaker 1: you take that to the grave. Nobody heard him, Nobody
Speaker 1: heard him with their own ears, nobody heard him directly.
Speaker 1: He shouldn't be punished. He shouldn't be punished. I didn't
Speaker 1: want him, I didn't will him or anything. And then
Speaker 1: I taketed her back and I was just like, I
Speaker 1: do apolog jobs on him making those remarks and it
Speaker 1: will be him things. Well, he shouldn't have wrote that,
Speaker 1: he should have said he didn't say it, but I
Speaker 1: was I would stick with he ain't say it. Nobody
Speaker 1: heard him said he ain't said period period. All right, mom,
Speaker 1: have a good one. All right. We got more coming
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Speaker 1: Do not have to be anonymous on the radio. You
Speaker 1: gotta do to say another name. You could have made
Speaker 1: up a name. But what's your question for seeing me? Bro?
Speaker 1: He was still searching names either way. But little I
Speaker 1: was living food right, and I knew the person I
Speaker 1: was living food too, But it was an old cobor
Speaker 1: so and the dude, the boyfriend came out and started like,
Speaker 1: what's the just saying with my girl? And he stole
Speaker 1: on me. I'm literally delivering food during that small that
Speaker 1: dude stole on me. You know what I'm saying. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to figure out did I get straining owners that
Speaker 1: I would talentate the hood way like, man, shut up
Speaker 1: that man punch you in your face right then, and
Speaker 1: then you ain't doing nothing. You ain't gonna do nothing
Speaker 1: after in fact, leave it alone. You go back to
Speaker 1: the house. Bro, you better stay away from that man.
Speaker 1: Hey that point, Hey, that punch hurt everything? Hey did
Speaker 1: that punch hurt? Nah? Don't lie, I tell the truth,
Speaker 1: tell the troop. So why you ain't hit him back? Then?
Speaker 1: If the punch ain't hurt, because it was like literally
Speaker 1: stole on me. Then literally just put me in a
Speaker 1: joke old and then he put you in the dope
Speaker 1: feet So you ain't he beat you up? Then he
Speaker 1: beat you up. It's okay. So when you got back up,
Speaker 1: what happened? Literally he will go. When you woke up,
Speaker 1: he was going. Yeah, after you woke up, he was gone.
Speaker 1: He ain't gonna stick around. You've been sleep for ten minutes.
Speaker 1: And the words of Craig's daddy and Friday, Okay, you
Speaker 1: win something, you lose something, but you live to fight
Speaker 1: another day. Huh. No, man, you ain't gonna do nothing.
Speaker 1: Didn't stop, But why do you want to reach out?
Speaker 1: Leave you exactly on his head. How old are you?
Speaker 1: How old are you? How old are you? How old
Speaker 1: are you? Well? Listen, I was born in nineteen hundred
Speaker 1: and seventy eight. I turned four. I turned forty four yesterday.
Speaker 1: You come. We come from an era where if you
Speaker 1: lose a fish fight, you just lose a fifth fight,
Speaker 1: leaving a death. Leave it alone. Brot that I ain't that. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: listen this. If you want to retaliate asking for a
Speaker 1: fan one, then oh that's a I don't do that
Speaker 1: because he bro with me. Trust me, bro he whooped
Speaker 1: your ass one time. It ain't worth it ain't worth
Speaker 1: it because think about it like this, right, think about
Speaker 1: it like this. You retaliate, you do something, now you
Speaker 1: going to jail. It's if it's a fair one. I'm
Speaker 1: cool with that though, as long as they ain't. No like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's this wouldn't dude put him in to do and
Speaker 1: he's just gonna get putting the dope feet again. You're
Speaker 1: gonna train, You're gonna train before the next fight. That look,
Speaker 1: it ain't no training for it, ain't no training with it.
Speaker 1: You need training, man, It's okay, man trading. Listen, listen,
Speaker 1: I didn't got punched on camera. Bro, you know you
Speaker 1: don't seen the Can I get a drip? I ain't
Speaker 1: got no time for retaliation? Who cans like we're too old?
Speaker 1: Let it go? Let it go, you've already know you
Speaker 1: that's even worse. Exactly, I got punched in the head
Speaker 1: and got seen by millions of people. You think you
Speaker 1: think I'm sitting around here. You know, all the more
Speaker 1: reason for you to let it go, sir, all the
Speaker 1: more reason. No. Why, Okay, jail, You're gonna chaliate, You're
Speaker 1: gonna hurt him. You're gonna go to jail. Is it
Speaker 1: worth it? No, we don't know if you're gonna die.
Speaker 1: You're gonna hurt him now, Okay, So imagine question. If
Speaker 1: you go get a fair one, you and him just
Speaker 1: fight straight up. If he beat you again, then what
Speaker 1: he gonna go for a third time? I'm gonna call
Speaker 1: him fair fight. You're gonna what I'm gonna call him
Speaker 1: a fight? Dude? S all right, I'm gonna tell you
Speaker 1: what to do it then, because you said you either
Speaker 1: want to fight again or you want to press charges. Right, Oh,
Speaker 1: you just said you want to get a rescreened or
Speaker 1: to get restrain or the you got a press charges?
Speaker 1: Oh I want you to press charges? No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'd rather you press charge. I'd rather you get a
Speaker 1: rescreen in order. You're about to lose your job and
Speaker 1: you're about to go jove with doing something stupid. Man.
Speaker 1: That man, that man then beat you up so bad
Speaker 1: you want to get a rescreen in order. So I
Speaker 1: don't know. Why are you acting all tough? Now? Let
Speaker 1: it go? Bro, have a good one, man, But no,
Speaker 1: don't hang up on this. Many don't want to. You're
Speaker 1: gonna let it go. Maybe do you have kids? Bro? Nah? Man,
Speaker 1: let it your mom and daddy go. We have to
Speaker 1: visit you in jail because you're gonna do something stupid.
Speaker 1: Leave it a little man. When some we lose something,
Speaker 1: let it go. Did your girl? See you did your girl?
Speaker 1: So you get beat up? Nah? All right, then, so
Speaker 1: let it go. Nobody saw nobody even know that's why,
Speaker 1: and you anonymous. Nobody knows this happened. Bro, If it's
Speaker 1: not on video, nobody saw it. Let it go. Chase
Speaker 1: the narratives tell everybody you beat him up. Nobody seen it.
Speaker 1: He pour it up. You could have called up in line?
Speaker 1: Does yes? I ain't a will see, don't do nothing,
Speaker 1: stupid bro. God bless you man, goodness G then you're
Speaker 1: healing energy man, he got knocked up out. The man
Speaker 1: then hit you and choked you out, and then you
Speaker 1: talk about you. The first thing he did when he
Speaker 1: called up, he was saying, should I get a restraining
Speaker 1: on it all? Retaliate? Then you're not bad. Somebody got
Speaker 1: to do you. If you want to get your grain orders,
Speaker 1: just get the restraint. Let's relaxed, man, come on, let
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