Speaker 1: Yeah, because I did an episode with Corey Spelling about
Speaker 1: Kim and Kyle and Cathy. I want to go back
Speaker 1: and explain to you my relationship to the Hilton's and
Speaker 1: Kyle Richards. I met Kyle, as I mentioned before, at
Speaker 1: Las Kalo when I was a hostess for like eight
Speaker 1: dollars an hour at the home of the famous chop Salad,
Speaker 1: and Kyle and I dated the same person. I was
Speaker 1: dating him at that time, and I met her because
Speaker 1: I inquired about her expensive eighteen dollar lank home makeup remover.
Speaker 1: We became friends and she would come in there with
Speaker 1: Kathy and they would bring Paris and Nikki and Cam
Speaker 1: would come sometimes and they would always order the fried Mizzorella.
Speaker 1: I know it's something mizzarella and karosa that Kyle lived on,
Speaker 1: lived on when she was pregnant. And she loved the
Speaker 1: chop salad and love this periode or to Lawanna soup.
Speaker 1: But she got me into it like this period vegetable soup.
Speaker 1: She loved the pasta. I just remember this. I don't
Speaker 1: know why she loved the pasta marian Era. And they
Speaker 1: all used to come in as a family, and Kathy
Speaker 1: met Rick when they were in high school and Kim
Speaker 1: was married to her husband, Greg Davis right probably right
Speaker 1: out of high school. And I worked for Kathy as
Speaker 1: a personal assistant at her in her home, taking Paris
Speaker 1: and Nikki to and from ice skating and to school
Speaker 1: to the Least Say, which is wild because that's the
Speaker 1: school that she left when she went to that crazy
Speaker 1: boarding school. And I used to take Paris and Nikki
Speaker 1: to get ferrets at the pet store and Rampage, which
Speaker 1: was like a Forever twenty one at Century City. And
Speaker 1: I'd also hang out with Kyle and we'd go out
Speaker 1: at night and we go to the nightclubs like the Gate,
Speaker 1: and it was the Arrow where she met Maurice, and
Speaker 1: Kathy was like, you know, I think was at another level.
Speaker 1: Kyle was living in her mom's apartment on South Swall
Speaker 1: and I used to come over there and hang out
Speaker 1: and have the best conversations with her and her mom,
Speaker 1: and then her mom would watch Fair and then Kyle
Speaker 1: and I would go out and um, we cried laughing.
Speaker 1: We had so many crazy stories, like we we went
Speaker 1: to my twenty fifth birthday together where a guy I
Speaker 1: was dating didn't get me a present. I was so upset.
Speaker 1: He didn't even he was like he was like a
Speaker 1: wealthy older man and not old old, but like for
Speaker 1: us old. He was probably like thirty five or something.
Speaker 1: He's a very very wealthy, successful guy, really young. And
Speaker 1: he came and he didn't even bring me a birthday present,
Speaker 1: and he didn't even offer to pay for part of
Speaker 1: um me. He just came to like stop by and
Speaker 1: say hi. I was like, what that guy, you know,
Speaker 1: like the big insecton city where he never really does
Speaker 1: the full thing you need him to do. And Kyle
Speaker 1: and I were there, and we were in my forward
Speaker 1: probe and we had all these presents in the car
Speaker 1: and because all I did was lived to make her laugh,
Speaker 1: like I just could get you know, I've always been
Speaker 1: like a clown. So I was like, I didn't even
Speaker 1: matter that he didn't buy me a present. I don't care,
Speaker 1: it doesn't even matter. I don't I don't even care.
Speaker 1: And I started throwing I'm like, I don't this gift,
Speaker 1: I don't care. I started throwing my presence that I
Speaker 1: hadn't even opened up out the window of the car,
Speaker 1: like acting like I didn't care, because like none of
Speaker 1: the presents meant anything. Because the guy was dating didn't
Speaker 1: get me a present, and we pulled over on the
Speaker 1: side of the road and started like picking up my
Speaker 1: gifts off the highway like it was a funny bit
Speaker 1: until I realized I had no birthday presents because everyone
Speaker 1: who had come to my party that did give me
Speaker 1: a gift. It was now thrown out on the highway.
Speaker 1: You'll shill the mind you that story. And then one
Speaker 1: day we went to mobile Mart with Kathy and Nikki
Speaker 1: after ice skating, and I don't remember what happened, but
Speaker 1: something happened and the person at the counter was being
Speaker 1: rude to us or something was going on. I don't
Speaker 1: remember what was happening. You have to ask Kyle. But
Speaker 1: I was like causing a fit. I don't remember what
Speaker 1: the hell I was doing. I was causing a fit,
Speaker 1: and it was like there was an interaction between Kyle
Speaker 1: and I and like we're having some sort of an argument.
Speaker 1: The kids were laughing because they're little kids, and like
Speaker 1: little kids, Pharaoh's four, So do the math. There is
Speaker 1: a grown woman now who's like telling multimillion dollar houses
Speaker 1: with Mauricio on Netflix, and she's got like a g
Speaker 1: wagon and she was four years old and we're in
Speaker 1: the mobile mart and we're having this big discussion and
Speaker 1: someone opens it our on walks and I go, hi,
Speaker 1: welcome to mobile Mart, like because there's like a full
Speaker 1: on called comphony argument going on. So Kyle I used
Speaker 1: to have an amazing time. We She'll kill me for
Speaker 1: saying this, but we were like this is in my
Speaker 1: thirties and like all I used we used to go
Speaker 1: on these hikes every day and like I like fifty
Speaker 1: pounds of like lascala chops salads every day and bread.
Speaker 1: And then you know, she met Maurice and then she
Speaker 1: got married. I was at her wedding and I remember,
Speaker 1: like it was yesterday seeing Paris Hilton like walked through
Speaker 1: this long like lioness hair, and Paris was like looking
Speaker 1: back now, she had all these little kids like following her.
Speaker 1: She had like a like a like a little entourage
Speaker 1: in Kyle's wedding, Like she was like the queen of
Speaker 1: like the little girls. And we had no idea who
Speaker 1: the hell knew in New York that were written about
Speaker 1: more even if things had happened in l A, I
Speaker 1: just don't remember. There was something about her and like
Speaker 1: Nicole Ritchie driving Rod Stewart's like car or something. I
Speaker 1: don't remember, but I just used to read perfectly, and
Speaker 1: but like wait the NICKI and Paris and I used
Speaker 1: to like babysit. It just went whenever occurred to me
Speaker 1: the would become famous. I didn't know what famous was.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what socialites were. I just was standing
Speaker 1: by watching it and reading and being like, what the
Speaker 1: actual hell. So anyway, Kyle and I kind of we
Speaker 1: always were friends, but I got married. She came to
Speaker 1: my wedding, I went to her wedding. I ended up
Speaker 1: living in Chicago and being with someone else. We we
Speaker 1: would lose track for years. So people wonder, like, you know,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you guys are best friends, and how
Speaker 1: could you talk about that show? And I didn't say
Speaker 1: they would never say something negative about them, but like,
Speaker 1: there were so many years that we were didn't speak
Speaker 1: and when we would see each other once in a while,
Speaker 1: when I would come to l A. We were so
Speaker 1: close in our twenties, but you know how that is
Speaker 1: then our thirties, not close in our forties, and like
Speaker 1: life went on. We always knew each other, but we
Speaker 1: weren't best friends. Same thing with Kathy. I hadn't seen
Speaker 1: Kathy for years, and I used to watch Paris and Nicki,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't like there everyday nanny. So one day
Speaker 1: I run into Kathy at Oscar to Lorenta in the
Speaker 1: city and she tells somebody else She's like, oh, Bethany
Speaker 1: was Paris and Nicki's nanny. And I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's so great. I just got like a major up.
Speaker 1: I just thought I was like working rapping gifts at
Speaker 1: her store, the staircase she had, the store that used
Speaker 1: to sell like all these ornaments, these expensive Christopher rag
Speaker 1: Goo ornaments. This bitch was into this holiday ship and
Speaker 1: the expensive stuff long before anybody. Like they should all
Speaker 1: bow down on the housewife she had. She had thirty
Speaker 1: all her ornaments, how her fucking thirties, like this she had.
Speaker 1: She had Judith Lieber bags and like Faberge eggs, and
Speaker 1: was living in Jacqueline Smith's house and like they were
Speaker 1: not playing any games, okay, Like I was a Ford probe,
Speaker 1: like I got wearing clothes from rampage. It was another level.
Speaker 1: So we'd go to her Jacqueline Smith house and it
Speaker 1: was like so fancy, and she was having her Christmas
Speaker 1: party then. I mean, she just was born to be
Speaker 1: a rich man. So um and I used to work
Speaker 1: in her store the staircase and wrap these gifts, and
Speaker 1: I was terrible at it. I remember that's when like
Speaker 1: the boys were born. It was like so long ago.
Speaker 1: So Kyle and I lost touch on off. We'd see
Speaker 1: each other's times in l a different relationships. I always
Speaker 1: really had fun with her. She's always been really funny. Um.
Speaker 1: I got to know her kids a little bit years
Speaker 1: later on a brief trip to ask and I had
Speaker 1: such fun with them. I respect what a close family
Speaker 1: they are. I always really liked Maurice. I admire that
Speaker 1: he was worked in the garment industry and came from
Speaker 1: like a nice family, but not you know, he was
Speaker 1: success wasn't handed to him. He hustled. He worked for
Speaker 1: Ricky hustled. I don't actually my understanding of it is
Speaker 1: he just worked for rick and then went off on
Speaker 1: his own, which does happen, and it hurts, but it
Speaker 1: does happen. But that was like a bait, major deal,
Speaker 1: as you guys all saw on the show. When Kyle
Speaker 1: was going on the show, I was like going off
Speaker 1: the show and when she was asking me about doing it.
Speaker 1: I was kind of turned off that she wanted to
Speaker 1: do it because I was like turned up by being
Speaker 1: there and I wanted to leave. And so I remember
Speaker 1: being at this restaurant and her asking me about it
Speaker 1: and ME just being like, wait, what like, and it
Speaker 1: probably sounded like a line that I was like, Oh no,
Speaker 1: I just want to be out of there. You know,
Speaker 1: probably sounded like, oh, don't do it, because like I
Speaker 1: don't want you to do, you know, But I didn't
Speaker 1: want to be and I did leave. So I always
Speaker 1: backed up. I'm the I'm the only one who ever
Speaker 1: really backed up saying I was gonna leave and leaving.
Speaker 1: People always said Lisa Vanna Pump always said she was
Speaker 1: gonna leave. Kyle always said she's gonna leave. Everyone always
Speaker 1: said they're gonna leave. People don't leave unless they really
Speaker 1: get fired, and Kyle is never in any danger of that.
Speaker 1: But I used to always say that I didn't like it,
Speaker 1: and Kyle um she was born to be famous, Like
Speaker 1: she always was doing her own makeup and like was
Speaker 1: always looked perfect and was glamorous every day and always
Speaker 1: had the jewel I have allowed jewelry and watches no one.
Speaker 1: It's hard to touch me there. But she always had
Speaker 1: all she always liked the looks good and like she
Speaker 1: just always looked as like a woman, you know, in
Speaker 1: her big Mercedes and a woman about town in Beverly Hills,
Speaker 1: and she just, you know, this is perfect for her.
Speaker 1: And I used to come to l A and she'd
Speaker 1: want to go to Craig's or somewhere, and I would
Speaker 1: just want to be like, not go out where there
Speaker 1: was going to be paparazzi. I don't know why. I
Speaker 1: just always made me a little bit uncomfortable. So the
Speaker 1: way that we were on the show and in the
Speaker 1: light was just a little bit different, Like we just
Speaker 1: we just drifted a little bit, not in any kind
Speaker 1: of negative way. I love Kyle, but because people ask
Speaker 1: why did I follow her on Instagram, which I'll get into,
Speaker 1: we just we're living different lives. I just wanted to
Speaker 1: be off and she was really really immersed in it,
Speaker 1: wanted to be on, and I wanted to not go
Speaker 1: to restaurants where the paparazzi was because you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't I don't know, have to do
Speaker 1: my own makeup, and I would she would be like you,
Speaker 1: she she she would laugh at me, and now she
Speaker 1: laughed at like I tried to do my own makeup
Speaker 1: because it's ridiculous. Um, So we just were different in it.
Speaker 1: And years ago when she was real, like before she
Speaker 1: was famous, she used to hang out with nick La
Speaker 1: Shay and Paris and Nikki and run around. And she
Speaker 1: was in the Utue Hollywood special as the Aunt, and
Speaker 1: she was in the show with Kathy about like be
Speaker 1: Kathy Hilton's personal assistant or something. And I was a
Speaker 1: nobody and I would see Paris and Nicki, but they
Speaker 1: didn't really remember me. So it was like I was
Speaker 1: intrigued by that they were Paris and Nikki, the kids
Speaker 1: that I had babysat, but they didn't give a ship.
Speaker 1: Like they were living in New York being super uber famous,
Speaker 1: and I uh used to want to hang out with
Speaker 1: Kyle and them. It was so intriguing, and I feel
Speaker 1: like she wanted to protect them and like keep that
Speaker 1: separate or like when people want to like be around
Speaker 1: they separated, but so I feel like she separated her
Speaker 1: life and it just was different. The whole thing was
Speaker 1: just different. And it's not even totally a blame thing.
Speaker 1: Just she went like the Fame route and I was nobody.
Speaker 1: Kathy was. Kim was like on the Fame route because
Speaker 1: of Paris and Nikkik. He wasn't, but Kim was sort
Speaker 1: of like the aunt and in those shows and like
Speaker 1: fame adjacent because of Paris and Nicki. And that's where
Speaker 1: they met all these different people. And they used to
Speaker 1: jet said and they go to Vegas all the time,
Speaker 1: and like it was during that whole time when Nicki
Speaker 1: Hilton married that guy Um who I knew, Todd Meister,
Speaker 1: and they were just all living that like crazy l
Speaker 1: a same life, knowing all the celebrities at all the clubs,
Speaker 1: and I was nothing. I was nobody, I was broke.
Speaker 1: I just definitely didn't fit into that. So then I
Speaker 1: came onto the Housewives, and I became known first, you know,
Speaker 1: in that regard, and I wanted to leave it because
Speaker 1: I didn't like it, like I didn't like being there
Speaker 1: for me, which is why the proof is in the pudding.
Speaker 1: I left after three seasons. You certainly don't leave the
Speaker 1: Housewives that's gone on for fifteen seasons after three seasons
Speaker 1: if you want the light. I just wanted the success.
Speaker 1: So I left and she was coming in and she
Speaker 1: was very immersed in it, you know, which is understandable.
Speaker 1: It's very much her life. She's a you know, she's
Speaker 1: a uh like the Susan Luke. She have the house,
Speaker 1: so she's like a career housewife. Shenna be on the housewife,
Speaker 1: you know, she around the housewives for she's like iconic,
Speaker 1: you know, she's she's never left. So I was leaving,
Speaker 1: and then years later I came back. And we always
Speaker 1: liked seeing each other. We would laugh so hard in
Speaker 1: New York. One night we went out, and I mean
Speaker 1: the pictures of me the next day and what I
Speaker 1: looked like. She was like, I can't believe of the
Speaker 1: courage to post that. It's it's I look so frightening,
Speaker 1: it's hysterical. I was like, oh, this is what a
Speaker 1: night with Kyle looks like. And I looked like I
Speaker 1: was run over by a train. Um. And then I
Speaker 1: left again, and you know, she became good friends. She
Speaker 1: wasn't friends back then. She was always friends to Faye
Speaker 1: reis Nick and like adjacent with um Chris Jenner, but
Speaker 1: Paris and and Kim weren't really friends for a long time.
Speaker 1: Kim became famous because of Paris. Kim was hanging out
Speaker 1: with Paris during those days. During that that's how she
Speaker 1: became famous. She went out with Nickola sha It landed
Speaker 1: in the paper, and you know, Paris was on the
Speaker 1: front lines. Kim was helping her organizer closet. So Paris
Speaker 1: Kim was running around with Kim and she went to
Speaker 1: the Paris Hilton School of Fame and you know, I
Speaker 1: guess she made her teacher proud. But they kind of
Speaker 1: divided a little bit. So Kyle wasn't really friends with Chris,
Speaker 1: and that all happened later Kyle came together to be
Speaker 1: good friends with Chris and Kathy always rolled in that circle.
Speaker 1: But I think they've also become much closer and so
Speaker 1: it was just like a different Hollywood world. She and
Speaker 1: Maurice like are very you know, they're very high How
Speaker 1: do I say this in the most positive way? They're
Speaker 1: very high falutin like they just are. They roll in
Speaker 1: a very different glamorous way than I do. And um,
Speaker 1: I left the Housewives, and I didn't really follow a
Speaker 1: lot of the housewives. It's not that scientific, like it's
Speaker 1: not it's not you could go I've said this on
Speaker 1: and Watch It Happens Live. You could go through my
Speaker 1: Housewives follow and on follow or people fall. I'll follow
Speaker 1: like a random weirdo dog owner or makeup person. I
Speaker 1: won't follow someone I know and I'm friendly with. I
Speaker 1: like Kyle, I care about her um, I find her
Speaker 1: to be really fun. I like fair, I like her family. UM.
Speaker 1: But I didn't follow her because it's a lot of
Speaker 1: like housewife e stuff and I don't really care that
Speaker 1: much about it. And in no drude way, I don't
Speaker 1: know that I followed Dory for the same reason. I'm
Speaker 1: sure she's a lovely person. It just doesn't really have
Speaker 1: that much to do with me right now. So everyone
Speaker 1: likes to make a big deal out of everything. But
Speaker 1: my relationship with Kyle, and also I became friends of
Speaker 1: Nikki years later, Like one night I went out with
Speaker 1: Kyle and Nicki was there and we had a nice time,
Speaker 1: and then I think Nicki invited me to Paris's birthday
Speaker 1: party and I was wild and they were like, wow,
Speaker 1: Bethany's fun, and we connected later. It's not like I've
Speaker 1: been in touch with Paris and Niki since I used
Speaker 1: to like watch them. I'd like to dine out and
Speaker 1: pretend that's true. It's not even true, like it happened
Speaker 1: years later we found each other in like this new
Speaker 1: iteration of fame and just like like the nostalgia that
Speaker 1: I used to babysit them, that was like an era
Speaker 1: all this time. And I was never friends to Kathy.
Speaker 1: Kathy was paying a check to me for of eight
Speaker 1: dollars an hour, also for wrapping poorly wrapped Christopher Rago
Speaker 1: ornaments at a gift store. Like Kathy and gift I
Speaker 1: mean respectfully to Kathy, she doesn't give a shit about
Speaker 1: it why and she's always been nice to me, But
Speaker 1: like we're not on the same level. I was her,
Speaker 1: I was. I was Kyle's friend, driving a forward probe
Speaker 1: hostess at Lascala wrapping gifts. In her story, we weren't
Speaker 1: exactly hob nobbing at the same parties. If I went
Speaker 1: once to a Christmas party because Kyle invited me years ago,
Speaker 1: but we were not at the same level. And I
Speaker 1: ran into her years later and ask him to Lorna,
Speaker 1: which I said, And then I became friendly or with
Speaker 1: Kathy because Nikki and I connected and liked each other,
Speaker 1: and NICKI invited me to her bridle shower and Kathy
Speaker 1: was there and it was always nice to me. And
Speaker 1: then now she's on the Housewives, so we reconnected a
Speaker 1: role in the nostalgia of how I used to work
Speaker 1: for her. But like that's the whole real story of it.
Speaker 1: You know, if you go back and look at Housewives
Speaker 1: the first couple of years, Kyle came onto the Housewives
Speaker 1: with me. That's vintage. She was in a scene with me.
Speaker 1: I wonder if they ever earned it, they might have
Speaker 1: cut it out. It was at a hotel. She came
Speaker 1: and shot a scene with me at the sixty Thompson
Speaker 1: Hotel in Beverly Hills. On on when I came to
Speaker 1: l A for Housewives, Kyle came on the show with me.
Speaker 1: So that's my relationship with them. So, um, respect love nothing,
Speaker 1: honestly but love. No. A lot of the family stuff.
Speaker 1: As I said before, Um, but there's no, there's not.
Speaker 1: That's the whole real story fact