Speaker 1: Good morning usc yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
Speaker 1: yo yo yo yo yo Sean Lemagne got piece to
Speaker 1: the planet is Thursday, yes, and we have our guest
Speaker 1: hosts joining us back at Miss Ebony Kay Williams, welcome back,
Speaker 1: Good morning fell us. Feeling yany k better than yesterday
Speaker 1: or not? Here you got fresh off a view of
Speaker 1: appearance a little bit. You had a couple of words
Speaker 1: for the Florida governor. I think we'll get to it
Speaker 1: later where any no, just I'm just here with you
Speaker 1: all today. I'm like feeling you at that view death man.
Speaker 1: Thank you bro. It feels good. It feels good to
Speaker 1: be in here too. Absolutely, to be clear, I was
Speaker 1: waking up at uh what's time for in the morning.
Speaker 1: Today was better than it. That's why. That's why I'm
Speaker 1: in a better mood. To my body chemistry is getting
Speaker 1: a little bit more used to. Okay, cool, Yeah, all right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's good. We're gonna go to some front page news.
Speaker 1: That's next. That's next up, and we're talking about give
Speaker 1: us a t Yeah, let's do it. Uh. The young, young,
Speaker 1: young brother, Tyree Nichols, laid to rest in Memphis. Um
Speaker 1: words from his mother, I think most importantly. But we
Speaker 1: also heard from our Vice President Kamala Harris and the
Speaker 1: good Reverend Al Sharpton. All right, we'll get to that
Speaker 1: next thing. No, let me shout out to my assistant.
Speaker 1: Her name is Mercedescedes. Leave her bank bang sades. He
Speaker 1: calls a big bang. She has bangs, and they like
Speaker 1: they need to draw back curtains. Curtain banks are a trend. Really, Dad,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Oh yeah, I didn't know. Stop hating you,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to shout out to her because she
Speaker 1: gave my wife one of the best birthday gifts ever.
Speaker 1: Yesterday was my wife's birthday, which was taking the kids
Speaker 1: for to day. So she took the kids for the
Speaker 1: day so me and my wife had a relaxing just
Speaker 1: time by ourselves, no kids. She took to the kids bowling.
Speaker 1: She had to sleep over her crib, and she took
Speaker 1: the whole clan, with the whole Wooten clan last night,
Speaker 1: all nine of them, all nine of them. What I
Speaker 1: took the whole tin clan, took them bowling, got him
Speaker 1: something to eat that their homework. Now, what's your youngest one? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What she took the whole boutin clan. Yeah, so after
Speaker 1: Bible sades on Mercedes she a so she did. So
Speaker 1: last night was amazing. We just y'all do yeah, you
Speaker 1: know what. We just sat in the bed, We watched movies.
Speaker 1: We had a little adult time. We ate some great food,
Speaker 1: we had some some some great wine, and just chills,
Speaker 1: just romance and chill. Then we fell asleep earlier. Ain't
Speaker 1: even go front to set five. Yeah, we fell asleep
Speaker 1: early thing, fall asleep. Brother went to sleep at a
Speaker 1: reasonable time for a grown ass man. All right, but
Speaker 1: let's get this show early. I need to know who
Speaker 1: it was early last nine fifty eight. Yeah, please, that's heaven, heaven?
Speaker 1: What no kids? But what he came in the bedroom?
Speaker 1: It was, it was, It was perfect. But all right,
Speaker 1: we got front page news. Next on moves to Breakfast up.
Speaker 1: Good morning the morning. Everybody is dj n V Charlemagne
Speaker 1: the guy. We are to Breakfast club. We got our
Speaker 1: guest host, Ebany K. Williams joining us today. Let's get
Speaker 1: in some front page news. So to put some sport now,
Speaker 1: Pro Bowl is this weekend. Has anybody watched the Pro Bowl.
Speaker 1: I never watched the Pro Bowl. I think the Pro
Speaker 1: Bowl is a waste of time and energy. You don't
Speaker 1: have been beating up yourself for eighteen weeks on the
Speaker 1: football field. Now you're gonna make we go play in
Speaker 1: a Pro Bowl. But they change it up a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: the man the Manning brothers will be coaching, Peyton will
Speaker 1: be to be doing the AFC, Elive will be doing
Speaker 1: the NFC. They also have some celebrity captains Pete Davison
Speaker 1: and Snoop Dogg. And it's no longer football game, so
Speaker 1: they're gonna do like flag football instead, you know, so
Speaker 1: flag football, they're gonna be doing like the precision, precision passing,
Speaker 1: the best catch, longest drive, lightning rounds. They're gonna do dodgeball.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be a little different. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: more fun than playing and it's a party. It's it's
Speaker 1: it's more of a party, so they're not actually playing
Speaker 1: a game flag football. Yeah, I got Carnival Day in
Speaker 1: high school. That's exactly what That's exactly what I prefer that.
Speaker 1: Because you're going the NBA. The NBA All Star Game
Speaker 1: is fun like it's not really fun to go out
Speaker 1: there entackle people. Now now you can get hurt and
Speaker 1: exactly especially when the check in right exact exactly, yeah
Speaker 1: you got. We are gonna go to a little more
Speaker 1: somber news here in our front page news. Of course,
Speaker 1: yesterday we put to rest our dear brother, Tyree Nichols
Speaker 1: in Memphis, Tennessee. A father gone too soon is really
Speaker 1: the takeaway from that. Tyree only twenty nine years old.
Speaker 1: This young brother didn't even make it to thirty friends
Speaker 1: and family and civil rights leaders, including our Vice President
Speaker 1: Kamala Harris, which we'll hear from in a second. All gathered,
Speaker 1: I thought it was important, y'all. Let's start with hearing
Speaker 1: the words from the most important person in the room,
Speaker 1: Tyree Nichols. Mom. First of all, I want to thank
Speaker 1: each and every one of you for coming out to
Speaker 1: pay tribute to my son. Tyrie was a beautiful person
Speaker 1: and for this to happened to him, it's just unimaginable.
Speaker 1: Traps you. The only thing that's keeping me go away.
Speaker 1: It's the fact that I really shout to believe my
Speaker 1: son was sitting on an excitement, Oh God. And when
Speaker 1: she's referencing there y'all is I know it's you have
Speaker 1: to just take a beat, right to just hold the
Speaker 1: space for this woman's enormous grief, and we as a
Speaker 1: nation are grieving with her. Right, it's a lot, Mister
Speaker 1: Nichols was a stopped traffic violation alleged just reckless driving,
Speaker 1: simple small infraction. Really, five officers were charged with his
Speaker 1: beating death. They kicked, They beat this young brother to death.
Speaker 1: He died several days later in the hospital. And of course,
Speaker 1: what's been so devastating for a lot in the culture.
Speaker 1: All five officers black. We're seeing investigation, though this is
Speaker 1: important to note of some tangential players here, medical mts,
Speaker 1: things like that that include some white people. So they're
Speaker 1: going to be investigated. They're more charges to come. So far,
Speaker 1: all five officers have been dismissed from their police duties
Speaker 1: and charged with second degree murder. What I love is,
Speaker 1: you know, when we talked about this story yesterday, Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: you talked about in you agreed it would be a
Speaker 1: good day to talk about the George Floyd Justice and
Speaker 1: Policing Act. Miss Nichols agreed. Let's listen. I just need
Speaker 1: whatever that George Floyd Bill we needed past. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: need to take some backs because there should be no
Speaker 1: other child that should suffer the way my son and
Speaker 1: all the other parents here have lost their children. We
Speaker 1: need to get that bill passed. How important is it, Charlemagne?
Speaker 1: Do you think that this woman took this moment in
Speaker 1: her deep grief to make that call to action. I
Speaker 1: think it's very important, But I don't think it's gonna
Speaker 1: change anything, you know, because it's not gonna make any
Speaker 1: of those politicians move to one to pass that bill.
Speaker 1: Because if if, if, if it did, if a mother's tears,
Speaker 1: it's what moved people to pass that bill. That building
Speaker 1: in path along. What's the important factors of the bills? Right? Like,
Speaker 1: what is the important factors of that bill that will
Speaker 1: getting rid of qualified immunity? That's one another one. I
Speaker 1: think that's a huge one. I also think, though, Envy,
Speaker 1: there's a statute that talks about use of force, because
Speaker 1: that's what we keep talking about. I was here with
Speaker 1: y'all about five years ago. We're talking about Stefan Clark,
Speaker 1: and there were no charges there. And it's because the
Speaker 1: opportunity for police to use deadly forces so wide open.
Speaker 1: And this bill envy narrows that, it brings it in.
Speaker 1: It holds them to a higher standard, and that's important.
Speaker 1: H speaking though Charlemagne, Okay, you say, is it gonna
Speaker 1: move the politicians, because that's really where the movement needs
Speaker 1: to be. Let's listen to our Vice President Kamala Harris.
Speaker 1: This violent act was not in pursuit of public safety.
Speaker 1: It was not in the interest of keeping the public safe.
Speaker 1: Because Tyree Nichols would be with us here today, was
Speaker 1: he not also entitled to the right to be safe?
Speaker 1: So when we talk about public safety, let us understand
Speaker 1: what it means in its truest form, Tyree Nichols should
Speaker 1: have been safe. I think she's got to go even
Speaker 1: further to be handed and say right well and say,
Speaker 1: when we talk about public safety, we're talking about white safety.
Speaker 1: That's that's really the thing that's not being said, Like
Speaker 1: when black people ever been truly safe in our black
Speaker 1: bodies in this nation country. No, let's be honest. It
Speaker 1: all sounds like car salesman stuff. Nothing ever changes. They
Speaker 1: say the same speech at the same time, we need
Speaker 1: to do this, we need to do that. But when
Speaker 1: we get to the point where we actually do it,
Speaker 1: she spoke on to George she did. Let's hear, as
Speaker 1: the United States Senator, a co author of the original
Speaker 1: George Floyd Justice and Police and Act, and as Vice
Speaker 1: President of the United States, we demand that Congress past
Speaker 1: the George Floyd Justice and Policing Act. Joe Biden will
Speaker 1: sign it, and we should not delay, and we will
Speaker 1: not be denied. It is non negotiable. What's missing for
Speaker 1: me is you gotta name names. And you talked about
Speaker 1: this on UM when you had the Vice president on
Speaker 1: your Community Central show. You gotta say, brother Tim Scott
Speaker 1: in South Carolina, who claims that you also want to
Speaker 1: move forward on police reform, come on to the table.
Speaker 1: You gotta talk to Joe Manchin. You gotta talk to
Speaker 1: the holdouts. You can't just have this generalized call to
Speaker 1: action kind of like NBCA and now now it's car
Speaker 1: salesmen talk unless you go name the names. All name
Speaker 1: the names, or what what Monique say keeping on school
Speaker 1: school grinds. That's right, you know, even though we know
Speaker 1: that was for the cameras because politicians never stopped campaigning.
Speaker 1: I am happy that you know, Kamala and the brother's
Speaker 1: mother called for the George Floyd, justice and policing at
Speaker 1: you know, at least a commalas part. We know it was,
Speaker 1: you know, just for the cameras, right, But why does
Speaker 1: it have to be a reaction to another unjust murder
Speaker 1: at the hands of the police. It shouldn't take another
Speaker 1: black person dying because that's the hands of the police
Speaker 1: for you to call pressure legislation like the pressure on them,
Speaker 1: like the legislation is literally named after a victim of
Speaker 1: police brutality. That has changed since then? Was also there
Speaker 1: putting to another black brother, mister Nichols to rest. If
Speaker 1: we have time, can we hear from the Reverend Al Sharpton?
Speaker 1: Well do when we come back, right, when we come
Speaker 1: back and come back? And one last question, did they
Speaker 1: show up at anybody else's funeral? And see, that's what
Speaker 1: that to make me feel funny. If I'm George Floyd's
Speaker 1: family or any of the other victim's family, I would
Speaker 1: feel funny too. You come to this brother, which you
Speaker 1: should have because because it's headlines, nobody else's and for
Speaker 1: me it's great. To nobody else, it's great to show
Speaker 1: up to that funeral. But to me, the optics are
Speaker 1: way more powerful when it's a woman of color, you know,
Speaker 1: at the funeral of a brother who's been killed by
Speaker 1: white officers. Then you can address the system of white
Speaker 1: supremacy and the corrupt police system at the same time,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I just I want the VP
Speaker 1: to talk about the George policing Marcaus. Like she said,
Speaker 1: she is the co author of that bill, and I
Speaker 1: would think that the co author of that co author
Speaker 1: of that bill will talk about that bill all the time,
Speaker 1: not just as a reaction to another black person. Getting
Speaker 1: can identify the holdouts that are making it not a
Speaker 1: We'll get you more of next hour as well, but
Speaker 1: right now, get it off your chest. Eight hundred five
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Speaker 1: vent phone line to wide open again. Eight hundred five
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Speaker 1: the breakfast club. Oh you are nothing more by man,
Speaker 1: somebody finally realizing you Dominican. I'm not Dominican. Shout out
Speaker 1: to all of Dominicans. Were come in all shame, but
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm really black. Don't listen to him. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Hey? How are you doing? A tyree? Calling
Speaker 1: from the eight h four in Virginia. Yeah, oh, what's
Speaker 1: that the Breakfast Club? Shout off to Charlomagne dj Emby.
Speaker 1: Who's the guest Thoms? It's miss Efbedy k Williams. Yes, indeed,
Speaker 1: how you doing miss Ebony? Kay Williams? Better now? How
Speaker 1: are you awesome? Awesome? Hey, look, I would like to
Speaker 1: get it off my chest that see three Car Club
Speaker 1: is the best car club in the whole United States. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've been putting it on for our cities, our chapters
Speaker 1: or going on eleven years. Come February works well, congratulations
Speaker 1: to your brother. Y'all need to pull up in one
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Speaker 1: New Jersey, Atlanta, what else? Texas, Houston and all of
Speaker 1: those cities. I'm I'm gonna put you on hole. I
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Speaker 1: to have y'all. I love you. I'm gonna be your whole.
Speaker 1: A quick shout out to my wife Carmen, I love you,
Speaker 1: my kid Kyle, Arihanna, and Camille. All right, brother, hold
Speaker 1: on hello, who's this? This is Astley calling? From Houlston, Ashley.
Speaker 1: What's going on, guys, I'm pissed off this morning. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry for having this energy so good. What's up? So
Speaker 1: the five black officers who murdered Tyree Nichols was pissing
Speaker 1: me off. Besides the fact that they killed his brother
Speaker 1: and didn't consider that this could be their brother or cousin,
Speaker 1: it's all the conspiracy theories and rumors that are happening
Speaker 1: beyond the scenes. So I work at a FedEx facility
Speaker 1: and there's so many rumors going on about the main
Speaker 1: reason why they killed his brother was because one of
Speaker 1: the cops baby Mama, who was back in with and
Speaker 1: all this this drama. Why can't it be this five
Speaker 1: black officers who corruptly killed this man. Why don't they
Speaker 1: have to be all this behind the scenes of what
Speaker 1: he may have done to get killed. No, you're right,
Speaker 1: but that's because people not understand that something scares them.
Speaker 1: So people will be trying to come to their own
Speaker 1: understanding about things so they feel better about the situation.
Speaker 1: It's also annoying as it doesn't make it right. It
Speaker 1: doesn't absolutely you know what, It's not right, and that's
Speaker 1: why we have a day in court, people can actually
Speaker 1: go on a witness standard. We found out what happened
Speaker 1: for real, that's right, okay, so it has not come
Speaker 1: out of what the motive was a blind days. That's
Speaker 1: all room is, Mama, And I think when people are
Speaker 1: here something like this, when people hear stories like this,
Speaker 1: they don't want it to happen to them. So they
Speaker 1: always got it's like, oh, that's why that happened, just
Speaker 1: so they don't have the anxiety of it happened to them.
Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five,
Speaker 1: one oh five one. If you need to vent, hit
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Speaker 1: get it off your chest? Wait? Wait, whether you're mad
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Speaker 1: We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this on the morning. I can't I can't go
Speaker 1: on to get it off your chest. I just want
Speaker 1: to give her a shout out, my mother, that's possible
Speaker 1: ta the birthday? Oh yeah, absolutely, shout out. Hey, hey
Speaker 1: modest at the fifty five years on the days. Let
Speaker 1: your love you. I appreciate you raised uh, good man,
Speaker 1: I hope many both birthday. Happy birthday, Mama, where mamma live?
Speaker 1: My mother live in Minnesota? Right now? Minnesota? All right,
Speaker 1: we happy birthday, kafee. Thank you. I appreciate job, appreciate
Speaker 1: the fetis Charlot made of God. You say empy thing?
Speaker 1: Keep doing that, man, I love y'all. Man. Hello, who's this? Hey?
Speaker 1: Good morning? It's one balls, New Jersey. How you guys doing?
Speaker 1: What's up? Brother? Get it off your chest? Okay, briefly,
Speaker 1: if I meant are you doing? Oh, I'm doing? Say.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say, I remember listening to you
Speaker 1: when you both the Curtis when you want owning Curtis
Speaker 1: in the morning, I think you held your own and
Speaker 1: a very difficult, difficult circumstances as far as the uh,
Speaker 1: the audience that listen to that show. And then now
Speaker 1: as we've seen some of the things that Curtis have
Speaker 1: been saying, he's one of those that's been used in
Speaker 1: justice to hide some of his two feelings towards people
Speaker 1: in color. But I digress. She talks about that in
Speaker 1: her new book Back Thank You. I appreciate that. Bro.
Speaker 1: It was not a lot of us over there when
Speaker 1: I was at w ABC during those days, first black
Speaker 1: woman to co host anything over there in that conservative
Speaker 1: talk space. I really appreciate that, bro. Thank you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was tough a couple of times. I can hear
Speaker 1: it in your voice when you well, I can see
Speaker 1: that you're probably looking at him like, Bron, did you
Speaker 1: really just say that? Yeah? You went to my point.
Speaker 1: What we have to do now with the billions is
Speaker 1: we have to go and embrace the police chief because
Speaker 1: it's not a coincidence that the one time that the
Speaker 1: arrest and firing up these officers happened so rapidly, was
Speaker 1: there was a person of color, a black woman. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she's getting tons of hate mail and
Speaker 1: things are so for so we have to do the
Speaker 1: same thing on the other side, send do so much love,
Speaker 1: thank you, encouragement because what people see. I remember, I
Speaker 1: believe it was in South Carolina when they had a
Speaker 1: black chief and half of the fourth walked out. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you don't, yeah, I'm not sure. Well
Speaker 1: you you can look it up. For my overlall point
Speaker 1: is it's what offices we always tell the good top
Speaker 1: step up, say something, do something, intervene, But we are
Speaker 1: civilians have to let them know that we have them
Speaker 1: back because they're gonna black well, I'm gonna know what situation.
Speaker 1: My co workers are going to turn that back on me,
Speaker 1: and in public they look at me as a cop
Speaker 1: and they're not going to support me. So I might
Speaker 1: as well just be quiet and put my head down
Speaker 1: and keep wall going to let the set us wont continue.
Speaker 1: So we have to let cops know that when they
Speaker 1: go ahead and do the right thing, that we have
Speaker 1: that back them. And if they have some things going
Speaker 1: on in the locker rooms or when they're out of that,
Speaker 1: they're not need to get me the help. Come to
Speaker 1: platforms such as yours and let them and let you
Speaker 1: guys know that, Hey, listen, I did this and this
Speaker 1: is what happens to me right now, and then we
Speaker 1: can go a head and shoot no funny that offerser
Speaker 1: some help with assistance or to support. I agree with that,
Speaker 1: but I wonder every does that even matter, because like
Speaker 1: you know, at the end of the day, they still
Speaker 1: got to go deal with they listen. I think to
Speaker 1: positive reinforcement of great black police chiefs prosecutors Kim foxing,
Speaker 1: you know, because that is important, but it's not gonna
Speaker 1: make their job easier right now, exactly. Now, let's not
Speaker 1: get that twisted. Get it off your chest. Eight hundred
Speaker 1: five eight five one on five one. When we come back,
Speaker 1: we got your room report, Cameroon. He turned down three
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars for an item, he added, and we'll
Speaker 1: tell you why when we come back. Don't move us
Speaker 1: to breakfast club. Good morning, a breakfast club on everybody
Speaker 1: is dj n V Charlomagne the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: breakfast club. We got our special guests with us, Miss
Speaker 1: Ebbony k Williams. Book is out right now better on
Speaker 1: black and let's get to the room as us. All
Speaker 1: Cameron names or chatting is the rumor report. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess we're on the breakfast club. This is were
Speaker 1: the tea spells right on the breakfast club. Now you
Speaker 1: know that an iconic pink fur that Cameron has, that
Speaker 1: Drake was wearing in that concert the other about two
Speaker 1: weeks agoolutely somebody offered him three hundred thousand dollars for
Speaker 1: that mink believe, and he turned it down. I'll purchase
Speaker 1: that jacket probably literally realistically twenty years ago the store
Speaker 1: called Apolo Signature and Hall, I'm on a hunt twenty
Speaker 1: Fish Street. What's the most somebody ever offered you for
Speaker 1: that jacket? Three hundred? I just say ever Bomb told
Speaker 1: about the people who offered it to me, I didn't
Speaker 1: feel they deserved it. It It was more of a stat
Speaker 1: to me saying, y'all, boy Kim's jacket. It wasn't really
Speaker 1: like they appreciate it. Where that jacket came from him,
Speaker 1: if it makes sense to sell it to somebody who
Speaker 1: would appreciate it, or put it where it's gonna be
Speaker 1: seen and be a story that people know it's my jacket. Cool.
Speaker 1: You know you got rich suburban kids who're like, hey, KM,
Speaker 1: my girlfriend really loves your pink jacket. I don't really
Speaker 1: know too much about it, but I'll buy it for her.
Speaker 1: You know how much you want for it? Like that's
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. One, how much Cam
Speaker 1: spent in dry cleaning on that jacket over the years,
Speaker 1: Because if not, it's got to have like a like
Speaker 1: a smell, right, No, not necessarily why because he wins
Speaker 1: the weed smoke bo the weed smoke down. But that
Speaker 1: is how that's spilled on it. That's the value. That's value,
Speaker 1: that's the authenticity. But I wanted to buy Camerons. Remember
Speaker 1: that pink range Rover yet, Yeah, I wanted to buy
Speaker 1: Cam's pink range for my car shows. I thought that
Speaker 1: was less like hip hop, icon icon classic cars. Don't
Speaker 1: you just buy a range Rover and painted pink different
Speaker 1: though he would, people wouldn't know. Anytime you see a
Speaker 1: pink range Rover, you're gonna think Cameron, whether it's the
Speaker 1: original version or not. Period. It's like when you see
Speaker 1: a pink fur, you think Cameron regardless, r don't do
Speaker 1: it in that's fraud that pink first. So I kind
Speaker 1: of glow X was Cam for Halloween. I know all
Speaker 1: you had to do is put the pink fur on
Speaker 1: pink hat. Yeah, because I really I'm gonna looking to
Speaker 1: it again because I found it. But I was thinking
Speaker 1: about buying it, and I think it's just gonna be
Speaker 1: a dope ascid for the car shows. You gotta do
Speaker 1: a range Rover, You do a land Rover, and nobody
Speaker 1: pink discovery. You get no pink discovery. I was trying
Speaker 1: to buy cams Cam's range drover slick ricks are old rolls.
Speaker 1: Royce I was trying to buy, and I was trying
Speaker 1: to buy Nass Mercedes bands like those iconic cars that
Speaker 1: they wanted their coverings. I just thought that would be
Speaker 1: dope for the car show. Now, NBA young boy. You know,
Speaker 1: he's out in Utah, and he was talking about how
Speaker 1: sometimes he's lonely. I'm terrified people, and I'm very shy,
Speaker 1: but I never knew why. I once I walk on
Speaker 1: the stage, I would get it done. Terrified people people
Speaker 1: are cruels like you can't control to ourself, so you're
Speaker 1: never gonna know what someone doing it. I always wanted
Speaker 1: to be a rapper, always my dream. I never had
Speaker 1: a plan. B can't be on top forever. You know.
Speaker 1: I would not be provoked, and I'm not going back
Speaker 1: to why I used to be. I only get mo
Speaker 1: groove it from here. He also talks about how Mormons
Speaker 1: used to come to his house all the time. You know,
Speaker 1: and you tied it's a huge Mormon town, and at
Speaker 1: first he would turn them away, but then he started
Speaker 1: looking at it and saying, you know what, let me
Speaker 1: let me bring them in. Let me start having a
Speaker 1: conversation on it, and he was lonely and he started
Speaker 1: having conversation with him and now he's thinking about possibly
Speaker 1: he might become a Mormon. All I know is, uh,
Speaker 1: we got that audio and he he playing all that. Okay,
Speaker 1: That young man needs therapy, that's all. You know, what
Speaker 1: I mean to unpack some of that. That's it. It's
Speaker 1: just that simple. The brother sounds so vulnerable, and that's
Speaker 1: how anxiety works, right, Like you may not want to
Speaker 1: be around people. You know, people may make you uncomfortable,
Speaker 1: but when you get in front of a microphone or something,
Speaker 1: or you know, on that stage, all that goes away. Why.
Speaker 1: I don't know for some people. But that young brother
Speaker 1: just needs therapy to unpack some of that. That's all
Speaker 1: you think. You think the fact that he's all the
Speaker 1: way in Utah away from friends and family and associates,
Speaker 1: You think that hurt I helped because the best thing
Speaker 1: for him, he's disconnecting. You have to talk about that
Speaker 1: a little bit as well. I think I grew out
Speaker 1: of liking music, but it's like he's still. It's to
Speaker 1: express that sit down the makings. Little things flowed on
Speaker 1: my mother. Man, I was flitted with means of dollars
Speaker 1: from a time I was sixteen at this point in
Speaker 1: my life, and I woke up one month and I
Speaker 1: would like, damn, got me man. Look at the ship
Speaker 1: I spoke about, look at the putting these people in
Speaker 1: and nah, I'm sitting back like, damn, I can't do it,
Speaker 1: but I promise clean whatever I can't clean. A lot
Speaker 1: of self awareness in that man's words. That's how I
Speaker 1: know he's paying attention. You know what I mean. He's
Speaker 1: he's intentionally paying attention to his growth and his evolution.
Speaker 1: His music is his journaling. Yes, that's what I hear. Yes,
Speaker 1: I think he wants to change that. I think he's
Speaker 1: realizing the effects he has all these kids and people
Speaker 1: and wants to change that. I want to, you know,
Speaker 1: and I love that. And you know why I think
Speaker 1: Utah doesn't hurt him because I think as you get older,
Speaker 1: you're very cognizant of what makes your energy go up
Speaker 1: and what makes your energy go down. So if he's
Speaker 1: in an environment that makes his energy go down wherever
Speaker 1: he was, but he knows it goes up in Utah,
Speaker 1: you go find that pocket of joy if you talk
Speaker 1: a where he finds his joy why not. I believe
Speaker 1: he was in Utah because of probation or something. So
Speaker 1: I'm just wondering once that's over, if that's true, does
Speaker 1: he leave Utah that's what? Does he move to Atlanta?
Speaker 1: Does you know that's where pieces and that if that's
Speaker 1: where he has discipline? Right, because actually sometimes terms of
Speaker 1: probation instruct the structure of that can be a lifesaver.
Speaker 1: I've seen it all stars in Utah this year, so
Speaker 1: the whole everybody's gonna be out there in the next
Speaker 1: two three weeks. Damn. Is that what you call it? Disturbance?
Speaker 1: Definitely not a disturbance. Y'all don't have places where y'all
Speaker 1: find piece, like like Rance to Little Mexicogo for every
Speaker 1: year by myself, Okay, yeah, what about yours? Um, outside
Speaker 1: of the crib and outside of out of outside of
Speaker 1: the home, just so many different places. What a blessing though,
Speaker 1: that you find peace in your home? Now, you know
Speaker 1: what I found more? I find more piece in my
Speaker 1: piece is my home. Like that's when I go in
Speaker 1: the house and I don't have to worry about anything.
Speaker 1: It's just just Rashwan. You just dad, just babe, you
Speaker 1: just bull we like and and that's that's my piece.
Speaker 1: My random piece location is Atlantic City. Why I do
Speaker 1: not know really when I go to Atlantic City for
Speaker 1: whatever reason, because my daughter the Chilean, she has a
Speaker 1: lot of Chilean competies in Atlantic City. When I go
Speaker 1: to Atlantic City and stay in the hotel I like
Speaker 1: to stay at for some reason, I'm I just disconnect
Speaker 1: in a different way. I hear, I get still this
Speaker 1: in a different way in Atlantic City. But I think
Speaker 1: my office too. I have an office in Jersey where
Speaker 1: it's like a warehouse where my cars are and I
Speaker 1: just get to look at the cars and it just
Speaker 1: puts me in a peaceful place, just relaxes me. I
Speaker 1: have everything there that I need. Is just yeah. Another
Speaker 1: one I gotta shout out is um Salamander Resort in DC.
Speaker 1: Black owned Man. That thing is nice. Really horseback riding
Speaker 1: middle Middleton, I think Virginia, Virginia, yea fabulous bawling. I
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all, I don't know if y'all paying
Speaker 1: Johnson doing You need to google Sheilla Johnson Johnson out
Speaker 1: here winning. She is my role model. Let me be
Speaker 1: very clear, all right, she got a few of those
Speaker 1: resorts all around and gillas. You got one one in Virginia.
Speaker 1: Also the DC Metro Hotel. Yeah, she balling, balls dropping.
Speaker 1: And lastly, our Doctor Phil show is ending after twenty
Speaker 1: one seasons. So congratulations Doctor Phil. Yeah, what a run
Speaker 1: twenty one seasons. Dropping the clue from Doctor Phil. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I was clapping because it was ending, but
Speaker 1: go ahead, you know, damn it, man, Jesus, I had
Speaker 1: a great run. Years old. I don't give a damn
Speaker 1: how old he is. Why you didn't like that? I
Speaker 1: just thought Oprah could have given the platform to someone
Speaker 1: more culturally relevant. Okay, yeah, that's I got a whole theory.
Speaker 1: Do it. You don't mess with doctor Phil. I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't do. Look, look she tried. She tried with
Speaker 1: Yanna Little but did she Yeah, but that didn't go right.
Speaker 1: I mean from what what what we've read and what
Speaker 1: you know Yanda said. She tried with Yanda rachel Roy.
Speaker 1: She put on, I get what you're saying, thought white doctors.
Speaker 1: That's what I will say. The fact of me up
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Speaker 1: this show too. He's helped me sell some books. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you that much doctor, doctor, doctor Phil for show.
Speaker 1: When I put out a ship one he bought me
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Speaker 1: that Yeah. Doctor helped me save my my daughter when
Speaker 1: she was very, very sick. He got a transfer to
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Speaker 1: works the hind the scenes. He was just talking about
Speaker 1: the term SMD yes, and how if you say that
Speaker 1: after somebody like those are like those a final word,
Speaker 1: like I'll never deal with you against we ever be
Speaker 1: in final and you ebey said, that's a final play.
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Speaker 1: All right, Well, good morning everybody. We are to breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Our guest host Ebony Kay Williams's hand. Let's get in
Speaker 1: some front page news, front page news, Yes, y'all. Yesterday
Speaker 1: we lad to rest the dear brother Tyree Nichols, twenty
Speaker 1: nine years old, gone far too soon. Father, someone's son.
Speaker 1: We talked earlier about how his mother spoke. Of course
Speaker 1: at his funeral, Vice President Kamala Harris spoke. But what
Speaker 1: we didn't get to is the good Al Sharpton, REVERNL. Sharpton,
Speaker 1: who has led the community and culture through so many
Speaker 1: instances like this. He had words as well, is that
Speaker 1: five black men that wouldn't have had a job in
Speaker 1: the police department in the city. That doctor King lost
Speaker 1: his life not far away from that balcony. You beat
Speaker 1: a brother to death. There's nothing more insulting and offensive
Speaker 1: to those of us that fight to open doors, that
Speaker 1: you walked through those doors and act like the folks
Speaker 1: we had to fight for to get you through them doors.
Speaker 1: Understand that there's needs to deal with crime, but you
Speaker 1: don't fight crime by becoming criminals yourself. That ain't the police,
Speaker 1: that's punks. So here's where I think the say the
Speaker 1: ancestors excuse me misstatement, the elders in the culture actually
Speaker 1: very important because he is connecting dots there y'all with
Speaker 1: really like geographically, this is where Doctor King was assassinated
Speaker 1: and I gave his life because he didn't give nothing.
Speaker 1: He was taken away, he was murdered, he was assassinated
Speaker 1: and within a throne Soto. You black men who really
Speaker 1: live in the legacy of Doctor King, execute your own brother.
Speaker 1: I do think that type of cultural correlation is important.
Speaker 1: That's why I talk about in bet On Black Beyond that,
Speaker 1: I like that Al Sharpton talked about, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: that's not protecting crime. But let's be clear what Tyree
Speaker 1: Nichols will stop for y'all. Allegedly reckless driving shouldn't leads
Speaker 1: to that that's not even really of criminal nature. Like
Speaker 1: that I was gonna ask you because I thought they
Speaker 1: said that after watching the cameras they found out that
Speaker 1: he wasn't driving reckless. Why That's why I said, allegedly
Speaker 1: only the officers reports are even suggesting that right now,
Speaker 1: the prosecutor's office, great point envy is not even collaborating
Speaker 1: with that argument. They're not even cooborating. For all we
Speaker 1: know that brother could have been doing nothing wrong, and
Speaker 1: that's probably what the prosecutors will argue. I still wish
Speaker 1: Al Sharpton Revene I would have addressed the system of
Speaker 1: policing though, because based off the cliff I just heard,
Speaker 1: Revene I made it seem like this is an isolated incident,
Speaker 1: especially when he said this isn't policing, this is punks.
Speaker 1: Well that the case. We've seen a lot of punks
Speaker 1: them because this seems like the norm in regard to
Speaker 1: the policing. And I totally understand scolding them because you
Speaker 1: know they're black and it's it's black police officers. But
Speaker 1: it's not just black police police officers who do stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But this is noticed. This was a funeral
Speaker 1: or this is a eulogy, though you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: This wasn't his platform to talk about everything. Everybody went
Speaker 1: up there and address politics in some way, shape or form.
Speaker 1: Everybody did I have a question? Something you said, uh,
Speaker 1: triggered me. I've been having this in my group chats.
Speaker 1: Should the black officers be held to an even higher
Speaker 1: standard because they are black? Well, that's a cultural thing, right,
Speaker 1: that's us. That's what I mean. That's what I'm asked
Speaker 1: because we hope that you know, black people getting those
Speaker 1: positions and that's how they change the culture. Talk about
Speaker 1: the law, I mean us culturally. Nah, I think they
Speaker 1: should just get life regardless. I don't care if they black, White, Asian, Spanish,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter that they should be held to the
Speaker 1: highest point of the law. It's a nuance Danser, right,
Speaker 1: because yes, as black people, I do hold them to
Speaker 1: a highestan because look like that. But when it comes
Speaker 1: to just the system of justice, I want that all
Speaker 1: of me, the fans people, But for me, I'm more
Speaker 1: outraged because you should understand the humanity a black brother
Speaker 1: better than some white person who is systematically other rising us.
Speaker 1: I do hold them to a higher cultural standard person
Speaker 1: a person, as a black person, Yes, all right, this
Speaker 1: one's interesting I'm gonna get your take on this, Nbando.
Speaker 1: You were talking about it a little bit. Biden is
Speaker 1: proposing a new bill, new piece of legislation. It's got
Speaker 1: a jump fee for in it. Yeah, I knew you
Speaker 1: like this. It cuts out hidden fees y'all for credit cards,
Speaker 1: concert tickets we saw, you know, all the ticket master
Speaker 1: of it all, all that going on. The US cened
Speaker 1: and it would target four excessive types of fees, specifically
Speaker 1: online concert tickets, sporting events which I hate, hotels, hotels,
Speaker 1: air fees, airline fees, all these little hidden costs to
Speaker 1: take your shopping card expense from fifty dollars to two
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars. Let me just telling people exactly
Speaker 1: what it is when you go to book a hotel
Speaker 1: and the hotel says ninety nine dollars, and you go
Speaker 1: there with ninety nine dollars, and then they tell you
Speaker 1: they charge your resort fee of twenty nine ninety nine,
Speaker 1: and now your hotel is one thirty and you don't
Speaker 1: know where that resort fee is coming from. Yah, that's
Speaker 1: the feet they should take off, because I'd never understand
Speaker 1: that same thing with the going towards same thing with
Speaker 1: the airlines, there's an airline fee. Where does that money
Speaker 1: go to? I just paid my ticket. Why I got
Speaker 1: to pay an additional forty dollars. Same thing with spartning events.
Speaker 1: If you go to spart event, any show on Ticketmaster,
Speaker 1: any of those things, you pay let's say thirty dollars
Speaker 1: for the tickets, and they charged you a nine ninety
Speaker 1: nine ticket fee. What process that? What's that process of processing? Man?
Speaker 1: I've been feeling like that since the days of buying
Speaker 1: little debbes and McDonald's value meals. Now I'm talking about
Speaker 1: taxes though. When something is ninety nine cents and it's
Speaker 1: a dollar five and all you got is a dollar
Speaker 1: and now you're looking around for a nickel, that's t kid.
Speaker 1: You can't hurt about that, I know, but that's a
Speaker 1: junk fee to me. You know what I mean? When
Speaker 1: you go to McDonald's and the value meal, you should
Speaker 1: be twenty four because taxes three or three fourteen back
Speaker 1: then fourteens, I think the taxes highway and all you
Speaker 1: got his three dollars, Yes, you thought it was two
Speaker 1: ninety nine. I had an extra printy that's right. When
Speaker 1: I was young and didn't know any better about taxes
Speaker 1: when you were a kid and now you're not a
Speaker 1: kid anymore. But that was a junk free to me
Speaker 1: to hit playing that. No, I agree that junk fee. Period.
Speaker 1: Can we get rid of taxes? Taxes? Can we consider
Speaker 1: taxes the junk fee? Mister rs that's not Rashawn talking.
Speaker 1: That is Leonard, that's lenarch. But you know everything saying
Speaker 1: Williams is saying, get rid of these income tax I
Speaker 1: don't mind a consumer tax if I if I'm using
Speaker 1: a good I'll pay your tax, okay, But that income tax,
Speaker 1: that's my money. Give me my money. You want to
Speaker 1: pay no taxes not on my income. Enby, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you why, though, make an argument because my federal government,
Speaker 1: nor my state or local government has shown me that
Speaker 1: they are good stewards of my Money's right, we don't
Speaker 1: know where our bread going. That we got failing public schools,
Speaker 1: we got cracks in the road, we got bridges that
Speaker 1: are barely holding. The schools should be your housing tax,
Speaker 1: which you pay your taxes on your house, That should
Speaker 1: be the school. But the things I have, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of money in my house. V. So that's your
Speaker 1: school tax. That's that's where your kids go to school.
Speaker 1: But like when you talk about the roads, I want
Speaker 1: to know where that that happens. I want to talk
Speaker 1: about the judges, the prosecutors, the police officers, the firefighters.
Speaker 1: That's supposed to be a regular tax. Yeah, if I
Speaker 1: knew my money was actually going to make other people's
Speaker 1: lives better, I would have no problem with that. Say,
Speaker 1: I don't know where that bread is going. Therefore, I'm
Speaker 1: with Ebony Kay Williams. Yeah, a lot of taxes, taxes, taxes,
Speaker 1: call us all right, all right, one more we got
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Speaker 1: Everybody's dj n V Charlemagne the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. We got our guest host, Embity Kay Williams
Speaker 1: joining us right now. She's an attorney, she's definitely an attorney,
Speaker 1: and uh and she's a podcast host and she's a
Speaker 1: podcast on her podcast has her own show coming Up
Speaker 1: with a Good Brother Dustin. Yes, she has her old
Speaker 1: court show coming out in Justice. But you know she
Speaker 1: gives out legal advice quite often on her podcast, Holding Car. Correct.
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Speaker 1: five one. If you need any type of legal advice,
Speaker 1: she's here and we'll go right to the lines. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this Jay? Jay? What's up? Man? What's your question
Speaker 1: for embany so lives? I hadn't had custody on shoes three,
Speaker 1: she's just perks weelve. Last year, I like, you've been
Speaker 1: kind of going through some things, so I kind of
Speaker 1: let her move back in with her mom. But now
Speaker 1: it's a situation where my daughter wants to move back
Speaker 1: with me, but her mom wants to kind of keep
Speaker 1: birds and I understand because they've been missing that time.
Speaker 1: But I think my daughter's just more comfortable staying with me.
Speaker 1: But we haven't found any like custody papers or nothing
Speaker 1: like that, other than like when I went to court
Speaker 1: when she was three. Yeah, So it's like, do I
Speaker 1: should I had got any papers establishing custody? What should
Speaker 1: I do? Like, let me let me help y Oat Jacks,
Speaker 1: let me help you out. It's it's actually pretty simple
Speaker 1: on this. When the good news about child support and
Speaker 1: child custody, there's only one actual law best interest of
Speaker 1: the child. That's it. It's totally controlling who makes that
Speaker 1: decision that will be a judge in family court. So
Speaker 1: this is the thing, Jake, if you've had custody sense
Speaker 1: from three to twelve, you probably still have legal and
Speaker 1: physical custody, but for a change in the agreement. So
Speaker 1: if you really want your daughter to come back and
Speaker 1: stay with you, and that's what she wants, you could
Speaker 1: probably have that happen. If your wife tries to ex
Speaker 1: wife brother or her mother tries to fight you for it,
Speaker 1: then you in petition a court for sole legal and
Speaker 1: physical custody and the judge will decide who is her
Speaker 1: best interest and if it's you, you're good, good love brother? Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Oh? Good morning? What's your question for? Dy? Kay? Williams?
Speaker 1: All right, So I went to court back in November
Speaker 1: for a child support court got it. So the next
Speaker 1: thing I knew, I'm waiting the judge. We have to
Speaker 1: be letting through zoom, so we're getting my ex husband
Speaker 1: differ in everybody's in. The judge says, okay, well, sir,
Speaker 1: how can you prove that you have a diagnosis from
Speaker 1: a doctor that says you cannot work? He says, well,
Speaker 1: I never went to a doctor, but I have a
Speaker 1: condition called drop foot. And the judge is like, WHOA,
Speaker 1: I would need some medical documentation saying that you have
Speaker 1: this condition that you cannot work. Mind you. This is
Speaker 1: a man that just came to New York in September
Speaker 1: and built his mom's basement, so he he's very functionable,
Speaker 1: you understand. So I'm in the fool meetings of botching
Speaker 1: all this play out. He told the judge, Well, I've
Speaker 1: been sending her one hundred and fifty dollars a month.
Speaker 1: This only started a month before a court and the
Speaker 1: only reason he started doing that is because he got
Speaker 1: served with the core papers, right, So this is not
Speaker 1: something he has been doing and whatnot? Why did the
Speaker 1: judge order him to continue paying a hundred and fifty
Speaker 1: dollars without no medical documentation and without asking for any
Speaker 1: taxes without there was no papers that he put in
Speaker 1: Like I had to put in my income, I had
Speaker 1: to put in my bank statement. I had to play
Speaker 1: you know, I forgot the words that it happened before court.
Speaker 1: You have to add all these documents in via the internet.
Speaker 1: And so is your issue that you want him to
Speaker 1: pay more child support? I want him to pay a
Speaker 1: proper amount, all right, So let me tell you what
Speaker 1: to do. I hear you. I told you your frustration.
Speaker 1: It sounds like what you're telling me sounds like a
Speaker 1: lot of steps were missed. But let's get to solutions, right.
Speaker 1: So you need to foul an amendment. You need to
Speaker 1: say you want an amendment to your child support order.
Speaker 1: You need to suggest to the court whatever you think
Speaker 1: is a reasonable amount, five hundred dollars seven fifty whatever
Speaker 1: it is for you says and not even I just
Speaker 1: I wanted four hundred dollars a month. So then that's
Speaker 1: what you got to do the leg work. And this
Speaker 1: is frustrating, y'all because in child support and family law,
Speaker 1: it's not like criminal law. It's not even like civil law.
Speaker 1: It's all on the it's all on the parties to
Speaker 1: do the leg work. And I know that that does
Speaker 1: not seem fair. It's very ext for you. You say thing,
Speaker 1: I've done this, yeah three times. Mind you, I've fought
Speaker 1: for custody for my daughter six times. And the only
Speaker 1: reason I didn't win before is because he worked at
Speaker 1: a job that paid him one hundred and sixty thousand
Speaker 1: dollars a year. So he wasn't trying to give up
Speaker 1: my daughter. He wasn't because he knew he would have
Speaker 1: to pay me seventeen percent of his paychecks. Correct and
Speaker 1: he was like, no, I want custody her. She's doing
Speaker 1: good in school. This is a child I had calls
Speaker 1: in years ago. This is a child that they put
Speaker 1: in a cab at five years old to take a cab,
Speaker 1: a regular cab, like you call the cab company and
Speaker 1: they come. And this is all of that. This is
Speaker 1: from stemming from all of that. Yeah, I finally got custody.
Speaker 1: I stop paying nine thousand dollars to a different lawyer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I got custody. The judgment was like, no, wait
Speaker 1: a minute, this wasn't right. So now look I'm dealing
Speaker 1: with this again with child support. It's ridiculous. So what
Speaker 1: do you what do you suggest? Yeah, it's a frustrating system. Man.
Speaker 1: I hear it in her voice. You can hear the
Speaker 1: emotion there. And that's real because family court systems are
Speaker 1: essentially a made up system, and they are designed for money,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And by the way, what
Speaker 1: she mentioned about her ex or whatever making one sixty
Speaker 1: a year and going for full custody, that's that's getting
Speaker 1: very common. You see the high earning parent, male or
Speaker 1: female by non bronary don't matter, saying I'm no longer
Speaker 1: willing to conceive high child support payments. Just give me custody.
Speaker 1: We see it all the time. I mean, I just
Speaker 1: you know, and not to do anybody's you know what
Speaker 1: they make. But if you make one hundred and sixty
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and all you give for that child is
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty dollars, trash, something's wrong. Come on
Speaker 1: this taxes. So technically that probably present, probably only making
Speaker 1: like eighty ninety, but still one hundred fifty dollars for
Speaker 1: your child a month, and your child's old five years old,
Speaker 1: six years old. That's a lot of money in something blazes,
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty dollars a month when you make
Speaker 1: that much money. Come on. I'm not saying that she
Speaker 1: deserves more, but that is a lot. But some people
Speaker 1: don't get that. I know people that get forty dollars
Speaker 1: and child support, Yeah, but do they make do their
Speaker 1: partner to make a one hundred and sixty thousand nine
Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, you know, you have kids,
Speaker 1: you know, one hundred fifty dollars, but between food activities, schooling,
Speaker 1: closed transportation. Don't put me in this situation, sir. I'm
Speaker 1: not a good example. Right eight hundred five five one
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Speaker 1: legal questions to call. Announced the Breakfast Club of Morning forty.
Speaker 1: Everybody's dj n V Charlemagne the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: breakfast Club, our guests host. Ebity K. Williams is here.
Speaker 1: Of course, she's an attorney and she's answering all your
Speaker 1: legal questions for free. That's right, I said free. So
Speaker 1: you better call up and asking what you need. And
Speaker 1: we have a Brandy online three Brandy, Good morning, Hi,
Speaker 1: good morning, Good Brandy. What's your question? So my question
Speaker 1: is I bought a truck from one of major part
Speaker 1: a Youth truck, and within the first forty eight hours
Speaker 1: my service engine light came on and I have went through.
Speaker 1: This was January and my truck has been serviced by
Speaker 1: this company minimum of ten times. I have been promised
Speaker 1: by different managers that they're got fixed in, they're gonna
Speaker 1: replace my truck, and now here we are trucks still
Speaker 1: asking up is not working right, and now they're dodging
Speaker 1: me and I can't get any help anywhere. So I'm
Speaker 1: just a wonder illegally, do I have any feat stand
Speaker 1: on you? Yeah, Brandy, I got good news for you.
Speaker 1: You got a case depending on where you live. It
Speaker 1: sounds like you said the truck started acting funny after
Speaker 1: did you say forty eight hours? Yes? Man? Okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: So most states have a limon law. A limon law
Speaker 1: says if your vehicle starts acting up, it could be
Speaker 1: anywhere from thirty days too. I've seen up to ninety days.
Speaker 1: You are entitled to a new vehicle. You don't even
Speaker 1: have to continue to pay or invest in service U.
Speaker 1: But you are gonna need a lawyer, And my hope
Speaker 1: for you, miss Brandy, is you can find an attorney
Speaker 1: that specializes in limon law litigation that will take your
Speaker 1: case on a contingency fee versus a retainer, and allow
Speaker 1: you to pay their fees after you get some relief.
Speaker 1: That's my hope for you. Dare good luck, mama, Okay,
Speaker 1: I just thank you so much. You're welcome. Hello. Who's this? Hi?
Speaker 1: My name is Sabrina. How are you a good morning? Everyone?
Speaker 1: What's your question? Foremany? Kay Williams. So, I purchased a
Speaker 1: home in twenty twenty, so my mortgage for twenty five hundred,
Speaker 1: and I told from twenty twenty two the banks that
Speaker 1: they made a mistake. I didn't have enough in escrow.
Speaker 1: So now the mortgage is three thousand, four hundred and
Speaker 1: food dollars. Is that legal? Can they do that? First
Speaker 1: of all, congratulations on your home purchase, Sabrina. I would
Speaker 1: need a couple more facts to give you a solid answer,
Speaker 1: but the short answer is probably actually because of the
Speaker 1: nature of the fiscal agreement between your lender and yourself. Basically,
Speaker 1: you were giving a mortgage payment amount on a conditional term,
Speaker 1: and once they failed that, they made a mistake. I
Speaker 1: hear you. It was their mistake of not calculating the
Speaker 1: escrow account properly. But then you would have to carry
Speaker 1: the extra expense. That's that's likely the scenario. Okay, Remember
Speaker 1: escrow can change depending you know, So if your tax
Speaker 1: school's up, your escrow can go up. Also, if you
Speaker 1: have a just table rate, it can go up as well.
Speaker 1: And same thing with insurance because the insurance is an
Speaker 1: escrow as well. So if your insurance goes up meeting
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stolen cars in your neighborhood, your
Speaker 1: insurance goes up. Your escrow can go up as well,
Speaker 1: so you just need to find out why it went up.
Speaker 1: Check your escrow because it happened. Happened to media of
Speaker 1: a day. My mine actually went down and I was
Speaker 1: trying to figure out what happened. I thought I wasn't
Speaker 1: paying enough. But depending on taxes and insurance, your escrow
Speaker 1: can go up and down. Okay, thank you so much,
Speaker 1: thank you. Mister Hello, who's this? Okay? This is okay?
Speaker 1: All right? What's your course of fair by Kay Williams. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I have a seven year old son. He's the
Speaker 1: second grade game home um. Last week one day he
Speaker 1: told me that his teacher doing a lesson, said that
Speaker 1: five people need to smile so that we can see
Speaker 1: down whoa whoa whoa Old Joe, Jesus Christ, Lord God,
Speaker 1: go ahead, miss kay day Okay, So I contacted the school.
Speaker 1: If it's a sensible she didn't seem as upset as
Speaker 1: that she should have been that someone in her schools,
Speaker 1: you know, teaching kids this. Um, I wasn't a little. First,
Speaker 1: I decided to contact the teachers to did admit to
Speaker 1: me that it was something that she stayed it. But
Speaker 1: as the purpose of staying in that in and in
Speaker 1: a lesson. UM. I didn't like the way that then went.
Speaker 1: So then I contacted the dean of the school. I
Speaker 1: sent an email so that I can have a record
Speaker 1: as we contacting. UM. I didn't got another call from
Speaker 1: They had principle. Long story short, they moved to his
Speaker 1: class um, which is what I was asking. But he's
Speaker 1: not okay. He's not okay mentally, he's not okay emotionally,
Speaker 1: even though he's only eight to turn eight on Sunday,
Speaker 1: he's very in touch with his feelings. Um. He doesn't
Speaker 1: understand why, uh, someone would say of a different colors
Speaker 1: that his color, he has to smile to be seen,
Speaker 1: just keeps staying, just turning a light, keeps crying all jokes.
Speaker 1: Let's okay, listen, listen, let me, let me, let me
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, let me try to help you out here.
Speaker 1: So this is horrific what you're describing. Actually, not even
Speaker 1: joking with you. I think you need to think about
Speaker 1: calling being crump. I really do, because I think what
Speaker 1: you're going to have a case for is what we
Speaker 1: call emotional distress. Okay, that's a tort. That's a classic
Speaker 1: Torquain claim that says that someone has intentionally inflicted and
Speaker 1: by this in this case, it would be the words right,
Speaker 1: saying something so outrageous, horrendous, soul crushing into a young
Speaker 1: formative years your son seven, the understanding identity who they
Speaker 1: are in this world, which is already hard enough. And
Speaker 1: for someone, especially a white person, even if a black
Speaker 1: teacher said this, I want to be clear, y'all, you
Speaker 1: still got to claim, you know, but a white teacher
Speaker 1: saying it makes it just more egregious towards your son. So,
Speaker 1: I think you've got a legitimate emotional distress complaint. And
Speaker 1: what does that look like in terms of money? You
Speaker 1: you would get damage just to make sure your son
Speaker 1: has payment for his mental health treatment if he needs
Speaker 1: any anti anxiety or anti depression medication like, so we
Speaker 1: would add all that up in the claim. And so
Speaker 1: if we want this times teen fifteen twenty for punitive damages, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: call then some civil rights attorney. Yeah, good luck, mamma,
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Did you go to the school
Speaker 1: and and and call them teach U some names? That's
Speaker 1: what I was gonna say. I was gonna say, you
Speaker 1: should have put the little man with some jokes. But
Speaker 1: be right, you gotta tell him stay on the floor.
Speaker 1: He fell on the floor. Stay there, you hurt, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Okay, okay, yeah, you're right. But
Speaker 1: just just so, you know, just so Charlemagne, right, teacher
Speaker 1: says something, what would you respond, I got to see
Speaker 1: the teacher, you know what I'm saying. If she white,
Speaker 1: she gonna get some white jokes. But I wouldn't say
Speaker 1: that rail No, you know what I mean, I'll call
Speaker 1: a man as with something like that, because that's not
Speaker 1: Raciel at all. That's not Raciel at all. That's all
Speaker 1: I'm like, Yeah, something like I would have to see
Speaker 1: the teacher. Though. I'm sure that there's some good, uh,
Speaker 1: some good things that he could have said about the teacher.
Speaker 1: But you're doing the right thing. Cash out, okay, teach
Speaker 1: yourself to cash challenge. Walk in the store and you slipping, fall,
Speaker 1: you stay on that floor, somebody hits you in the
Speaker 1: back of the card. Everything hurts my neck, my back,
Speaker 1: my neck, doing the right thing, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: But god awton, mold school jokes. I've heard all of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: by the way, I've used all of those. That guy,
Speaker 1: that's what we still used old back in the day.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying on each other? I never
Speaker 1: heard it each of that's the way that too. A
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three No, no, no, I didn't teach teachers
Speaker 1: used the body shame back in my day, though. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Teachers will call the kids fatten a minute. They're fat ass.
Speaker 1: They'll call the kid fattening. Men. It wasn't nothing racially driven,
Speaker 1: but they'll call a kid fatten a minute. All right,
Speaker 1: eight hundred and five eight five one or five one?
Speaker 1: Everdy Kate Williams is still here, yes, and make sure
Speaker 1: if you want more that legal advice man, subscribe to
Speaker 1: the Holding Court podcast with everyne k Williams whatever you
Speaker 1: listen to podcasts. All right, And we got rumors on
Speaker 1: the way Tiffany Hattis will she be doing Girls Ship too.
Speaker 1: We'll find out when we come back. It's the breakfast
Speaker 1: Club of morning is ro Timmy or this weekend Weekend?
Speaker 1: How they do the same song in two years? Bro
Speaker 1: Timmy just did this this song, man, he just did it.
Speaker 1: You played a weekend for me right now. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: know who that is. That's the weekend you said, that's
Speaker 1: that's what we can play the road. Timu one on
Speaker 1: the weekend. I thought, wouldn't know who the same sames. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll morning everybody. We all to breakfast club. We got
Speaker 1: our guest host, Ebbedy K Williams joining us, and let's
Speaker 1: get to the room as let's talk. Tiffany Hattish from
Speaker 1: my name? Or you gossiping or you chatting? Is the rule? Report?
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast club. This
Speaker 1: is where the tea spills, right on the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: All right, now we're talking Girls Trip to Now Tiffany
Speaker 1: Hattish is speaking. Will she be a part of the
Speaker 1: next Girls Trip? Girl Trip two is coming out? He
Speaker 1: says it every year and I look forward. So all right,
Speaker 1: there's a push for the film to come out, and
Speaker 1: there's also a little bit of a pushing the possibly
Speaker 1: you should be replaced or your character should be written
Speaker 1: and written out, you know, as a result of the
Speaker 1: last you. I'm asking your opinion on this. I will
Speaker 1: do anything with those monomen I love them. I loved
Speaker 1: everybody that worked on that. They had a laugh for everybody.
Speaker 1: They won't work for me. I'm gonna work with the record.
Speaker 1: I love. I just love to see you. I would
Speaker 1: love to see that. I'm not the girl. I can't
Speaker 1: be concerned about what people think. I gotta be concerned
Speaker 1: about how I feel. I want to sign looking the mirror.
Speaker 1: Am I happy with what I say? Yes, ma'am. I
Speaker 1: would love to see her on girl's trip too, of course. Absolutely.
Speaker 1: There's a literally zero reason we shouldn't zero like Tiffany
Speaker 1: should be able to do girls trip too, Like that
Speaker 1: video has been online for years. She became a star
Speaker 1: with that video out there, and we all regret old content,
Speaker 1: and that old content didn't keep her from being Tiffany
Speaker 1: had to stop nothing now And if I recalled correctly,
Speaker 1: because we did cover this on a holding court, I
Speaker 1: believe that family. I apologized to Tiffany Haddish. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely. Have you been on a girl's trip all
Speaker 1: the time? Yeah? What kind of questioned that she's an
Speaker 1: a k? Exactly? My wife just went on on a
Speaker 1: girl's trip. This is her first girl's trip ever. She'd
Speaker 1: been a really long time. She went for twenty days days. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a long trip. But just watching them happen because
Speaker 1: they got a pack, you gotta make sure to wait
Speaker 1: is the right right? Wait, when you travel, but they're
Speaker 1: on certain kinds. No, that that's because they on that
Speaker 1: that that it was don't do that. It was mom's
Speaker 1: ata right. I don't know, No, I think. I think
Speaker 1: Charlotta Magne just jokes. What what's wrong with nothing? Why?
Speaker 1: Why you say but you're mad? I didn't nothing. I
Speaker 1: didn't say nothing. I didn't say nothing. I'm just saying that.
Speaker 1: And he says, Ada's don't go on trips and what happened? Um?
Speaker 1: I want to say, shout out to my sister Greeks,
Speaker 1: the lovely women of Zata five beta. You better stop.
Speaker 1: So what about Delta? Is what the Deltas do this?
Speaker 1: I have no idea. They flied Delta wherever they go
Speaker 1: and they go on a lot of trips, food all
Speaker 1: the Delta. My mother in law the Deltas, Okay, they
Speaker 1: gonna give me that smoke later on not car Shell rightfully.
Speaker 1: She put this on her Instagram yesterday. On her social
Speaker 1: media she says, question, do y'all put your man's love
Speaker 1: juice in your head to grow? And I late or something?
Speaker 1: Be honest? Your man's what love juice? What is love juice?
Speaker 1: Why y'all looking at why looking at me like that?
Speaker 1: You know what your man's love juices? Oh, this guy's slow.
Speaker 1: How do you do this? I don't know. How do
Speaker 1: you do this every day? I don't know. It helps you,
Speaker 1: It helps your head, girl, that's what she's asking. Is
Speaker 1: that true? I don't know. I have heard I promise
Speaker 1: the same me, but I've heard women use it as
Speaker 1: a serum for skin turnover. Y'all got to start making
Speaker 1: excuses for why y'all like certain things, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? That's why that's why I like the Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions podcast because you know they tell you not the
Speaker 1: king shame. You know what I mean? If your life
Speaker 1: shout out to them. Putting your man's love juice, whatever
Speaker 1: you like to put it, just do it. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you a question. You know how you go? I
Speaker 1: want to know. I want to know. God wants you
Speaker 1: to ask me. Okay, so it don't bring God in this.
Speaker 1: Don't you do that you get in the day, But Jesus,
Speaker 1: you talk about your struggle, goes all the time, about
Speaker 1: your hair growing. No, I don't that you do struggles.
Speaker 1: Talk about a nice baldy talking about the struggles and
Speaker 1: if you could and you had the opportunity to never
Speaker 1: have more hair. No, I never said that. Would you
Speaker 1: try this application to know? I'm not putting a man's
Speaker 1: love juice in my head. See what I'm saying, your
Speaker 1: own loved juice. No, we'll see what you missed. That
Speaker 1: mean is he'd been flirting with This is him flirting
Speaker 1: because I cut it out. I told him this year
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be gay, and he'd been trying to
Speaker 1: flirt with me long. No, that was Was that why
Speaker 1: he was looking his lips yesterday? Yes, I didn't know
Speaker 1: him because somebody put a compilation together for the week.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, of all the times he's trust a
Speaker 1: little happy too. So I am actually pursuing a single
Speaker 1: motherhood journey. No, that's the cut that we discussed that
Speaker 1: we were supposed to play. We were that was supposed
Speaker 1: to be because then we were gonna talk about it
Speaker 1: next hour. That's that's what me and didn't convey that
Speaker 1: to youall producers. So we did. We had a oh
Speaker 1: not eclips. You're also dating again, like dentist who so sweet?
Speaker 1: Doctor Horry here in Manhattan said, I know a really
Speaker 1: great guy for you. I really want you to meet him.
Speaker 1: I'm like, doctor, I'm kind of busy creating embryos and
Speaker 1: writing a book. But okay, she did introduce me. I
Speaker 1: think I might have been ghosted. Oh no, I know,
Speaker 1: but we'll see my my DMS and phone are still open.
Speaker 1: You're gonna get up with somebody. And then he goes to, yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you. I think it should change gentists. That's all. Now,
Speaker 1: since this is live radio and you know we are
Speaker 1: very transparent with our breakfast club listeners. Yes, all, we
Speaker 1: discussing this in a few minutes, right, But that's what
Speaker 1: we're doing. We were going to start it and how
Speaker 1: and start the conversation. Now, open up the phone lines,
Speaker 1: talk to women, talk about the process of having a
Speaker 1: child to go through. That's what we say. I thought
Speaker 1: we're gonna start the conversation afternoon. He said, we'll do
Speaker 1: it during the rooms and then we talk it out. Now,
Speaker 1: this y'all show I'm doing. I'm going where y'all want
Speaker 1: to go, Where wherever y'all want to go. So let's
Speaker 1: talk about the process. You have to process of actually
Speaker 1: freezing your eggs. Right. So, when I started with talking
Speaker 1: about what a single motherhood journey is by choice, because
Speaker 1: that's the that's the new part. I was raised by
Speaker 1: beautiful single mother. Many of us are products of single
Speaker 1: mothers and no single mothers in our culture. But the
Speaker 1: difference is doing it by choice, not circumstance. Right, So,
Speaker 1: who loved you? So you use it? I have a
Speaker 1: lovely that's a great question. I bought it. The answer
Speaker 1: I purchased loved juice. But do you have like a
Speaker 1: you have to be tall, listen successful? Well for the
Speaker 1: money I paid, Nickron, you can't. Who are you talking
Speaker 1: to you? Right now? Let's let's talk. We'll do we'll
Speaker 1: do it after donkey. I want to hear from a
Speaker 1: lot of women out there that's thinking about going through
Speaker 1: the process, are actually going through the process. Eight hundred
Speaker 1: five A five, one oh five one. Let's get into
Speaker 1: donkey next. So you give me that donkey too, bro
Speaker 1: oh man four after the hour. I'm not even joking.
Speaker 1: I say this, I've never heard of a story like this.
Speaker 1: We need a woman named Shara band Kay to come
Speaker 1: to the front of the congregation. We'd like to have
Speaker 1: a world with it. I bet you you've never heard
Speaker 1: anything like this. All right, we'll get to that next
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Speaker 1: hun I'm gonna fatten all that around your eye. This
Speaker 1: man to Doroten Blowers. Man. They're waiting for Charlomagne to
Speaker 1: top the boves have to make a judgment of who
Speaker 1: was going to be on the Donkey of the Day.
Speaker 1: They chose you, the breakfast club bitch. Who's donkey of
Speaker 1: the day to day? Well? And Sharon Donkey of today
Speaker 1: for Thursday, February second goes to a young woman named
Speaker 1: Sharer band Kay. That's what she's been identified as. I
Speaker 1: don't know what the case stands for her birth certificate,
Speaker 1: but for today's he all that case stands for Keller
Speaker 1: because allegedly that's what she is now your uncle Shawl
Speaker 1: is a grown man. Okay. I was born in the
Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds, and at my big age, I've seen and
Speaker 1: heard a lot of things. I actually thought I saw
Speaker 1: it all. But the beauty of life is if you
Speaker 1: live long enough, you will quickly realize you haven't seen
Speaker 1: nothing yet. And I believe that it's safe for me
Speaker 1: to say I have never in my forty four years
Speaker 1: of existence on this planet seen or heard a story
Speaker 1: like this. Okay, See sharaband Kaye decided she wanted to
Speaker 1: fake her own death. Now, we've always heard about people
Speaker 1: faking their own deaths, but none of em been like
Speaker 1: like proven right for our generation. Tupac Chico is the
Speaker 1: go to fake or of death. Allegedly, that was a
Speaker 1: conspiracy theory before the internet, and the Internet just amplified
Speaker 1: the conspiracy theory. But there has been people who have
Speaker 1: actually faked their death. Go do your Google's look up
Speaker 1: John Darwin. He faked it drowning in two thousand and
Speaker 1: two because he was looking for a life in Sharn's payout.
Speaker 1: Then they found him a year later in London. Samuel
Speaker 1: Israel was a former hedge fund manager. He got convicted
Speaker 1: of a Ponzi scheme in two thousand and eight. So
Speaker 1: he abandoned his car in upstate New York, and they
Speaker 1: found his car with the words suicide is Painless written
Speaker 1: in the dust on the hood of the car. But
Speaker 1: officers knew he didn't kill himself. They found him hiding
Speaker 1: out living in an RB with his girlfriend a month later.
Speaker 1: So there are real life examples you can point to.
Speaker 1: And regarded the folks faking their death, I guess what
Speaker 1: I was saying earlier is I don't know if any
Speaker 1: have ever been successful. I don't know if anybody's faked
Speaker 1: their death and like gotten away with it. Okay, But
Speaker 1: there is one common theme to these fake deaths, all right,
Speaker 1: when these people fake are death, nobody has ever really
Speaker 1: hurt in the faking of their death. If it was
Speaker 1: a movie or a TV show, that's what would be
Speaker 1: in the end credits, Like nobody was hurting the faking
Speaker 1: of this death. Well, and this Sharabank situation, that's not
Speaker 1: the case. See Sharabank allegedly killed, murdered, massacred, slaughtered a
Speaker 1: twenty three year old beauty blogger named Kadija. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: poor Kadija will stabbed more than fifty times when her
Speaker 1: body left in the backseat of shared Ban's Mercedes, and
Speaker 1: then shared Ban and her boyfriend went into hiding. Now,
Speaker 1: when the body was found to least trace the car's
Speaker 1: registration the Sharon Band Cage family, and given the CORPS
Speaker 1: had been disfigured, investigators assumed that Sharon Band was the victim. Now,
Speaker 1: the only time I've seen something like this work was
Speaker 1: with Ray Gibson and Claude Banks in the movie Life,
Speaker 1: and they stole the bodies from the morgue and put
Speaker 1: them in the fire so they can escape. Well, guess what,
Speaker 1: this ain't a movie dog. Okay. Cops might have thought
Speaker 1: it was you for a second, but everybody listening to
Speaker 1: me knows what came next because it happens to everybody.
Speaker 1: After they passed. It's called and autopsy. Okay, and the
Speaker 1: autopsy immediately let them know this is a Sharaban. Okay.
Speaker 1: The actual DNA let them know immediately that it was Cadija. Oh.
Speaker 1: So this woman, Sharon Ban went on Instagram and she
Speaker 1: was contacting women, just contacted several women who looked like her,
Speaker 1: just so she could kill one and go into hiding
Speaker 1: due to internal dispute with her family. That's why she
Speaker 1: decided she needed to fake her own deaf internal dispute
Speaker 1: with her family. She started sending the victim messages about cosmetics,
Speaker 1: and that's how she enticed the victim into meeting up
Speaker 1: with her by offering her a set of beauty products. Now, listen,
Speaker 1: y'all know, one of my favorite books is the forty
Speaker 1: eight Laws of Power. Okay, I've read it several times,
Speaker 1: reference it, go back to it all the time. Law
Speaker 1: twenty nine and the forty eight Laws of Power is
Speaker 1: planned all the way to the end. Okay. Forty eight
Speaker 1: Laws to Power tells you that the ending is everything,
Speaker 1: all right, plan all the way to it, taking into
Speaker 1: account all the possible consequences, obstacles, and twist the fortune
Speaker 1: that might reverse your hard work and give the glory
Speaker 1: to others. Okay. By planning to the end, you will
Speaker 1: not be overwhelmed by circumstances, and you will know when
Speaker 1: to stop. Okay, no, when to stop? You gently got
Speaker 1: fortune and help determine the future by thinking far ahead. Now,
Speaker 1: this shitdn't apply the murder, but it does because the
Speaker 1: plan is a plan, and at some point in this plan,
Speaker 1: Sharaban k Are. Her boyfriend, who's an accomplish, should have
Speaker 1: said to themselves, this won't work because of the autopsy,
Speaker 1: and autopsy has performed to determine to cause the death,
Speaker 1: to observe the affective disease, and to establish the evolution
Speaker 1: and mechanisms of disease processes. They can do all of that,
Speaker 1: So the least he can do is identify a body.
Speaker 1: So that alone should have made them abort mission on
Speaker 1: their plane. But no, she still decided to go on
Speaker 1: Instagram and find a look alike to kill. We really
Speaker 1: got to stress the people don't talk to strangers, okay,
Speaker 1: especially on social media. Social media got us all too
Speaker 1: comfortable with violating basic rules of life that we would
Speaker 1: learn when we kids. All right, don't talk to strangers.
Speaker 1: Stop letting people violate your boundaries and into your space
Speaker 1: just because y'all follow each other on social media. And
Speaker 1: I promise you there is other ways to resolve conflict. Right.
Speaker 1: You having issues with your family, so you decided the
Speaker 1: solution to that is to kill someone in order to
Speaker 1: fake your death so you don't have to deal with
Speaker 1: the family issues. I'm not understanding this math equation. Y'all go.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm trying to help my daughter with
Speaker 1: this new map they got in these schools, because this
Speaker 1: is just simply doesn't that up? Please give Sharon Banka
Speaker 1: and her boyfriend the biggest he hall. I don't get it.
Speaker 1: I don't get it because normally, like you said, jokes aside,
Speaker 1: but back to the life movie, I've seen this. They
Speaker 1: just still a corpse. Why do you actually have to
Speaker 1: go kill somebody? M but why does she think that
Speaker 1: was gonna work when you know there's gonna be a
Speaker 1: autopsy performed on the box? Not know? How do you
Speaker 1: not know? They don't do autopsic? I have no idea.
Speaker 1: I don't get it. And then the fact that you
Speaker 1: have internal family issues and that's where your mind goes,
Speaker 1: not you know, family counseling or just block them or
Speaker 1: just block them, stop dealing with your family, like like
Speaker 1: that's where your mind goes. I gotta bind me a
Speaker 1: look alike to kill, to fake my own depth, to
Speaker 1: get away from my family. I don't get it. Bro
Speaker 1: all right, I don't get it. Well, thank you for
Speaker 1: that donkey today. Yes now, since we're talking life, Yes now, emmony,
Speaker 1: Kay Williams. You were talking about you freezing your eggs
Speaker 1: in that process single motherhood journey. Yees. So I am
Speaker 1: at the big age of thirty nine. I'll be the
Speaker 1: big four zero in September. Hey, So it's it's that time.
Speaker 1: And it's interesting. I froze eggs at thirty four thinking
Speaker 1: that I would never use them, and that's very important.
Speaker 1: We were talking offline with miss Taylor over here. A
Speaker 1: lot of young ladies, and I use young relatively loosely.
Speaker 1: To me, if you're twenty eight to thirty six, go
Speaker 1: ahead and go ahead and try to extact your coins.
Speaker 1: It's not cheap. I want to be clear. You talk
Speaker 1: about fifteen racks easy freeze your egg, just just to
Speaker 1: freeze the egg, and then it's monthly maintenance. Correct yearly
Speaker 1: about about a thousand. I've been paying rent for children
Speaker 1: I don't have yet, correct, literally a thousand dollars a
Speaker 1: year just the house, the eggs which now have become embryos. Okay,
Speaker 1: we got you to this, uh this point though, like
Speaker 1: you know the pandemic a little bit, y'all know, I
Speaker 1: came out of an engagement. I absolutely I was actually
Speaker 1: with my ex when I froze the eggs at thirty four, thinking, A,
Speaker 1: I don't think I want the damn kids or be
Speaker 1: if I do want them, obviously it will be with
Speaker 1: my partner. Once that ended, kept living life. This pandemic
Speaker 1: y'all really had me look at legacy differently. Um, and like,
Speaker 1: I feel I'm doing important work in the world. I
Speaker 1: feel God's blessing me to to to to make make
Speaker 1: a little little something, make a couple of dollar, little change. Look, look, look, look,
Speaker 1: little change. And who am I leaving it for? Like
Speaker 1: all this for what to what ends? I think you
Speaker 1: guys are fathers. I assume for a reason you've built
Speaker 1: beautiful families. You have legacy to pass on. I wanted legacy.
Speaker 1: So you said that you got to pick the love
Speaker 1: juice of the man so you can customize. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: let's tell us about this human. So let's talk about
Speaker 1: my specimen. Yeah, yeah, how do you pick it? Is
Speaker 1: it a booklore? It's it's like online dating. It's so
Speaker 1: let's get to it. What is very difficult? What is
Speaker 1: it's very difficult as y'all are dumb? Is uh finding
Speaker 1: black sperm? Well? Really? Yeah, you know a lot of
Speaker 1: people try to humble black men I don't y'all should
Speaker 1: know you have the stuff of gold. Washington Post actually
Speaker 1: just did a whole feature piece about how hard it
Speaker 1: is for black women. Or this is a whole other thing.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of non black and white women who
Speaker 1: are on the quest to have these beautiful mixed kids.
Speaker 1: So they are intentionally buying black sperm. Black sperm is
Speaker 1: the hardest stuff to get on the market of sperm donation.
Speaker 1: That sounds wold, doesn't it? No black And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell you why, black sperm it is hard to get
Speaker 1: number one these banks. Um. Now, listen, you can go
Speaker 1: to the club, go to the bar, and and and
Speaker 1: just get some love juice. Get some love juice for free.
Speaker 1: But if you want to go this kind of intentional
Speaker 1: to your point of I love forty hours of forty
Speaker 1: eight ruled laws of power, I'm a rules power laws
Speaker 1: of power. I'm planning this, y'all with specificity. So I
Speaker 1: want to go to the Cadillac Dealership of sperm donation, California, Cryro.
Speaker 1: There's only a few in the country. And um, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you about some of the details they went into
Speaker 1: my criteria. Will we come back all right? And what
Speaker 1: is the question so we can start getting these calls.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't realize that was a producer over that.
Speaker 1: I thought that was somebody over the way. We have
Speaker 1: never gone there for you, and he's out producer. Just so,
Speaker 1: what is the question? Eight hundred five A five one
Speaker 1: oh five. I want to know about their women that
Speaker 1: are willing to consider single motherhood by choice, and if so,
Speaker 1: what age does that look like? And if you do,
Speaker 1: what kind of donor do you want? All right, let's
Speaker 1: talk about it. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. It's topic time the phone call. Eight hundred
Speaker 1: five eight five one oh five. Want to join it
Speaker 1: to the discussion with the Breakfast Club, talk about it.
Speaker 1: Everybody's DJ env Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Our guest host, Ebony Kay Williams is here. So you
Speaker 1: were talking about this journey back sperm, freezing your eggs
Speaker 1: and looking for a guess a donor. Yes, and so
Speaker 1: tell us this person that you were looking for. So
Speaker 1: it was important for me to have black sperm matters
Speaker 1: first of all. That's we got to start with that.
Speaker 1: Parnia black spurm absolutely matters and I wanted a black
Speaker 1: donor because I am a black woman who feels confident enough.
Speaker 1: This is already scary. Let me just start with that,
Speaker 1: because I know a lot of people probably thinking a
Speaker 1: lot of things like who would intentionally bring a child
Speaker 1: into the world with only one parents, especially just where
Speaker 1: we live in If I didn't think I had the
Speaker 1: basic resources y'all to give this child love, support, fiscal education,
Speaker 1: and then build community, you know, because black men and
Speaker 1: men in general will be important part of this journey,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna try to outsource it. So I wanted
Speaker 1: a black sperm donor because I am a black woman.
Speaker 1: I know a lipped black experience. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: run the risk of a non black donor and then
Speaker 1: have a have a Megamarco situation. Basically, we're a kid
Speaker 1: that I can't relate to their experience, So I wanted
Speaker 1: him to be black. That already took me literally down
Speaker 1: to on a site of three hundred active donors at
Speaker 1: a time, I was down to three. Wow. Just yeah,
Speaker 1: And then you asked about height. I'm not really a hightist.
Speaker 1: I asked the height because he's short. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: that was messy and showing people who living longer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but um, and they say they make better husbands. That's
Speaker 1: that's a fact. I don't I told you to research. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So anyways, I did want to go. I think they've
Speaker 1: got five feet to five five five, six to six
Speaker 1: one and then like six two to six five. It
Speaker 1: was I got the middle cat five seven and six. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he want a six foot child, I'm selling. I'm all
Speaker 1: for this. I got. I got a couple of homegirls
Speaker 1: who are doing this. A couple of home girls who
Speaker 1: have already frozen their egg. You know, they've been opened.
Speaker 1: A body angela Rye, you know, Kendrick g But kind
Speaker 1: of saddens me a little bit, only because I'm like,
Speaker 1: what are we doing? Is men? That these great women
Speaker 1: around here and they got to do this. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be candid with you again. Anybody could go get
Speaker 1: get the club shot up. I mean, let's be clear,
Speaker 1: I'm really not if you're not the love of my
Speaker 1: life and also somebody I trust to make business decisions with.
Speaker 1: I'm really not trying to compare it with you. There's
Speaker 1: certain things, y'all. At this point in my life, at
Speaker 1: almost forty, I'm really not trying to negotiate with you
Speaker 1: about getting my child immunized. It's not negotiable. I'm not
Speaker 1: playing with you when it comes to my kids education.
Speaker 1: There's certain you know what I mean like if and
Speaker 1: I know that might not sit well with everybody that's
Speaker 1: not so politically correct, but I think I'd rather go
Speaker 1: it alone. Let me ask you question. You know the
Speaker 1: thing that's that's kind of ill to me is, you know,
Speaker 1: because there's there's a lot of brothers that actually donate
Speaker 1: this sperm because a lot of them need the money. Right, Yes,
Speaker 1: I ever heard that before in real life. I thought
Speaker 1: that was just a thing that could you get paid
Speaker 1: for it. I don't give you an away for enough
Speaker 1: if you get paid for it. And they recruit college
Speaker 1: kids for that reason because think about how broke you
Speaker 1: are in college. I didn't want to say this, but
Speaker 1: you know it's the breakfast club. You're not talking about colonosterpies. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well I've actually had one asked me why why? Because
Speaker 1: I'm not a man and I'm certainly not fifteen. Women
Speaker 1: get them as well. They do when they're not not
Speaker 1: at nineteen had nine the guinea pig in college. Wow,
Speaker 1: I'm you got paid three hundred dollars. Damn yeah, I
Speaker 1: know guy that's got the ass played in for Chief
Speaker 1: College campus. Yeah wow. So okay, all right, you know,
Speaker 1: because I was just asking because you know, if if
Speaker 1: a donor does give it give the sperm. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want to meet mine, we meet that
Speaker 1: meet that sperm at Lebron James. That's some different, some different,
Speaker 1: you know me. I was there for you when nobody
Speaker 1: else was. You are so stupid for you. Let's go
Speaker 1: to the full lines. A lot of women want to talk. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Sorry? Good morning? This is Amber. Hey, Amber
Speaker 1: talked to us, um so I was just listening. First
Speaker 1: of all, good morning, as we was good morning. I
Speaker 1: worked for Ativical Agency in New York and immiguity, and
Speaker 1: I realized how many black women stasis and I actually
Speaker 1: wanted to donate my eggs. And it wasn't because I
Speaker 1: I wanted to donate my eggs. And it wasn't until
Speaker 1: then that I realized I had my own fertility issues.
Speaker 1: Wo and that started my process. I was fact pcos
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff from that and it causes the
Speaker 1: fertility issues. And it wasn't until then that I said,
Speaker 1: say weight, what about what I'm doing at for my sister?
Speaker 1: When that opportunity no longer became much cool success when
Speaker 1: I started to desire. Wow. And a lot of women
Speaker 1: go through that. They think they have obvious courses over
Speaker 1: their body, especially reproduction, and sometimes you just don't. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's facts. Oh. I was talking to one of my homegirls.
Speaker 1: She start seven, and she's mad, she's angry, and she said,
Speaker 1: you know why, because I go to the doctor, I
Speaker 1: do everything everyone told me to do. Why did nobody
Speaker 1: tell me that I'm born with all the eggs I'm
Speaker 1: ever gonna have because all of people don't know that y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all will produce sperm until the day you die. Correct,
Speaker 1: We as women are born with every single egg we
Speaker 1: will ever have, and all they do is deplenish in
Speaker 1: quality and viability as we age. So why are we
Speaker 1: thirty eight, thirty nine here for the first time? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you should have froze eggs ten years ago. Right. I
Speaker 1: love the intentionality of it, though. I love the fact
Speaker 1: that women are being intentional about Yo, I want to
Speaker 1: have kids, I'm gonna freeze my eggs and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: find the right you know, doing it to do it,
Speaker 1: but it's very expensive and insurance doesn't cover it. And
Speaker 1: you know I have a lot of friends as well,
Speaker 1: let's doing the same. And you know you feel bad
Speaker 1: because you want them to do it early so that
Speaker 1: way they have to pick it a little as they say,
Speaker 1: you know that the most. Yeah, yes, got you. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a cringe, but yes, it's believe that black sperm
Speaker 1: is scarce, very scarce. I'm gonna tell your house scarce.
Speaker 1: It ain't got plenty. Let me. You know what's funny.
Speaker 1: When I did Nick Shell with shout out to you, Charlomagne,
Speaker 1: because he's aware of me through you, he said, he
Speaker 1: was honest. He said, you're so amazing. He said, but
Speaker 1: I I but I don't know any dudes that are
Speaker 1: not he said. That's what he said. Whenever my whole
Speaker 1: girls asked me about to do I'm like, I'm not
Speaker 1: getting involved in that. I'm not doing you to nobody.
Speaker 1: That's what he's saying, because I don't know anybody that's
Speaker 1: ready for me personally. I need brothers to be doing
Speaker 1: the work on themself in a real way. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, if I know brothers are doing the work,
Speaker 1: and you know they really ready to settle down and
Speaker 1: be come to you as a more healed version of theirself. Cool.
Speaker 1: Other than that, I don't get involved. Let's up with
Speaker 1: up the phone lines eight hundred and five eight five one.
Speaker 1: Want to talk to some more women out there that's
Speaker 1: going through the process right now, And let me ask
Speaker 1: you a question. If Nick was actually doing it for
Speaker 1: a lot of these women that weren't able to have babies,
Speaker 1: is bad. We already seen she's got to have it, sir,
Speaker 1: You don't need We don't need to see he's gotta
Speaker 1: have it part too. All right, it's the Breakfast the
Speaker 1: Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Charlomagne the guy. We
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We have emon K Williams here
Speaker 1: that we were talking about how process of having a child,
Speaker 1: freezing the eggs and picking the right sperm donor and
Speaker 1: all that. Um. Yeah, so let me when you pick
Speaker 1: a mix black man you want fully black like you,
Speaker 1: I'm back. I'm glad you acknowledge it's really black. But
Speaker 1: I'm saying because you said you want a black man.
Speaker 1: But I'm sure there's a bunch of mix maybe you know,
Speaker 1: not a bunch, not even a bunch man y'all think
Speaker 1: I'm playing anybody that even physically presents as black brown.
Speaker 1: It's very difficult. So to my threshold was you need
Speaker 1: to appear black black, and I got somebody who is black?
Speaker 1: Do you think that before you go to the fun
Speaker 1: do you think a lot of men black men aren't
Speaker 1: donating this firm because number one, they may not know
Speaker 1: about it. Or number two, a lot of black men
Speaker 1: got conspiracy theory. They don't even like to do DNA
Speaker 1: tests because they're being cloned and all kind of I
Speaker 1: think it's three reasons black men have conspiracy theories for
Speaker 1: I think fair reasons. Number two, there's so much nasty
Speaker 1: stigma around black men even being fathers. You know, there's
Speaker 1: so much narrative around black men having too many keys
Speaker 1: they don't take care of or is that in the
Speaker 1: third So who wants to add to that? Also, these banks,
Speaker 1: these elite sperm banks that women with the means like
Speaker 1: myself used, they recruit unlike Ivy League college campuses. They're
Speaker 1: not going to more House, They're not going to Howard
Speaker 1: and I'm going to Hampton they're going to mt they're
Speaker 1: going to Stamford, and they're going to Harvard, where you
Speaker 1: don't have the plethora of black men that we need.
Speaker 1: Let's go to the phone line. Hello, who's this Hi?
Speaker 1: This is hey, good morning. Tell mama, I don't feel
Speaker 1: like it's a good idea for a black man. Took them.
Speaker 1: Donate to them for a bank. What we have, what
Speaker 1: they have is yal gold and it should be kept
Speaker 1: to themselves. It don't need to be for these others
Speaker 1: to come and try to have these sophy babies. They
Speaker 1: use our duty. Our duty comes with oppression, prouds and tribulations. No,
Speaker 1: it's what about us black women. They want the pure goal. Well,
Speaker 1: we need to have use your platform and get us
Speaker 1: our own sperm bank. Okay, is like you experiento like
Speaker 1: hot bird or something. You have to know history. You
Speaker 1: want us to black is what you're saying. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: have to know how to do your care. You know
Speaker 1: they don't even know how to do that. What their kids,
Speaker 1: she's about white moms or non black women who have
Speaker 1: these mixed race, little swirly kids, and they'd be walking
Speaker 1: around looking like Angela, Angeline and Jolie's daughter when she
Speaker 1: was first born. Yeah, I think that's that say, that's
Speaker 1: what she was saying. That's an entrepreneur. That might be
Speaker 1: an HPCU Sperman. That's brilliant. Yeah, being black for real.
Speaker 1: Get all the sperms and you get you you can get.
Speaker 1: You could get like queues and and kappas and highs
Speaker 1: and GPA. GPA is very important. It is important. I
Speaker 1: got to pick GPA. I got to pick you can
Speaker 1: pick GPA. I wanted a hard sign. It's major because
Speaker 1: that's not really my ministry. So yeah, that's good. You
Speaker 1: could advert for all your brothers out there who want
Speaker 1: to be a positive. That'd be daddy. This is your opportunity.
Speaker 1: Hello commercial, I got five kids, but they don't want
Speaker 1: me to take Canady. Hello, Hello, Hey, what's your name? Mama? Hi?
Speaker 1: My name is Rina, Hey Rina, talk to us. No,
Speaker 1: that's what I know now. I hope it's child like
Speaker 1: eight and I just see parentships by myself for eight years.
Speaker 1: So I feel like if I had the fund back then,
Speaker 1: and like, if I know what I do now, I
Speaker 1: would take the route of getting going through the positis
Speaker 1: of having a child without the parent. YEP, I feel
Speaker 1: I said that to alleviate the pain and the like
Speaker 1: the bad history of happening next splain to your child
Speaker 1: by the parent. It is bill that part um also
Speaker 1: happening to deal with us like, yeah, you're burning I'm
Speaker 1: picking a kid, a child by yourself if you're reready
Speaker 1: gonna end up by with being a single parent, of
Speaker 1: being a soul provider for your child out anyway, you know,
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, And actually I want to say something
Speaker 1: about that. The data says, because some of my married
Speaker 1: women friends have been a little judgie to be candidates,
Speaker 1: I kind of understand. You know, the data says that
Speaker 1: it's not the two parent household that makes a difference.
Speaker 1: It's the change in household. So if you were born
Speaker 1: and raised to a single parent, you tend to condition
Speaker 1: pretty normal. It's when your parents were together and then
Speaker 1: divorce that's where they see the trauma. That's where they
Speaker 1: see the dropping of grades, that's where they see the
Speaker 1: behavioral issues. I was gonna say that too. I think
Speaker 1: this situation would be different because like, there's no there's
Speaker 1: no trauma in ball. Like you know, I've read your
Speaker 1: book bet On Black, and you talk about you know,
Speaker 1: the trauma of not having your father. But in this situation,
Speaker 1: it's different, you know this choice. Yeah, you you were
Speaker 1: not you were not abandoned. You're not forgotten about, You're
Speaker 1: not being denied you. You had a mother that had
Speaker 1: a couple of dollars and wanted you so so badly
Speaker 1: that I shot myself in the butt. I shot myself
Speaker 1: in the stomach. I sp all my you know, savings
Speaker 1: at the time, just to create you and bring you
Speaker 1: into this world. Yeah, like, how much do I love you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know? All right? Well you better act right too.
Speaker 1: Is there a moral of the story to me? I mean,
Speaker 1: just me personally, the moral of the story. Boy, it's
Speaker 1: really hard. I hit for black women have mercy. This
Speaker 1: is why black love is revolutionary. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: A black man and a black woman having kids, growing
Speaker 1: the family's it's a revolutionary act. And this is why
Speaker 1: I encourage black men to be a black women because
Speaker 1: of this reason. Words of doctor Umar. Please not make
Speaker 1: the moral of this story, doctor Umar. But that's the
Speaker 1: one thing, doctor Umar. I mean, he's write about that.
Speaker 1: That's the one thing I can agree with him on wholeheartedly.
Speaker 1: Black men need to be a black woman. I'm not
Speaker 1: disagreeing with that. I'm just not gonna give that much.
Speaker 1: We're not we're not ended my personal deeply personality. We
Speaker 1: shout out to doctor Umar. We're not doing that. So
Speaker 1: what is doctor umars? You got the dunk yet? To
Speaker 1: day we're gonna talk about going to Charlemagne divorces when
Speaker 1: we come back from Orsi or chatting is the Uber report?
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast clus. This
Speaker 1: were the tea spells right on the breakfast club. All right,
Speaker 1: talking all that baby talk. We got to talk some
Speaker 1: divorces now, all right, now we got to start with neo'neo.
Speaker 1: His divorce with his wife Crystal is finalized. Now people
Speaker 1: are asking, you know, what is he getting? What is
Speaker 1: she getting? Well, his wife, his ex wife, will get
Speaker 1: a one point six million dollars lump sum that's to
Speaker 1: balance out their real estate holdings. She will also get
Speaker 1: twenty thousand and moving expenses one hundred and fifty thousand
Speaker 1: dollar check to his ex so she can buy a
Speaker 1: new car because he's taking the old one, which is
Speaker 1: a Bentley truck. Uh does he get he gets a
Speaker 1: Bentley truck? Gets Bentley truck. Uh. She also he also
Speaker 1: has to pay twelve thousand dollars a month in child support.
Speaker 1: Uh and after the one point six yes, and five
Speaker 1: thousand dollars a month in alimony for the next three years.
Speaker 1: The one point six shard is a real estate estate. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so oh got you got you, got you got you Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, so that's that DJ Mustard and his wife
Speaker 1: reach a temporary deal. Now, she was seeking eighty two
Speaker 1: thousand dollars, but it looks like the quarter proved thirty
Speaker 1: five thousand dollars a month in spousal support. So she'll
Speaker 1: get thirty five thousand dollars a month. And they have
Speaker 1: three children. You'll definitely live nee. Is it because it's
Speaker 1: always because of the lifestyle that they used to live, right,
Speaker 1: that's why they get awarded these big lumps things rightwing
Speaker 1: a customed charlotagne. They run a customer to custom Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, but it's right, like, you don't want to
Speaker 1: take your kids from living luxury, and all of a
Speaker 1: sudden they gotta live here, and you your dad is
Speaker 1: still living in this mansion and I'm not you know,
Speaker 1: it's gonna affect their kids. Yeah, I know a rich
Speaker 1: human who had to buy his ex wife the same
Speaker 1: type of house they live in in the same neighborhood.
Speaker 1: Oh he's filthy. Oh no, he got it, He got
Speaker 1: he got it, got it. He gotta go. You gotta
Speaker 1: got it. I mean, I'm not mad at any of that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, you know, God forbid
Speaker 1: if anything like that ever happened to me and my wife,
Speaker 1: she take take half. Like we've been together twenty five years.
Speaker 1: They all say that, get that pre nupstis no. But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you want you want
Speaker 1: your kids to live the way that they live in now,
Speaker 1: you know, you want your wife raises your kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know how long they've been together. The Mustards
Speaker 1: and the NEOs. Think Mustard was with his wife before
Speaker 1: they before he even started. I know, Neil, I think
Speaker 1: was they had three kids so they issued which what
Speaker 1: you just said, that would be theoretically that makes sense, right,
Speaker 1: Like of course, why would a good parent of either
Speaker 1: gender not want their kids spite shows up. So it's
Speaker 1: not that I want my kid to live a messed
Speaker 1: up lifestyle. It's f that. Yeah, I guess it depends
Speaker 1: how that's how that shows up. I guess it depends
Speaker 1: how y'all break up, you know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: still you want you y'all just grow apart. That's different.
Speaker 1: But you still want you the mother, your child to
Speaker 1: be okay taking care of the kids. You know, let
Speaker 1: on exactly even if she even if she cheated on you, though,
Speaker 1: you want to your kids to be good. The kids
Speaker 1: will be fine. You're right, that's what they d good. Yeah, yeah, now,
Speaker 1: but Ely had a word for people that U when
Speaker 1: you've been with somebody for a long time, if you
Speaker 1: started with them, Oh what I don't eber angel angel
Speaker 1: invest Oh Mustard and his wife was an angel investor.
Speaker 1: What is that that's you invested with from the beginning,
Speaker 1: from the beginning when it was just a dream. Jeff
Speaker 1: Basil's wife was an angel. Absolutely, but Ckenzie should get
Speaker 1: every dime that she got. I got a whole fight
Speaker 1: about that one time. But in Pastor Square Garden. It
Speaker 1: was terrible, really with up someone I was dating at
Speaker 1: the time. We just started arguing about that. Really, he
Speaker 1: was like that must be some great poom poom. I
Speaker 1: was like, play what now, I ain't got nothing to
Speaker 1: do with the poom poom. That got to do with
Speaker 1: affection in the garage, stop playing right all right. And lastly,
Speaker 1: we got to congratulate Missy Elliott and tribe called Quests.
Speaker 1: They have among the twenty twenty three Rock and Roll
Speaker 1: Hall of Fame nominee for this year's induction. So they
Speaker 1: revealed the list of Missy Elliott Tribe called Quests, Cheryl Crowe,
Speaker 1: Cindy Loppa, George Michael, Willie Nelson, Rage against the Machine,
Speaker 1: the Spinners, the White Stripes, and some other people. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I say this all the time, every time
Speaker 1: this happens every year. They gotta get rid of the
Speaker 1: rock and roll just call it the Music Hall of Fame,
Speaker 1: like dropped the rock and roll because whenever I hear that,
Speaker 1: I don't be feeling happy for the Missy Elliot's in
Speaker 1: the tribe called quest because they've been icons, they've been great.
Speaker 1: Drop on a clue bomb for them, but still change
Speaker 1: it to just the Music Hall of Fame. I like that.
Speaker 1: Why they gotta be one genre of music? And I
Speaker 1: wonder why they wait so long like a group like
Speaker 1: tribe called Quests, right, like all members are not there? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, one member passed away, Fife door passed away,
Speaker 1: So he would love he would love to, you know,
Speaker 1: see him get his flowers, you know, yeah, when he
Speaker 1: can still smell them. I wonder why they take so
Speaker 1: long to do it, because they deserved it a long
Speaker 1: time ago. Twice as hard for half as much. That's
Speaker 1: what you're saying. That's it, and now we're coming for
Speaker 1: whatever thing. That's right? All right? Well that is your
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Speaker 1: may not have known. And today the good brother beat
Speaker 1: dot is gonna be discussing literacy. Let's listen, so dig
Speaker 1: After the Civil War, a lot of states enacted literacy
Speaker 1: tests as a voting requirement. Now, the purpose, of course,
Speaker 1: was to exclude people with minimal literacy, in particular poor
Speaker 1: African Americans in the South. After a simple Google search,
Speaker 1: I came upon a sample voter registration application featuring a
Speaker 1: literacy test that was used by W. C. Patton, who
Speaker 1: was the head of the NAACP voter registration program, and
Speaker 1: he would use this sample to educate African American voters
Speaker 1: before they went to register to vote. Now, first let
Speaker 1: me read the directions. This test is to be given
Speaker 1: to anyone who cannot prove a fifth grade education. Do
Speaker 1: what you are told to do in each statement, nothing more,
Speaker 1: nothing less. Be careful, as one wrong answer denotes failure
Speaker 1: of the test. You have ten minutes to complete the
Speaker 1: twenty question test. Moral of the story is this was
Speaker 1: super insulting. And thank god for the Federal Voting Rights
Speaker 1: Act of nineteen sixty five, because if we hadn't had it,
Speaker 1: we'd still be taking these literacy tests just to get
Speaker 1: our ass beat in line attempting to vote. Listen, if
Speaker 1: I've piqued your interest enough to want to know what
Speaker 1: some of those ridiculous questions were on the test, you
Speaker 1: can listen to this full episode on the Black Effect
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Speaker 1: bet you didn't know that, and if you did, you
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Speaker 1: to my guy b dot all right when we come back.
Speaker 1: We got the positive notice to Breakfast Club. Good morning morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is d ch n V Charlemagne the guy. We
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club, Emity, Kay Williams. We appreciate you
Speaker 1: for joining us these last two days, so much fun,
Speaker 1: more fun than I could have imagined. And we know
Speaker 1: you busy. You had to do the view yesterday, even
Speaker 1: promoting your book better on Black which is out right now.
Speaker 1: Great read. If you have a guy that ye go
Speaker 1: get it. Read it. Thank you for y'all. Huh, never
Speaker 1: too busy for y'all. You know this is one of
Speaker 1: my favorite places to be in the world. And you
Speaker 1: know it. You know that's true because she said it
Speaker 1: in the book. It's in writing for life. Those words
Speaker 1: will outlive me. I'm gonna book this week and this week,
Speaker 1: and I gotta travel, so I'm on a plane. I'm
Speaker 1: I reading real quick, though, Why do you think it's
Speaker 1: so important to uh sending your blackness? For the example
Speaker 1: you just gave when you talked about renaming the Rock
Speaker 1: and Roll Hall of Fame to the Music Hall of Fame,
Speaker 1: it's called rock and roll. Why they're centering whiteness, that's
Speaker 1: the whole reason. So when we shift that paradigm, right,
Speaker 1: when we reframe our thinking and we say we get
Speaker 1: to center our experiences without apology, it gives us a
Speaker 1: sense of excite. It's exciting to be black. I wake
Speaker 1: up excited every day to be a black woman in America.
Speaker 1: And that's why it's funny though, because you can see
Speaker 1: it when you show up on shows like yesterday on
Speaker 1: the view, like you can see that you can't wait
Speaker 1: to show up in your full blackness. And when they
Speaker 1: ask you about Ron Decantis and what he's doing with
Speaker 1: African American curriculum, everyone was like, what camera, let's play
Speaker 1: the audio. Let's here, Governor desantist high there, Ebony K.
Speaker 1: Williams here. I take great exception to your characterization that
Speaker 1: a degree in Black studies is something other than academic.
Speaker 1: I actually hold a degree in Black studies from the
Speaker 1: University of North Carolina at chapel Ville. Also holds a
Speaker 1: law degree an honorary doctor at Now much time do
Speaker 1: we have um? And I shure you I am wholly
Speaker 1: qualified and academically elite. So I would encourage you to
Speaker 1: revisit your thinking on that one. There you go, and
Speaker 1: it's it's refreshing because I know that they don't get
Speaker 1: that on the daytime. Tell correct, no, they don't get that.
Speaker 1: Great talk like that, but you know what it is.
Speaker 1: And I'll talk about this truthfully in the book bet
Speaker 1: On Black. I wasn't always at this place. It was
Speaker 1: an evolution for me. I have to be honest about that,
Speaker 1: and I want people to think that I just popped
Speaker 1: out the boom. It took me a long, almost forty
Speaker 1: years to get to a place where I've divorced myself
Speaker 1: from white comfort. We talked about that a year ago,
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited and proud to enter in center
Speaker 1: blackness in every space. So all right, I should go
Speaker 1: get better on black. K Willams available everywhere you buy
Speaker 1: books right now. Maybe it's on a positive note. The
Speaker 1: positive note that this man is a quote from doctor
Speaker 1: Wayne W. Dyer. With everything that has happened to you,
Speaker 1: you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what
Speaker 1: has happened is a gift. Okay. Everything is either an
Speaker 1: opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing.
Speaker 1: You get to choose. That's the beauty of life. People,
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, you know I'm finished for y'all dumb