The Mindset Mentor

It is time to take control of your life and stop making excuses. Whatever it is you want in this life you can have, you just need to have the mental fortitude to work hard for it and not allow yourself to make excuses. In this episode we speak about how the gym is a perfect metaphor for life and how you do one thing is how you do everything.

Some people are frozen by their fear. The thing about fear is that we always worry about something that MIGHT happen in the future, and some times something completely out of our control. In this episode we talk about fear and give the top three tips to overcome your fear to make the life of your dreams.

The first step is the hardest. We spend too much time planning and worrying, and not enough time just taking action. In this episode we talk about how to get started and "Just Do It" like Nike says. Successful people don't spend all of their time planning, they take action and then plan.

Believing in yourself is the first step on your road to success. You must believe in yourself before anyone else will. In this episode we speak about the importance of self talk as well as three steps to help you believe in yourself if you don't at the moment. We will also talk about something called "The Funeral For I Can't"

Embracing vulnerability. Vulnerability is a tough subject. As we get older we learn to close ourselves off and put our armor up, and not let ourselves be vulnerable so that we can't get hurt. The problem with that is that in order to have true, deep relationships we need to be vulnerable and others need to be vulnerable. In this episode we talk about the steps to being comfortable with, and learning to embrace, vulnerability.

Vulnerability is a tough subject. As we get older we learn to close ourselves off and put our armor up, and not let ourselves be vulnerable so that we can avoid getting hurt. The problem with that is that in order to have true, deep relationships we need to be vulnerable and others need to be vulnerable as well. In this episode we talk about what vulnerability is, why we hide from it, and the positives of allowing ourselves to be vulnerable.

What do you want? In order to get everything you want from this life we must decide, in detail, what it is that we want in our life. Most people have an idea of what they want, but don't have 100% clarity. In this episode we speak about finding and following your passion in order to have a happy life.

Haters are everywhere. They try to discourage you from being happy and from achieving anything great. In this episode we speak about the psychology of haters and how to deal with them when you encounter them on your road to achieving your dreams.

My father died when I was 15, after years of being an alcoholic.  I don't have a memory of my father sober. Mike Abramowitz of G.R.A.B. Tomorrow asked if he could interview me for his upcoming book and we decided this would also be a good episode to publish. Although this is a longer than our typical episode, we speak about how no matter what happens in your life you have two choices - either you see yourself as a victim or you find a silver lining and learn from every negative...

Jake Bailey has an incredible mindset.After he lost everything, he ended up living in his office, sleeping on a couch in his office and showering at the local gym. Not once did he ever get down on himself during that time. He sees life as an adventure and that point in his life was just another road bump on his journey to success. He now runs one of the most successful real estate offices in Florida and in this episode he shares his definition of a champion's mindset.