Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights. I do servant leadership, boundless optimism, & Oneness/Wholeness. I'm good naked & unashamed! I love positive personhood, love your neighbor as yourself, and do no harm! I'm also appropriately inappropriate! My self-ratings: NC-17, XXX, X, X18+ & TV-MA means empathy! I publish shows at 11am! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support
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Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 84 days 5 hours 51 minutes
episode 80: Hearts over Parts
"1. Intelligence, and deep conversation, inspires you and turns you on. While most love a great conversation, you require it daily from the person you choose. When you hear someone talking about their thoughts, and the things that they question or know in life, you not only admire them, but you find yourself attracted to them on a level unlike any other.
episode 81: The World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) Declaration of Sexual Rights
"Sexual Rights Are Human Rights
For women and girls, the right to control their own bodies and their sexuality without any form of discrimination, coercion, or violence is critical for their empowerment. Without sexual rights, they cannot realize their rights to self-determination and autonomy, nor can they control other aspects of their lives...
episode 82: HOW TO HAVE CASUAL SEX WITHOUT BEING A JERK
"The number one rule for having healthy casual sex: Do not lose sight of your sexual partner’s humanity. Be present and generous with them—before, during and after your sexual encounter.
Treat your sexual partner’s body with respect and care. Share your STI status, ask about their last STI test, and make a plan together to have safe sex. Follow through on that plan.
Be upfront about what you can and cannot offer your sexual partner...
episode 83: STOP CALLING IT “CASUAL SEX”
Side note: I don't mind people casual sex and hooking up being what it is called, I'm elaborating on the importance of not well-treating self and others.
"I wish I’d known sooner that the careless is the enemy of the good. Sex doesn’t need love, or permanence, or even much talking, in order to be healthy and satisfying. But sex without care is toxic. Sex without care leads to violated boundaries, injured bodies and unequally distributed pleasure...
episode 84: Jesus' completely naked on the crucifixion cross was misused for the sexual entertainment of others, Jesus is a survivor of sexual trauma
"On this Good Friday, as on many before, I consider anew the full range of torture and humiliation to which Jesus of Nazareth was subjected, physical and sexual. The latter is so traumatizing for the Church that we have covered it up -- literally -- covering Jesus' genitals on our crucifixes...
episode 85: Crucifixion and sexual abuse
Introduction
"The Bible is always read with a context in mind. Assumptions are made about the original social context of the text and these are most often derived—consciously or otherwise— from the current social context of the reader or critic. In recent decades the positive value of recognizing these connections has been advocated by contextual theologies in Latin America and elsewhere...
episode 86: We must give ourselves the permission to be free of the negativity around sex
"Sexual Health Bill of Rights
It’s up to you to get what you want from sex and to avoid what you don’t want. Get to know yourself, and know your body. Know what you want out of the sexual relationship. What do you find sexually appealing? What feels good to you? What are your limits? Know what kinds of things you are willing to participate in and what things you won’t within a sexual relationship.
Create your own Sexual Health Bill of Rights...
episode 87: Reclaiming and harnessing our sexual beingness
"Sexual Abuse Survivors and Sex
HEALTHYPLACE.COM STAFF WRITER
Becoming more comfortable with sex after sexual abuseby Kali Munro, M.Ed., Psychotherapist
Many sexual abuse survivors struggle to have positive and enjoyable sex lives. It can be very hard to feel comfortable with and enjoy sex when you've been sexually abused. Even people who haven't been sexually abused struggle to feel comfortable with their sexuality and sex...
episode 88: Hayley Jade says that she is an Autistic sex worker
Hayley Jade:
"I came out as autistic during the pandemic. Being isolated for so long finally revealed that I had been “masking,” or performing social behaviors that are considered neurotypical, my entire life. And the less I masked, the happier I became.
I have this theory that autistic people know they’re autistic just like gay people know they’re gay...
episode 89: I am recovering from religious abuse, spiritual abuse, and religious trauma syndrome!
"Agnes and John Lawless argue in The Drift into Deception that there are eight characteristics of spiritual abuse, and some of these clearly overlap with Enroth's criteria...