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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights. I do servant leadership, boundless optimism, & Oneness/Wholeness. I'm good naked & unashamed! I love positive personhood, love your neighbor as yourself, and do no harm! I'm also appropriately inappropriate! My self-ratings: NC-17, XXX, X, X18+ & TV-MA means empathy! I publish shows at 11am! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support

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episode 7: Energy vampires and dark empaths in organized crime


“Dark empathy can describe a form of emotional intelligence that allows you to identify the thoughts and feelings of others and then use them for personal gain. When you display dark empathy traits, your focus is often on how a situation can benefit you, and not how it will affect the other person. While dark empathy can be considered a form of cognitive empathy, some experts believe this terminology is misleading, and that in general, being an empathetic person means having a benevolent mindset. Dark empathy is not a mental health disorder, and it features traits of narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism.” Energy vampires don’t take accountability, always involved in some kind of drama, always one-up you, diminish your problems and play up their own, act like a martyr, use your good nature against you, use guilt trips or ultimatums, codependent, criticize or bully, and they intimidate. “Energy vampire vs. trauma dumping Both energy vampires and people who “trauma dump” can overshare intimate emotions and experiences, leaving you feeling emotionally taxed. Trauma dumping, however, may only be related to one traumatic experience and can be a subconscious expression that you’re ready and in need of support. It isn’t always accompanied by other energy-draining behaviors. Energy vampires often have ongoing, exaggerated drama, though they may also have a history of trauma. They don’t tend to be interested in solutions as the drama helps them secure the attention and energy of those around them.” “The three types of empathy Cognitive empathy. The ability to understand someone’s perspective and thoughts without emotional involvement. Emotional empathy. Being able to feel the emotions someone else is feeling as though you were going through their experience, too. Compassionate empathy. A combination of cognitive and emotional empathy where you understand another perspective and your emotions respond as though you were in that situation.” In the crime world, some drug suppliers get killed, cop killers and cop beaters and cop robbers exist, federal agent killers and federal agent beaters and federal agent robbers exist, some women commit bestiality to feed their drug habit, some women have free sex and paid sex to feed their drug habits, violent betrayals and murderous betrayals and infighting and sex scandals and sex work scandals and adultery scandals do happen. Fake friends, snakes, freeloaders, thieves, hangers-on, and wolves in sheep’s clothing exist in organized crime. In that crime world, I was nicknamed “Mr. About His Business” because I had a serious look on my face which they assumed was a scowl and my other nickname was “Booming” because of my grown man-sounding voice as a child. In the crime world, If you’re not careful about your body language, your bodily moves, and your speech, violence and/murder will be the inevitable consequences. “The different businesses that organized crime figures have been known to operate is vast, including but not limited to pharmacies, import-export companies, check-cashing stores, tattoo parlors, zoos, online dating sites, liquor stores, motorcycle shops, banks, hotels, ranches and plantations, electronic stores, beauty salons, real estate companies, daycares, framing stores, taxicab companies, phone companies, shopping malls, jewelry stores, modeling agencies, dry cleaners, pawn shops, pool halls, clothing stores, freight companies, charity foundations, youth centers, recording studios, sporting goods stores, furniture stores, gyms, insurance companies, security companies, law firms, and private military companies.[125]” Racism in terms of words, tone of voice, facial expressions, gestures, jokes, innuendos, direct statements, racist slurs, BIPOC (black, indigenous, people of color) criminals being paid less than white criminals, whites having better security, BIPOC criminals relying on The Italian Mafia and the Mexican drug cartels for drug trafficking than white criminals. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support


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 March 7, 2023  1h24m