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  E55. Something BIGGER than SELF: Psychology of Service

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(00:08:30) Being YOUR best self is the BEST way to help OTHERS.

(00:10:20) Young Men STRUGGING for Identity & MEANING

(00:21:20) Connection & Communication OVER Mind-Reading

(00:26:20) UNDER-thinking is the Problem

(00:29:53) Values & Meaning in ACTION & Leadership

(00:34:14) IUTys & Self-Sabotage by Using Emotions as Evidence 

(00:37:00) Sabotaging Self-Talk

(00:43:15) E + R = O (Success Equation)

(00:48:45) INDIVIDUALITY & Einstein’s Brain

(00:51:25) Power of Programming by Association

(00:54:44) Science of Happiness & Limited Human Capacity

(01:04:00) Your Human Needs Self-Inventory

(01:08:40) REAL RICHES aren’t RENTED & don’t RUST

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Want to Dig Deeper into Today’s Topic?

Brack, G., Hill, M. B., Edwards, D., Grootboom, N., & Lassiter, P. S. (2003). Adler and Ubuntu: Using Adlerian Principles in the New South Africa. Journal of Individual Psychology, 59(3).

Dambrun, M., & Ricard, M. (2011). Self-centeredness and selflessness: A theory of self-based psychological functioning and its consequences for happiness. Review of General Psychology, 15(2), 138-157.

De Cremer, D., & Van Knippenberg, D. (2005). Cooperation as a function of leader self‐sacrifice, trust, and identification. Leadership & Organization Development Journal, 26(5), 355-369.

Traister, B. (2000). Academic Viagra: The rise of American masculinity studies. American Quarterly, 52(2), 274-304.

Van Norren, D. E. (2020). The sustainable development goals viewed through gross national happiness, Ubuntu, and Buen Vivir. International Environmental Agreements: Politics, Law and Economics, 20(3), 431-458.

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