Apply all of these boundaries to sex: “HEALTHY BOUNDARIES You can say no or yes, and you are ok when others say no to you. You have a strong sense of identity. You respect yourself. You expect reciprocity in a relationship-you sharing responsibility and power. You know when the problem is yours and when it belongs to someone else. You share personal information gradually in a mutually shared/trusting relationship. You don’t tolerate abuse or disrespect. You know your own wants, needs, and feelings. You communicate them clearly in your relationships. You are committed to and responsible for exploring and nurturing your full potential. You are responsible for your own happiness and fulfillment. You allow others to be responsible for their own happiness and fulfillment. You value your opinions and feelings as much as others. You know your limits. You allow others to define their limits. You are able to ask for help when you need it. You don’t compromise your values or integrity to avoid rejection.” Compassionate sexual indulgence and compassionate sexual refrainment are both essential parts of heathy eroticism and healthy sensuality. Women do need oral stimulation for ejaculatory pleasure because penetration is not good enough. Don’t sleep with anyone who cruelly clowns your oral performance, anal performance, vaginal performance, penetrative sex performance, foreplay performance, and non-penetrative sex performance. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support