On Sex, Love, and Addiction, Dr. Rob Weiss, sex therapist and author of a dozen books on sex and relationship healing, interviews global experts like Dr’s. Sue Johnson, Harville Hendrix, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and Helen Fisher, Dr. Kenneth Adams among others. This podcast features robust discussions focused on healing from chronic infidelity, cheating, porn, and sex addiction, along with the pain of relationship betrayal. Dr. Rob is Chief Clinical Officer for Seeking integrity Treatment Centers. He is a 30-year licensed therapist, a Ph.D. sexologist, and author Sex Addiction 101, Prodependence, and Out of the Doghouse, among other books. This podcast is dedicated to bringing information, advice, and direction from experts around the world to those seeking answers to some of life’s most challenging questions.
http://www.sexandrelationshiphealing.com
Foundation of Hope: The 12 Steps Way to Healing from Trauma with Dr. Jamie Marich and Dr. Stephen Dansiger
Dr. Jamie Marich is a facilitator of transformative experiences. A clinical trauma specialist, expressive artist, writer, yoga teacher, performer, short filmmaker, Reiki master, TEDx speaker, and recovery advocate. Marich has taught conscious dance seminars at various conferences nationally, internationally, and online, and has trained more than 500 facilitators in the Dancing Mindfulness practice. She is also the author of several books including the original Trauma and the 12 Steps.
Dr. Stephen Dansiger is a master EMDR therapist and provider of EMDR Basic Training and Advanced Topics Courses with the Institute for Creative Mindfulness, and has helped set up the premiere Buddhist addictions rehab center, Refuge Recovery Centers. He has been practicing Buddhist mindfulness for almost 30 years (including a one year residency at a Zen monastery), and teaches dharma classes regularly in Los Angeles and other centers internationally.
TAKEAWAYS:
[3:40] Why did Dr. Jamie and Dr. Stephen write a Trauma and the 12 Steps workbook?
[6:40] Dr. Jamie loves writing books because it’s accessible for everyone, especially those who might not be able to afford therapy.
[7:35] What made Dr. Stephen excited to collaborate with Dr. Jamie?
[11:55] How do people heal their trauma while they’re also reliving it?
[13:40] What is the greatest gift about being a therapist specializing in trauma?
[17:00] Why throw 12-step practices into this mix of trauma and healing?
[21:00] People enjoy the structure that 12 Steps brings and it makes it easier for them to follow a healing journey if they know what to expect.
[30:00] Dr. Jamie talks about Step 6 and how it can perpetuate feelings of shame.
[33:40] Now that you know about your trauma, what are the next steps? It’s important not to fall into a victim mindset.
[43:30] What is mindfulness, really?
[47:55] Many people who have come into a 12-step program have been wounded by God, and end up missing out on a wealth of knowledge and healing.
[50:20] What books should you start with first?
RESOURCES:
Sex and Relationship Healing
@RobWeissMSW
Sex Addiction 101
Seeking Integrity
Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men
Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency
Out of the Doghouse by Robert Weiss
Drjamiemarich.com
Drdansiger.com
Traumamadesimple.com
QUOTES:
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“There is not a separation between trauma therapy and 12 Steps, and Buddhist practice. It all goes together.”
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“Hurt people hurt people, but how I really like to reframe that is trauma is this phononym where you can bleed all over each other.”
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“Yes I am responsible for adult behavior but I am not a bad person. I wasn’t responsible for what happened to me, but how I learned to adapt and survive, I am responsible for.”