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“Out, or has stumbled across online porn or sexually explicit media, this is not a sign that you have failed as a parent. Consider these steps: Take a breath⁠. Sexual behaviors in childhood can be triggering for many adults, especially if you’re a survivor of sexual abuse or trauma. The calmer and less reactive you feel, the better you’re able to respond effectively. Reassure them. “It’s totally normal to be curious about bodies and sex. You’re not in trouble.”⁠ Name it. “Videos or pictures of naked people online are called porn, and porn is not made for children. It can send unhealthy, unsafe, and confusing messages about bodies and sex.”⁠ Provide safe alternatives. “If you want to learn about bodies or sex, here are some safe options made for your age and to help you learn.”⁠ Check out the alternatives together. Visit the Pornography section of our site for age-congruent resources⁠. Establish new agreements. “I’m going to help you stay safer online by setting up parental controls on the devices you use. This will make it easier for you to stay safe online.” Other options can include identifying the specific times of day or places within the home that device usage can take place. Talking this through together helps them to feel invested in their own safety versus surveillanced or controlled. Help them identify their safety plan. “If you come across porn again or want to learn more about bodies or sex, what can you do?”⁠ Check for understanding. “What questions do you have about this or what you saw? How can I support you?”⁠ Affirm your experience together. “I’m happy we have the chance now to talk about this.”⁠ And keep the door open for more talks ahead.” -https://sexpositivefamilies.com/porn-talks-a-guide-for-families/. “It’s okay for people to curse and it’s okay for people not to curse.” -Antonio Myers. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antonio-myers4/support