You can't have his plan and her plan and expect your marriage to work. You need God's plan and that only comes with a soft heart and staying in The Word of God. Today Pastor Mark says that most couples have the sinful tendency to make sure their own needs are met at t she expense of their spouse and eventually the marriage. You have the opportunity to bond and grow together when you're both on the same page of God's blueprint, and as with any well built structure, following the Designers plan ensures a strong foundation, that can stand the test of time.