Hi! My name is Radiant Rebecca. I'm a polyamorous woman (aka an ethical slut), a courtesan, and a tango dancer. I love to make people blush. Especially if it makes them think! This podcast is about love. And my love life. And my … um, sex life. In each episode, you will hear me in rich, intimate, brainy conversations with my partners, lovers, and curious friends. We will share with you, often in real-time, how we navigate relationship transitions and jealousy, fighting nicely, practice partnership, communicate consciously about sex, money, and more. Expect big chunks of useful information and science geekery, a lot of inspiration, and a dash of magic on top… and of course, lots of talk about pleasure and its manifestations! I believe that TRUE pleasure improves us, and I aim to follow true pleasure wherever it leads. I'm not always right. But I'm always enjoying myself! Care to join me?
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episode 22: Random Side Note (Facing Expectations and Some Poetry)
Expectations, Self-actualization (7:30), tumescence, 30-second wave (3:50), Buddy Wakefield (3:02 - “What if one brain in the heart of this place rose up to the actual size of the actual voice it contained …”)
4:15 - reference the 90/10 game episode - Link to 90/10 Episode of PCR (“I hear sex is on the table!” - https://pleasurecentralradio.com/podcast/i-hear-sex-is-on-the-table/)
6:30 - mentioned Tumescence (Tumescence is the quality or state of being tumescent or swollen. Tumescence usually refers to the normal engorgement with blood (vascular congestion) of the erectile tissues, marking sexual excitation, and possible readiness for sexual activity.)
12:08 - Expectations and flowing with them as they change
19:17 - Referenced Daniel Sloss and Jigsaw (the episode about that is The 3D Jigsaw Puzzle Solution - https://pleasurecentralradio.com/podcast/the-3d-jigsaw-puzzle-solution/)
20:30 - Optional HOMEWORK/PLAYWORK/PLERK
Spend a few minutes daydreaming about that 30-second wave of ecstasy and imagining how good it could be