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What is the Difference Between Sensuality and Eroticism? (lelo.com)

"Erotic sex is when one feels free and open to exploring their sexual desires and fantasies. Oftentimes, when someone does not know what they find to be erotic, they may not be able to distinguish what they really crave, be it sex or simply connection.

Oxford Languages defines eroticism as “the quality or character being erotic,” and the “sexual desire or excitement.” Let’s be honest, that doesn’t really tell us much. In fact, with this definition, it’s difficult to decipher between sensuality and eroticism. So, let’s dive a bit deeper…

In an analogy, eroticism is something experienced by humans. Animals, for example, just like us humans, have sex, but animals are not able to experience eroticism. Which leads us to the conclusions that sexual activity is transformed by eroticism. It is eroticism that drives and captures one’s sense of vitality and vibrant energy through sex.

And just like sensuality, eroticism can be experienced sexually, or in a different context. Looking at a beautiful piece of art, for example, could give one an erotic feeling. It’s fuelled by our own imagination, fantasy, and creativity, and encompasses a level of playfulness and curiosity.

With that, what would we consider sensual sex to be? Well, just as any sensual experience encompasses the five senses, sensual sex is about embodying the moment. Taking the time to feel a partner’s soft skin, smell their body, taste the sweetness of their lips, listen to their moans and uninhibited sounds, really soaking up the lust in the present.

Sensual sex means putting away all distractions, and being so caught up in the experience that there are no worries or anxieties about the past or the future.

It’s when there’s a level of sexual connection that awakens the body. This kind of sex requires both partners to be in-tune with one another, feeding off of each other’s desires, and verbal and physical body language to determine what kind of stimulation they crave. Being able to do this is the first step in being able to really thrive in your sensual sex experience.

Sensually, defined by Oxford Languages, is “the enjoyment, expression, or pursuit of physical, especially sexual, pleasure”. It’s also “the condition of being pleasing or fulfilling to the senses”.

But dictionary definitions aside, what is your definition of sensuality? What things do you do or practice that make you feel sensual?

Sensuality can be felt in a number of different scenarios, be it with a partner or solo. It’s like an energy that’s undeniable, passionate, and sacred, whilst engaging in all of the five senses. Like a kind of mindfulness that is intentional and allows you to be fully present in the moment.

Wearing a flattering and beautiful piece of lingerie can make one feel sensual, for example. How one admires themselves, feels the soft material, adores the colour, and feels a sense of beauty that’s only for him or herself.

Equally so, receiving a massage from the one you’re with can also be sensual, as you feel their hands on your body, smell the massage oils, and really engulf the present.

Eating could also be considered sensual. Think about someone who simply scoffs down their meal as opposed to someone who takes the time to really devour it slowly, appreciating every bite, the smells, the textures. These are all valid definitions of sensuality. There is no one-size-fits-all, as it’s more an experience that’s unique to an individual."

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