Tea with Queen and J.

On this episode… We talk about our favorite hoes and creators of the queer Black feminist centered sex, love and dating podcast Inner Hoe Uprising! Our friend Diamond Stylz joins J. to discuss our love for Inner Hoe Uprising (IHU), the value in telling listeners your business, our thoughts on sex parties, a lil IHU history, the hosts, and why you should listen! Enjoy this listener's guide to Inner Hoe Uprising!

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop culture over tea. Drink up!

Inner Hoe Uprising is A smart & funny podcast about sex, love, and dating from 4 Black feminist 20 somethings living in NYC

EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

Diamond and J. love Inner Hoe Uprising: 1:39

The value in telling your business: 6:37

Who are the hoes?: 11:47

Do you sex party?: 14:03

Our favorite IHU eps: 16:45

Hoe show dynamics: 27:24

IHU episode Fifty, Fine and Fvcking: 35:37

INNER HOE UPRISING, FIFTY, FINE AND FVCKING EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all things sex, love, and dating as a Black woman a part of generation X

lennials.

Points of discussion include: Adoption, Ancestry (dot) com, secret families, fibroids, reproductive health, forced & coerced sterilizations of black women, medical mistreatment of young black girls, bodily autonomy, contraceptives, dating as a teen parent in the 80s, 90s dating for black women, AIDs epidemic, marital sex issues, infidelity, single motherhood, tying your tubes, paternalistic gynecologist, sexual exploration and your agency post 50, kinky communities, 50-year-old fuckboys, having the talk with you kids, words of wisdom from gen X to millennials.

CONTENT WARNING(S)

To skip a a conversation surrounding suicide avoid this section of the episode: 1:24:26 - 1:25:29

SUICIDE PREVENTION RESOURCES

If you are in suicidal crisis or emotional distress, use the contact info below to get help:

United States: Contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (the Lifeline) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Crisis workers are available 24 hours a day. Calls are free and confidential.

Other countries & regions: To find a crisis center in your area, go to the International Association for Suicide Prevention website: findahelpline.com/i/iasp

How to help someone you know:

suicidepreventionlifeline.org/help-someone-else/

www.befrienders.org/helping-a-friend

Follow Inner Hoe Uprising guest Melissa on IG: @being_melli

Check out these episodes of the Inner Hoe Uprising also:

Sex, Romance, & Disability: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/sex-romance-disability

Decolonizing Marriage (w/ Danny & Cleo): https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/decolonizing-marriage-w-danny-cleo

Herpes Isn't The End of The World: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/herpes-isnt-the-end-of-the-world

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Contact Diamond vial email Diamondstylz@gmail.com

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Opening song by Ohene Cornelius