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episode 92: What Is Sex-Positive Porn and Why We All Need It. Let’s liberate women’s sexuality — with the help of porn.


As Erika Lust summarises it:


“Pornography has been made by and for men. In mainstream porn everything is about male pleasure and women are objects. Oral sex for men can last forever, but when women’s turn comes it lasts 10 seconds. Female orgasms are not an issue in most of the films. And women are shown mostly as prostitutes, which is sad. Mainstream porn lacks creativity and a narrative.
They only care about sets of genitals banging together as the woman enjoys fake pleasure until they get their money shot. The man is enjoying his orgasm with no thought to the woman’s pleasure at all. The performer’s are cloned stereotypes, everybody abiding to the same standards. Body hair is seen as something undesirable, or God forbid if you’re not thin and muscular like an action man.
There are no interesting stories, relatable characters, or good sex. It’s bad sex that’s given porn a bad name.
I want others to continue to be inspired by the work I do, I want to encourage other women to get into leading roles within the adult film industry, as directors, producers, and scriptwriters.
The performers look like and play characters that are like the guy or woman on the street, they are natural, individual and attractive in their own unique way. The sex is real, you can see the pleasure. To get excited women want to see something that looks like us. We want to see independent women exploring their sexuality, who are not afraid, but are not sex heroines either. We want to see attractive men who share our lifestyles, our ideas. My films portray men and women as equals with consideration to everyone’s pleasure, fantasies, and desires. Viewers can see themselves in my films, they feel like they could live out that scenario. That’s what makes it more satisfying, erotic, and fun!”

The features of sex-positive porn basically consists of the features of healthy sexuality, from consent and boundaries, to genuine and authentic pleasure and fair treatment of the participants.

Catering to the increasing need of women watching porn — sex-positive porn is starting to become more popular and mainstream.

When talking about sex-positive porn there are other terms talking about a similar idea, such as feminist porn or women’s porn. No matter what we call it, there is a difference between mainstream porn and sex positive porn — and there are slight differences in ideology or other criteria behind it that makes a distinction between sex positive, feminist or women’s porn.

The main idea behind all of them is that sex-positive porn is created for the purposes of encouraging women to accept, acknowledge and embrace their sexuality, equality and pleasure. It is usually produced and directed by women, showing te scenes from a female pleasure perspective — that was almost completely missing from mainstream porn. It is intended for a female audience with the goal that women should watch and enjoy it.

It is coming from a female perspective and based on female feedback. It goes against some main features in mainstream pornography, such as objectifying women and ignoring their genuine sexual pleasure.

Anti-porn feminists believe that the solution to stop porn objectifying women is to abolish porn; pro-porn feminists believe that the solution is to create porn that caters to women’s needs."

Side note: I would love to do ALL of the kinds of roles in women's porn. I'm a pro-porn feminist. 

https://medium.com/@morrison_octavia/what-is-sex-positive-porn-and-why-we-all-need-it-2b4f73cc3985

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 August 11, 2021  18m