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episode 29: The differences between porn sex and real sex
"14. Consent
Sexual consent, without which sex acts are more accurately classified as assault or rape, is another important area where porn and sex diverge. As with many of the aforementioned facets, however, that’s not because it’s absent from porn, but rather because it’s absent from the final cut.
The process of consent in porn is actually typically very rigorously discussed beforehand; performers discuss what will and won’t happen and what they are and aren’t comfortable with in clear terms.
“The reputable, ethical porn directors/producers who follow the law and a) negotiate everything with talent before a scene, b) openly communicate with their talent throughout the scene, and c) always respect their talent’s limits,” says Valmont, “are probably more engaged in the dialogue about consent than most 'civilians' are.”
Those in-depth discussions are edited out, meaning consent in the porn you watch, as with the positions, seems almost telepathic. That can give some porn viewers the impression that you don’t need to ask for consent during sex when the opposite is true. Checking in with your partner regularly is not only important, it can also easily be done in a sexy way if you’re afraid of ruining the mood.
“No always means no, and consent can be revoked at any time, whether you happen to be on a porn set or hooking up in 'real life,’” notes Valmont."
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