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episode 79: Positive, healthy sexual experiences


"The right to make your own decisions about being sexual (or not), regardless of your partner's wishes.

This means that you can choose not to be sexual, even if your partner would like you to be sexual. This includes deciding not to be sexual with someone you have been sexual with before.

The right to make your own decisions about birth control and protection from sexually transmitted infections (STIs), regardless of your partner's wishes; the right to make free and responsible reproductive choices.

This means that you can choose whether to use birth control and decide how to protect yourself. Making responsible reproductive choices also involves deciding if or when you and your partner would like to have a child. This includes the right to tell a partner that you will not have sex without birth control or without protection from STIs. Pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections shouldn't "just happen."

The right to stop sexual activity at any time, including during or just before intercourse.

This includes the right to make your own decisions about sexual activity, but it's important to remember that being sexual is not an all-or-nothing deal. There are several levels of sexual activity. You can decide what you're comfortable with and engage in only those activities you want to participate in.

The right to tell anyone that you are not comfortable being hugged or kissed in certain ways.

Even if someone is related to you, they cannot force you to experience affection the way that they would like. You have the right to tell your relatives and other acquaintances how you are comfortable expressing affection and to be free from sexual harassment.

The right to ask a partner if they have been examined for sexually transmitted infections (STIs).

Asking a partner about STIs doesn't mean you're accusing them of anything. It means you're being a responsible, sexual person.

The right to tell a partner what you would like sexually or to tell a partner that you would like to be hugged, cuddled or touched without sex.

This means you have the right to talk to your partner about your wants and needs. It includes the right to tell a partner that they are being too rough, and the right to be sensual without being sexual.

The right to masturbate.

You have the right to give yourself sexual pleasure; it's not dirty, wrong or shameful. Your partner does not have the right to tell you not to masturbate.

The right to sexual autonomy, sexual integrity and safety of your sexual body.

This means you have the right to make decisions about your sexual life according to your own values. You have the right to be sexual without violence of any sort.

The right to sexual privacy.

This means you have the right to make your own decisions about sex as long as your decisions don't interfere with the sexual rights of others. This also includes the right to be examined by a doctor for sexual concerns without the doctor sharing that information with other people, except in extreme circumstances (like abuse)."

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 October 17, 2021  26m