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episode 21: I am recovering from both of the sexual narcissism and the narcissistic sexual abuse that I was forced to endure as a child
"Problematic relationship patterns
If a person thinks they may be in a relationship with a sexual narcissist, there are behavior patterns to be aware of, including:
- Sexual entitlement: A sexual narcissist may feel that others owe them sex and that they have a right to sex on demand.
- Sexual exploitation: They may be willing to manipulate or coerce others into having sex.
- Lack of empathy: They may feel that a partner’s feelings or needs do not concern them.
- Need for admiration: They may have an excessive need for admiration, especially for their sexual abilities.
- Infidelity: Higher rates of infidelity occur with sexual narcissists.
- Charming pickup artist: Sexual narcissists will initially be charming and employ manipulative dating techniques designed specifically to get a potential partner into bed.
- Sexual aggression: High levels of sexual narcissism and entitlement may be Trusted Source a predictor of sexual aggression.
Convincing a potential sexual narcissist to get help may escalate their behavior since they may not perceive they have a problem and may attempt to put the blame on others.
If a partner shows any abusive, angry, or violent behavior, it is advisable to develop a safety plan. Resources are available to help. People can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline by calling 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or texting 88788. They may also wish to seek the help of a trusted friend or family member for additional support.
Treatment for sexual narcissismCurrently, there is no cure, treatment, or medication to treat NPD, narcissistic traits, or sexual narcissism specifically. However, psychotherapy can be beneficial and enable people to understand their behavior, manage emotions, and take responsibility for their actions. It can also help them build self-esteem and healthier relationships.
While there is not much research investigating treatment for sexual narcissism, speaking with a therapist may be a useful approach for people with NPD. Although the conditions are different, this would suggest that psychotherapy may also be effective for people with sexual narcissism.
Research Trusted Source indicates that some narcissistic traits may decline with age, suggesting that it is not a fixed state of being and change is possible. This indicates that with therapeutic intervention, the ways a sexual narcissist relates to and interacts with others can improve.
However, it can be very difficult for a sexual narcissist to initiate therapy, as they may not always see an issue in their behavior. If a person suspects they are in a relationship with someone who has sexual narcissism, they may consider working with a therapist or counselor to learn strategies that may help the relationship, if they want to continue it. Therapy may also provide the necessary support if a person decides to leave the relationship."
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