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episode 29: The healthy boundaries of no label relationships a.k.a. situationships
1. True Chemistry, true connection, and true compatibility are requirements
2. Common interests must be in place
3. Consistency matters and make the right amount of time for each other
4. Talk about the future and make time to have plenty of healthy conversations
5. Don't make each other feel unimportant
6. Don't be ashamed of each other
7. Be a person of your word
8. Don't try to be all things to all people when it comes to each other
9. Don't engage in self-destructive behavior and don't have tabloid talk show bickering
10. Be open to always treating each other with sensitivity and care
This is strictly and only for those who want commitment according to Healthline:
"Can a situationship turn into a relationship?
If you’re in a situationship that you’re hoping will become more serious, you might worry that telling your partner how you feel will scare them away.
This is a legitimate risk, but it’s one that’s probably worth taking if you actually envision a future with this person. For the sake of your own mental health, you should be as honest as possible with them about how you feel.
You can’t control how the other person feels. Give them some time to think about and process what you’ve said.
Keep in mind that even if they reciprocate your feelings, your relationship likely won’t transform into something more loving overnight.
Of course, if they don’t share your feelings or the relationship doesn’t change with time, it’s probably time to end it.
How to end a situationshipHonesty is the best policy when it comes to breaking off a situationship. If it isn’t working for you, stand up for yourself by telling your partner that you’re moving on.
The same goes if your partner wants to get serious and you’re not ready.
How you actually transmit this message — via text, over the phone, or in person — is up to you. For short, casual dating relationships, a short, to-the-point text message is usually fine.
If you feel disappointed that it ended this way, consider it a learning opportunity. Did the other person show signs that they weren’t interested in you from the beginning? Did you avoid expressing how you really felt?
Recognizing red flags can help you avoid falling into a similar situation."
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