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"How to know if polyamory is right for you:

1. You are willing to be completely honest with yourself and others about your desires and actions.
2. You have a deep desire to spend time exploring different aspects of yourself with different people, each on their own terms.
3. You think you can handle the practical aspects of dating more than one person and are willing to work those out with your partners.
4. You often have feelings for many people at the same time.
5. The thought of connecting multiple people on an intimate level at the same time sparks joy and doesn't leave you feeling exhausted.
6. You often daydream about being in a relationship with more than one person at a time.
7. You feel confined by the idea of being with only one person.
8. You feel capable of loving and committing to multiple people at the same time.
9. You are OK with the idea of your partner having intimate relationships with other people.
10. You feel like you could ultimately be your best self in a relationship with multiple people.
11. You have done the research and spent time trying to fully understand the dynamics of polyamory.
12. You feel like you could bring trust, respect, open communication, accountability, love, and honesty to multiple relationships at the same time.

How to know if polyamory is not right for you:

1. You are choosing polyamory in the hopes of fixing a broken monogamous relationship.
2. The thought of having to consider, spend time with, and commit to multiple people feels exhausting.
3. Anything outside of monogamy feels "unnatural" to you.
4. You haven't spent time self-reflecting and understanding your triggers, insecurities, and past trauma relating to love and relationships."

"Signs you might enjoy swinging:

• You fantasize about engaging in sex outside of your partnership.
• You get turned on by the idea of seeing your partner have sexual contact with other people.
• You're generally turned on by novelty and adventure.
• You and your partner are good at communicating and know how to work through any issues that arise.
• You are able to separate love and sex.
• You like to watch porn featuring group sex, wife swapping, or voyeurism.
• You and your partner trust each other completely.
• You and your partner sometimes dirty talk about group sex or partner swapping.
• You've had group sex in the past and thought it was hot.
• You're generally open-minded and sexually adventurous."

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