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"Sign #1. Fake Humility.

Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less.

Philippians 2:3 tells us, “Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”

Narcissists are by definition self-absorbed, but they know that it’s not Christ like nor socially acceptable to be selfish, so many will mimic fake humility, perhaps even going so far as to put themselves down.

But watch out, this seemingly humble person will not put you first, especially if no one else is watching.

Sign #2. Fake Niceness.

Who doesn’t like a nice and agreeable person?

Narcissists have learned this one (especially the covert ones). But be careful, they will smile to your face but throw you under the bus if it suits their need.

With their laid back attitude and seemingly sincere smile, these covert narcissists talk with a really sweet voice and pretend to be interested in you but truth be told, they are only looking for you to return the niceness and feed their fragile ego.

If you disagree or offer constructive criticism, you’ll see an entirely different side to this seemingly ’nice’ person.

Sign #3. Fake Sincerity.

Have you ever had someone agree to your face and disregard you behind your back? It can be frustrating. Narcissists, especially the covert ones, will not have the courage to disagree with you or be truthful. Instead, they will tell you what you want to hear and do what they want anyway.

Matthew 5:37 is clear in this command: “But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.”

Don’t stay stuck trying to hold them accountable for their lies disguised as oversights; they have no intention on being real with you.

Sign #4 Fake Giving.

Make no mistake, narcissist are not generous people. They have the attitude of, what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine . They will, however, give for two reasons: one, if they want something in return, or two, to make themselves look good.

Matthew 23:5a describes them best when it says: “They do all their deeds to be seen by others.

Sign #5 Fake Faith.

Christian narcissists are typically in the Christian circles long enough to learn the “faith” terminology.

They know what to say to make themselves sound like faith champions.

But watch what happens when a crisis hits. Their self centered, fragile ego doesn’t rely on God. They turn to people and EXPECT help and if they don’t get it, they play the victim.

Remember faith without works, is dead (James 2:17).

Sign #6 Fake Repentance.

Narcissists aren’t apologetic.

To do so, would shatter their fragile image. However they do understand that repentance is part of the Christian process, so they fool many people with their half hearted, often side handed apologies, that typically put the blame right back on you.

Be careful of apologies that  shallow and have no personal responsibility."

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