Dear Jessamyn

Ever wanted to get it on with somebody who’s not your partner? We definitely have and so has our question-asker (and if you haven’t, you just might after this quarantine business…) So what happens if you and your partner can’t come to an agreement about getting your d*ck wet??? Are you destined to break up? Not necessarily but it's definitely a bit more serious than compromising on dinner plans….We’ve got a few options for you:

Instead ask the question, “Dear Jessamyn, how do I effectively break up with someone whom I love dearly?”

• Become a CIA-level liar…. To be honest, we wouldn’t recommend it.
• Compromise - depending on how this goes, you might end up in some kind of ubiquitous cloud of emotional lust

Jokes aside, these questions usually lead back to your relationship with yourself- understanding your needs and what needs to happen for you. 

Oh, and in case you find yourself thinking about f*cking someone who’s not your partner, you might ask: does this make me polyamorous? No! But also, maybe? Nothing wrong with a little self-exploration (as long as it’s done ethically, babes).

This episode is packed full of good stuff. Check it out when you get a hot sec. 

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