“1- Ask First! These days, this should go without saying, but – CONSENT. People that are truly experienced in non-monogamous sexual lifestyles are usually good at Consent. Practice it. Become skilled and literate in Consent. The wonderful thing about group play is that sex has been brought out into the open. Everyone knows why they are there. In any other social setting, it can be nerve racking to invite an attractive stranger home for some slippery fun, but this is a much easier question in a party setting. Generally, one can assume that some gorgeous person attending an orgy wants to have some sexy pleasure. Of course, one should NEVER assume that they want to have it with YOU. If you’re interested, ask. For added points, start with a little friendly conversation, and maybe a respectful compliment (almost everyone loves compliments!). Make an offer. During the act, e.g. a pile of bodies, this rule still applies. You can usually do this with a gentle touch (not on the genitals!) and some sustained eye contact or a question whispered into the ear of the person you’d like to play with. You’ll get a yes, a nod, some ‘come hither’ eyes, or they may just grab you and pull you closer if you’re offer has been accepted. If you’re unsure of their response, take it as a NO.” --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/antonio-myers4/support