Hi! We’re Lacey & Flynn and we f**cking love having sex together. But it wasn’t always this way. A few years ago, we were barely having sex at all. Lacey didn’t want to anymore and Flynn wasn’t happy about it. Instead of breaking up though, we decided to dig into exactly what was going on. How was it possible we’d gone from loads of sex in that honeymoon phase to completely cold between the sheets? We began a mission to explore all the reasons sex dries up in longterm relationships and that’s what we’re bringing you in this show. From resistance to rejection, non-existent sex drives to constant arguments, we’re going to give you the ins and outs of why your sex life isn’t working then show you what to do about it. After years of healing our own relationship by committing to our sex lives like it was our business, we made helping other people with their sex lives our actual business. Since then, we’ve taught thousands of singles and couples around the world via our online course Sex Elevated, how to talk about sex, how to ask for what they want, how to heal their baggage and ultimately, have epic, soulful and satisfying sex lives...
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episode 61: The big argument: Lacey wants Flynn to lead
Today’s episode is a big one.
It’s not what we had planned, but we’re sharing this process, this big emotional release and open communication, to help bring you to the point of your own discovery.
This is us working through one of the biggest pains in our lives and something that needed to happen. Hopefully, there'll be moments in this episode that you really relate to and give you insight into what's happening in your own life and your own relationships.
In this episode, we talk about why Lacey feels like she’s in charge of almost everything and how she doesn’t feel fully understood, how Flynn has been feeling uninspired and partially checked out, and some textbook masculine-feminine polarity. We also come to some realizations about this period of transition that we’re in and new ways to support each other.
It's powerful. It's emotional. It's intense. And it's also full of love (and sealed with a kiss).
So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear a conversation that’s been a long time coming.
Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/61-argument
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