Hi! My name is Radiant Rebecca. I'm a polyamorous woman (aka an ethical slut), a courtesan, and a tango dancer. I love to make people blush. Especially if it makes them think! This podcast is about love. And my love life. And my … um, sex life. In each episode, you will hear me in rich, intimate, brainy conversations with my partners, lovers, and curious friends. We will share with you, often in real-time, how we navigate relationship transitions and jealousy, fighting nicely, practice partnership, communicate consciously about sex, money, and more. Expect big chunks of useful information and science geekery, a lot of inspiration, and a dash of magic on top… and of course, lots of talk about pleasure and its manifestations! I believe that TRUE pleasure improves us, and I aim to follow true pleasure wherever it leads. I'm not always right. But I'm always enjoying myself! Care to join me?
https://pleasurecentralradio.com/
episode 111: Establish Intimacy and Honesty in a Relationship with Sherry and Brian111 - Establish Intimacy and Honesty in a Relationship with Sherry and Brian
RATED R
In episode 111, Rebecca talks to Sherry and Brian about establishing intimacy with your partner and being completely honest about your needs and desires.
Influenced by her time in the army, Sherry’s strong sense of masculinity in her sex life led her to a Quodoushka workshop in 2019 where she wanted to explore her more feminine sexual self and learn more about being intimate and establishing a deep connection through sex. In this episode, she and her new partner, Brian, open up to Rebecca about obstacles in their relationship and sex life. Rebecca coaches them through aspects of overcoming shame in sex, achieving higher levels of orgasms and the benefit of true authenticity with your partner.
GUEST DETAILS
Sherry met Rebecca at a Quodoushka workshop in 2019 about sacred sexuality and intimate communication. She was keen to learn more about her sexual self and sexual story and who she was as a modern woman. Sherry has been in the army for over 18 years and therefore more in touch with her masculinity, how to control the world around her and command the people around her. Each year she became less and less familiar with her own femininity.
Brian is her partner.
Think about this:
- Are you trying to control yourself and the world around you? Or are you allowing yourself to openly express your feelings?
- How do emotional barriers prevent a relationship from developing?
- The huge price of hiding things from our partners is that unless you share yourself, you cannot be accepted for who you really are. Because nobody knows who that is.
- Can you trust your partner with your emotions? (e.g. if you express your emotions, are you afraid that they will react negatively?)
- How does porn affect our expectations of our partners and sexual pleasure?
- There are different levels of orgasm, and it’s a useful concept to understand.
- Try intentionally surfing a 90 second wave of pleasure energy to give yourself permission to experience short bursts of pleasure and connection - that could lead to sex and having an orgasm but doesn’t have to.
- Navigate what feels good and what is acceptable to you in sex with what feels good and is acceptable to your partner. Are there any new areas you would like to explore?
CREDITS
Thanks for listening to Pleasure Central Radio and to the guests on this episode, Sherry and Brian.
We’d love a review!
Support us by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast player, like Spotify or Apple Podcasts. It only takes a couple of seconds and helps other people discover the show.
LINKS TO RESOURCES
———
Quodoushka.com
ShamanicDearmoring.com