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Due to unforeseen circumstances (we got COVID), in lieu of this week’s scheduled episode please enjoy this rerun of a season 2 favorite. Lina interviews a listener who got in touch to share the story of her custody battle with her sex-negative...

First Lina delivers a hot take about how women who sleep with men can become marginalized within kink, then teases out the difference between humiliation and degradation kinks while making fun of dating app bing bongs (as usual). To support the pod...

We’re back! And we’re kicking purity culture in the pants!!  Get info about the Friday 1/26 Deep Dive ! To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends,  starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby...

A sub calls in asking how to make amends for past mistakes. Spoiler alert: you do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting. Unless you're into that. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of...

The words filth and perversion barely begin to scratch the surface of what's on offer in this interview with and her singular penchant for scenes that expand into systems that fuck gender, the body, notions of inside and outside, as well as existence...

A sub is concerned about sending the wrong message when telling Doms she doesn't have hard limits. What to do? To support the pod and join our thriving ask a sub community of kinky pocket friends,  starting at $5/month! Subscribe to the subby...

Bisexual polyamorous writer joins me to discuss bi-erasure, queer baiting, and her spicy time at the infamous swinger’s retreat Hedonism. at $11/month or at $8/month to get the complete interview, as well as access to the archives of interviews...

Hey, it's your real life calling! The one where you're not sleeping on an air mattress in a musty basement bracing yourself to hear your Uncle Jim's conspiracy theories at the dinner table! You -- yes you! -- used to be kinky, and that kinkiness is a...

A listener wants to know the answer to a so-called googleable question - what the heck is a play party, exactly? Lina answers & gives tips on navigating these experiences once you find the right one. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a...

Get more Folsom info from Special thanks to Cactus Cult Leather, , Sylvan and Milton, SF K9 Unit, Bay Area Open Minds, The Satanic Temple and everyone who spoke to me at Folsom!  Get my full discussion with Alex Kacha on or . To support the pod...