ask a sub

Ask a Sub is an advice podcast for the kink-curious to take themselves from dreaming to doing. Our host Lina Dune is bringing wellness kink to the masses, and equipping every would-be kinkster with the tools to become their own BDSM BFF.

http://www.askasub.com/podcast

Eine durchschnittliche Folge dieses Podcasts dauert 21m. Bisher sind 78 Folge(n) erschienen. Dies ist ein wöchentlich erscheinender Podcast.

Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 1 day 6 hours 36 minutes

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episode 11: The Polyamory Cool Kids Table


A new sub wants to know how to manage jealousy when you're monogamous and your partner isn't. Aka, where is your place in the kink community if not at the so-called "cool kid's table?" Well, it's right here next to me. Get instructions for submitting...


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 April 28, 2023  26m
 
 

episode 10: Body Love & Healing Your Gaze with Luna Matatas


Join me and Luna Matatas for a discussion all about cultivating body confidence in a messed up world!  Get the rest of my interview with Luna .  Find Luna online . at $11/month to get the complete interview , as well as access to the...


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 April 21, 2023  21m
 
 

episode 9: We Are Always Evolving (And So Are Our Needs)


A sub wants to know how to communicate their changing needs in a longterm relationship, and Lina equips them with proactive, active, and reactive tools for sharing feedback and keeping the D/s container safe (but also spicy). To support the pod and...


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 April 14, 2023  25m
 
 

episode 8: A Taste For Suffering


A tour through the literary origins of masochism, as well as some modern mythbusting for the masochistically inclined. . with Luna Matatas all about Diversity in Kink on 4/11 at 5 pacific / 8 eastern. To support the pod and join our thriving ask a...


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 April 7, 2023  7m
 
 

episode 7: Read! The Freakin!! Article!!!


Today we’re tackling the question of how to share kink resources with vanilla people you encounter in your dating travels, strategies for protecting your energy as you do so, and how to hold out hope that you're going to convert seemingly vanilla...


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 March 31, 2023  24m
 
 

episode 6: Herpes Hope & Hotness with Safe Slut


joined me to tell me all about her dating life as an HSV+ queen, shared her thoughts on disclosure, and gave us some insight into her first date rituals. Spoiler alert: an HSV diagnosis isn't going to end your sex life! In fact... it might make it...


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 March 24, 2023  16m
 
 

episode 5: Gender Is Fake, Aftercare Is Real


A sub wants to know how to bring forward feminine energy and suppress the masculine during aftercare. Lina’s response? Gender is fake, privilege is real, and pegging your Dom is a submissive act. How did we get there? Guess you’ll have to listen....


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 March 17, 2023  19m
 
 

episode 4: 1970s Leather Culture: "A Very Happy Place To Be"


Cue up some disco and put on your finest assless chaps, we’re taking a walking tour through the heart of leather culture in the 1970’s - San Francisco’s South of Market neighborhood (home of Folsom Street) and the many bars, clubs, and...


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 March 10, 2023  13m
 
 

episode 3: Don’t SUBlimate Your Feelings


Today’s episode is all about feeling your feelings. One sub asks whether it’s possible to introduce kink to her partner in a non-sexual context, while another wants to know how to react in a subby way to conflict with their Dom.  Support the...


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 March 3, 2023  34m
 
 

episode 2: Brat Motivations with Lola Jean


On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about how to find your inner brat and, more importantly, negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a cute puzzle! ...


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 February 24, 2023  17m