Dear Jessamyn

This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and  spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here. 

 Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Media’s newest podcast I Hate It Here, Planet Earth, The Planet Podcast 

This episode was recorded on stole Ohlone land. 

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley...

Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week’s Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries. 

Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm,  Ekhart Tolle's Power of Now audiobook, Letters to a Young Poet by Rainer Maria Rilke and DSM5’s definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone land...

Wait, there’s a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week’s trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some listener feedback and answering a Deary with a Queery. 

Episode mentions: Pauli Murray, Barbara Lau and Ep...

There’s something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315’s trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme Court. 

This episode mentions Ashe’s white guilt from Ep. 313 and Harriet The Spy.

This episode was recorded on stolen lands of the Kiauwee Confederacy...

Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it’s like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…

CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.

This episode mentions: Haus of Phoenix, @HungryHUngryHeejin, Four Agreements

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C...

What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we’re also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Trivia! Hey quick reminder: No One Should Be In Jail For Weed...

When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict animals mean...

Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There’s also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O’Jays.

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C...

It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn’s recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?

Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire Media

Your hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. 

Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C...

Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can? 

Upon  reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vulnerability from Ashe than she typically offers from herself.
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