Dear Jessamyn

We’ve missed you, dearies!! We’re calling this one “To Love More Fully XL,” and if you’re in the business of loving, this is the shit we’ve all been meaning to work on! 

So maybe you and your long term boo are looking into polyamory- things might be a little stale and you’re both cool with it, maybe you have always been curious--as long as nobody falls in love, right? WRONG! Rules are made to be broken, baby girl. We’ve been there...

Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. I mean, what else are we thinking about these days? Ashe and Jessamyn finish their conversation about compersion, having sex with friends, having good communication with friends later and deciding that you don't need to do that anymore, and ultimately, loving yourself. I know you are shocked at that one...

Ever wanted to get it on with somebody who’s not your partner? We definitely have and so has our question-asker (and if you haven’t, you just might after this quarantine business…) So what happens if you and your partner can’t come to an agreement about getting your d*ck wet??? Are you destined to break up? Not necessarily but it's definitely a bit more serious than compromising on dinner plans…...

If you had your dream metamour situation, what would it be? Sister wives (or sibling spouse, as ashe calls them)? Don't ask, don't tell? Best friends? Brunch at the house? Do you want kids with your triad? Do you want a long-distance boo who has a primary partner? Do you want your metamours to come to your birthday party? Do you want to go to theirs?

Listen to What the F**k is a Metamour XL (but don't put asterisks in the title of your podcast or it may not publish...

"How can I possibly be okay with my boyfriend wanting a threesome when I'm not interested and I wish he wasn't too?" Should our question-asker:   

A) try the threesome again, see what she thinks and then decide
   
B) trust her gut, tell him to kick rocks, encourage him to just go for it with his co-worker Amber, spend some time alone thinking about what she wants, and masturbate
     
C) Stick it out, stay with him and come up with a compromise...

Polyamory; for all the sex and fun and swinging from chandeliers with Sia, healthy poly relationships require so much communication, it can be dizzying. (*Also, don't try the chandelier thing at home*) 

Constantly challenging the status quo just by being yourself, is not all cheap thrills. It can feel isolating fast, even for seasoned pros. Even crazier, is when those conversations steer toward your partner starting to dating someone else for the first time...

Picking up the thread from episode 1, we still want to know, can you choose betwee polyamory or monogamy? Is Sexual Identity A Choice?

What if your partner used to be polyamorous but now they are with you and y'all are monogamous? Did your partner change who they are? Did they change for you? Is that even a thing? Are they definitely, secretly cheating on you, as Jessamyn believes about most people? ????????????

Join Ashe and Jessamyn as we go even more in-depth than...

We are so excited to introduce you to our show!

Dear Jessamyn is a new podcast from Tenderfire Media, where host Jessamyn Stanley takes what she knows about being a yoga teacher, writer, and tech entrepreneur, and tackles questions she receives on social media about 21st-century love and the yoga of life...