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episode 221: "I Should Know This" Lies We Tell Ourselves in Rumination
If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of I should be past this and using your intellectual smarts as evil tools to hammer yourself with, this episode is for you.
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Sneaky Peek at What You'll Learn In This Episode:
- Unconscious Competence: Understanding embodied knowledge vs mental masturbation
- How telling yourself "I should know this" is the cowardly response (and what the courageous one is)
- Why knowing something intellectually doesn't translate to action