Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

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Have you spent endless hours and countless efforts trying to find a therapist that knows and understands what you are going through? What about the overwhelming cost involved with different therapies, treatments, and counselors? To top it all off, things still are not any better. You still feel unsafe, traumatized, and misunderstood. You are not alone in this struggle.



As one woman describes her experience:




"He was charming, handsome, and a doctor from 3 generations of physicians. I had a nice job with two great sons. My life was full. I didn’t see it coming. Things started out great, slowly transforming into emotional game playing, crazy-making, and gaslighting. I was blind to his substance abuse and pornography addiction up to post-heart attack when he couldn’t hide it anymore. Ending in my broken ribs and financial ruin. After strategic planning to get to physical safety without family or a support system the emotional turmoil and trauma came tumbling out. I’ve spent hours of therapy and reading to research my own issues of letting go and I was stuck. This was my life for the past six years."




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Another woman recalls,




"I had spent over 10 years and $10,000 in and out of couples counseling. Even though my husband had been unfaithful and had a problem with pornography and masturbation they looked at our issues as a couple problem. The multiple therapists we saw had years of experience, but they knew nothing whatsoever about betrayal trauma, sexual integrity issues or addictions, or the emotional abuse involved. In fact, my husband was able to successfully gaslight one therapist to the point where he told me that if I would become a “safe person my husband would quit lying to me.” Unfortunately, even though my intuition told me otherwise I took what he said to heart and I worked so very, very hard to become safer. I bet you can guess the result of all my hard work. Yep, my husband lied to me again and again and again. It was never about me."




So what can be done? What can save you from years of turmoil, trauma, and pain? BTR is here to help. The entire focus of Betrayal Trauma Recovery is safety for women. With safety as the aim, the goals change to reflect women's remarkable strength and center around empowerment.



How Does Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Help Women?



One client states,




"Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group provides support, validation, empowerment, education, organization, consistency, safety, confidentiality, respect, kindness, acceptance, and love. I don’t use those words lightly. BTRG and all of BTR has been a lifeline for me that is indescribable. I like the fact that I can get help from home because I am unable to travel outside the home. The coaches provide helpful feedback, insightful feedback, they are knowledgeable, kind, patient, and have helped me to stay grounded in reality. The group members provide much-needed community and validation. BTR has been a godsend. That I can share what I’m going through with other women that understand, it’s amazing."




One reason that BTR is so helpful is because of the vast knowledge base that already exists within our groups and among our coaches. A woman shares her thoughts on this phenomenon,




"Unlike beginning with a new therapist, I didn’t have to spend hours giving background because these women already understood what was going on in my heart and in my home.