This podcast is for you if you’ve spent years secretly seeking reassurance and approval in your relationships. Now you’re in a period of transition – kids leaving, parents aging, job changing, career shifting, relationship stagnation, identity questioning. You feel like you CAN’T DO IT anymore, but you’re afraid of what happens if you aren’t what others need and expect you to be.You’re in a Midlife Tectonic Shift.Hey there, I’m EZ martin-chan. I midwife female identified and socialized humans through their Midlife Tectonic Shifts. I help you unlearn and disassemble the internalized people pleasing scaffolding – a paradigm culture gifted you. So you can wake up every morning confidently grounded in who the fq you are, and so you can unapologetically step into your rebellious power and BEcome who you are meant to BE. If you want to tame your fears so you can claim your worth and enoughness, and know you are everything the world needs right now …Hit subscribe and be sure to listen weekly.
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episode 6: It’s a Rebellious Act: Getting Clarity on What We Are Doing in the NPPZ
People Pleasing is so entrenched in our culture that it has become part of the status quo. On many levels, the culture benefits from people-pleasing behaviours. When those of us stuck down what I call The People Pleasing Rabbit Hole, begin to heal ourselves and climb out of this way of being in the world, it is a rebellious act.
It is a challenge to a way of being in the world that is based on DOing; doing what we believe other people need and expect from us. Removing ourselves from The People Pleasing Rabbit Hole shifts perspectives – we start living from a place of BEing – and the things we do in this world come from our BEingness. A culture that judges based on accomplishments is a culture structured on DOing rather than BEing.
And that opens the door to change how we interact with others. It changes how we do relationships and community.
This episode is about articulating clarity on what the No People Pleasing Zone is all about, and claim the act of climbing out of The People Pleasing Rabbit Hole as an act of rebellion.
- A space where we dive into self-love and challenge even the most subtle aspects of self-hate normalized in our cultures.
- A space where we strive to respect and value our own opinions over the opinions of others
- A space where we reconnect with ourselves, so we can nurture autonomy and sovereignty.
- A space where we show up each week to explore perspectives, dance with possibilities; and be inspired and emboldened to Fearlessly Thrive in authentic innate worth.
About the Host:
Elizabeth Martin-Chan is an empowerment coach inspiring and emboldening women to lovingly embrace their gifts, passions, and innate worth. She believes that women everywhere can fearlessly thrive in their authenticity. Elizabeth helps women climb out of the People Pleasing Rabbit Hole so they can feel entitled to their needs and desires; excited to jump out of bed every morning; and confident in negotiating the path they walk. She is your accomplice in disrupting status quos, so you can reclaim self-acceptance.
Personal Links:
website: elizabethmartinchan.com
instagram: elizabeth.martin.chan
Resource Links
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