Do you give all your energy to your family and have no energy left for yourself?
Do you feel guilty often, like you are failing as a parent?
Are you trying to be the perfect parent?
Are you showing up for your child way too much?
It doesn’t have to be this way! In this episode, we discuss the benefits of moving far away from being the perfect parent and towards how to be a “good enough” parent using the 70-30 rule.
Be sure to listen for:
· The work of British paediatrician David Winnicott, on the “good enough mother” and his studies showing that kids benefit from good enough parenting
· Why it’s important to develop a secure attachment with your child at a young age
· How good enough parenting allows your child to develop an adaptive nervous system and emotional resiliency
· The 70-30 Rule for parents
· The goals and benefits of good enough parenting
· The consequences of neglectful parenting
· Strategies on how to be a good enough parent while implementing the 70-30 rule