episode 48: How Hard Work Will Not Make You Successful
If you’ve relied on “working hard” to get where you are today, growing to the next level of business will require you to let go of this mentality, especially if you are trying to build a business that doesn’t require more of your time each week.
Listen to this episode as Kinsey and Jenny discuss the mistakes female entrepreneurs commonly make when growing their coaching business and what happens when you start to create success outside of the common belief: ‘If I just work a little harder, I know I’ll be more successful.’
To get more info on how to work with us inside Female Founders Board where you learn how to grow from 6 to 7-figures, email hello@kinseymachos.com
Do not miss these highlights:
04:55 You're successful if you create those neural pathways around working hard in some capacity, and still generating good results.
06:01 To be successful is understanding how hard work is sabotaging you, self awareness is key.
07:25 Your biggest vulnerability at this point is the entitlement, assuming that you already know it all.
09:05 The difference that we can make is how we're showing up to each action, and not to retreat backward.
09:47 What am I trying to protect myself from learning, or knowing, is sabotaging the very success that I'm after.
10:16 Having the belief, and the permission inside you to come out and reach those next levels.
11:03 Stepping into your power where this just naturally happens. It's inevitable.
11:20 Manifesting the extremes, "I'm just going to sit back," or the opposite extreme that is "I'm just gonna work hard my way to success."
12:00 Another discovery process, are we staying right in that middle ground, or are we really allowing ourselves to create more success?
13:14 What are some indicator that shows you are solely forward-focused, and you're not in the present.
13:42 Metaphor of monkey bars. To swing your arm to that next monkey bar, you have to let go of the last one.
14:38 The biggest thing you can do to alleviate not getting very far because you haven't let go, is to just have awareness.
16:15 Handling perspectives of time and energy spent. What things do you allow into your mind, your heart, and your soul, make a bigger difference.
17:21 Working towards that next-level identity. How you show and believe that you get to create those roles.
18:05 Rules of the version of ourselves that we want to create success that's aligned with how we want to create it.
19:02 It's not about what you're having or doing that should be shaping how you show up. It's who you want to be that drives how to show up,
19:09 It's not about letting your circumstances determine what's possible for you. It's you
stepping into what's possible for you, and then creating the circumstances from there.
12:42 If we already exist in this kind of peace and presence that we desire, that is actually where success is born.
22:20 Experiencing ourselves out wanting to work on stuff is such a beautiful way to just observe yourself. That is where actual ultimate creativity is born.
22:40 You think you know, what you think you know? And then you don't?
24:22 When you're in that change, it changes you. The cool thing is that you wake up being different without having to try to be different.
24:33 Transformational mindset life coaching is important to the next level of your success.
24:59 Allowing yourself to tap into that massive creativity. Having that accountability to do that with somebody else is what allows you to be different without having to try to be different.
25:38 Just surrender. It just tells me how to get clients when I'm surrendering.
26:49 “We're opening doors for a super short time to the female founder's board, which is, for you if you're making that leap, because like we’ve said, it's not just about that next-level strategy. It's about that next-level mindset.”
About the Host
Kinsey Machos, a Marketing Strategist, is also a recovering people pleaser, self-sabotager, and corporate hustler. She helps entrepreneurs create and execute magnetic marketing and build expert brands so that they can get known, seen, and heard online.
She believes that creating a business that’s 100% in alignment with SELF is one of the most important things that we can do as women — because there’s inner magic that we all have if we commit to an infinite pursuit of discovering (and re-discovering) that.
As a wife and a mom of three, the family takes priority. And having a business that’s run AROUND her lifestyle is a daily intention of hers.
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