Tripp Lanier has coached Navy SEALs, best-selling authors, and entrepreneurs to align their lives with their career and relationships. He covers topics guys are hungry to explore but typically only discuss after a few beers. Each episode consists of real world, practical advice so guys can get out of the rat race and live a life of purpose and meaning. Guests range from Tim Ferriss to Laird Hamilton to Navy SEALs to zen masters to “ordinary” guys living extraordinary lives. Topics include: mindset, purpose, power, relationships, sex, overcoming fear, lifestyle design, and spirituality. Read Tripp's latest book, This Book Will Make You Dangerous.
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episode 324: Coaching Call: How to Deal with Nice Guy Syndrome — Tripp Lanier
Does your partner want to solve problems or win arguments? What can you do if you feel trapped in a relationship? And how can you challenge your partner to step out of a victim mindset? In today’s coaching call, I talk with a man who’s got business challenges, two daughters, and a divorce to finalize. He’s at a pivotal point in his life as a man, and in this conversation we choose to focus on the challenges he’s facing with his new girlfriend. We use his anxiety as a doorway to deal with nice guy syndrome. And we address his people pleasing in order to create a pathway to the wholeness and the relationship he truly wants. Note: What you’re about to hear is an actual coaching call. The person being coached volunteered and gave explicit permission to have our conversation recorded for this podcast. In this interview: Nice Guy Syndrome Feeling responsible for her emotions Getting grounded and present Stop trying to do relationship over text Having a “high maintenance” partner Plus: Being yourself vs playing a role to be liked Being a leader in your life and relationship Creating a vision for the relationship you want Immaturity vs maturity in relationships Being on the same page with your partner https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/12/nice-guy-syndrome What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way. This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com. http://dangerousbookstore.com