Welcome to AA - Accountability Anonymous! We’re all hot on being progressive and the best versions of ourselves in public, but how accountable do we hold ourselves in private? “Wait… Am I Toxic?” is Fola and Rukiya’s safe space, where Black Brits can feel seen and take a break from cosplay adulting! Join us to talk about the real things we go through privately and the things we’d rather chew denim than share in public.
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Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 5 days 12 hours 9 minutes
106. Is your sex game weak?
Join Fola and Rukiya this week as they discuss all things about SEX! From practical tips (from non experts), to insecurities that may arise during sexual intercourse with your partners or f buddy. Follow Us: Instagram: @waitamitoxic Twitter: @waitamitoxic TikTok: @waitamitoxic Fola's IG: @folashade Fola's Twitter: @fola_shade Rukiya's IG: @rukiya_newts Artwork by @WhyZedStudio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
105. Why aren't we speaking about the epidemic of loneliness?
Join Fola and Rukiya discuss why busy Brits are becoming more and more lonely despite living in one of the most fast paced countries in the world!
episode 104: 104. "If in danger find a middle aged Black woman to protect you"
In this week's episode Fola and Rukiya discuss the role Black women are expected to play in protecting, nurturing and uplifting others all whilst sacrificing their own safety, prospects and well-being.
episode 103: Is it okay that I love him more than he loves me?
This week's submitter is feeling an imbalance of love in their relationship and is convinced her boyfriend doesn't love her as much as she loves him
episode 102: 102. There's a lot more to us that meets the eye
The tendency to compare ourselves to others is natural, but in a time where everyone's posting the glossiest versions of themselves online, it's easy to forget the reality of life... s**t happens to everyone!
He's 42 and I'm 27 - is he too old for me?
This week we attempt to approach the controversial topic of big age gaps in relationships with less of the instant outrage and a little more compassion than you might expect!
episode 99: 99. My mum is faking anxiety to control my life
Maternal anxiety is expected when raising children, but can should there be a cap on a parents anxiety once a child becomes a full grown adult?
episode 98: My mother-in-law has come to scatter Christmas
Competing with a mother-in-law for your husband's attention doesn't just happen in the movies, it's a real life struggle for many women out there!
97. Black women are hypersexualised, and yet punished for being sexual
Black women have been hypersexualised for as long as we can remember. From treating young Black girls as adults, to objectifying Black women's bodies, Black women continue to struggle to find the balance of wanting to be sexually desirable and respected
episode 96: This day and age, most religions no longer fit into the world in the way they once did.
Why do people disrespect Christianity so comfortably?