Welcome to AA - Accountability Anonymous! We’re all hot on being progressive and the best versions of ourselves in public, but how accountable do we hold ourselves in private? “Wait… Am I Toxic?” is Fola and Rukiya’s safe space, where Black Brits can feel seen and take a break from cosplay adulting! Join us to talk about the real things we go through privately and the things we’d rather chew denim than share in public.
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Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 5 days 10 hours 15 minutes
114. My depressed friend sucks the joy out of my life
Supporting a loved one with depression can be difficult, but what happens when their poor mental health starts to impact your joy? This week’s toxic submitter is struggling to support her friend who is struggling with her mental health. Join Fola and Rukiya as they discuss the difficulties poor mental has on the individual and their loved ones Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
episode 113: We have No Role Modelz, word to J. Cole
According to this week's submitter, people of today aren't worthy of being role models to anyone.
112. I'm scared my bf won't be able to afford the lifestyle I want
This week's toxic submitter is worried her boyfriend may not be able to meet her lifestyle needs as he prepares to become an entrepreneur.
episode 111: My friend thinks she's Black because she's dating Black
Should interracial dating come with so many complications!?
episode 110: 110. Are women feeding into toxic masculinity?
We all know how important attraction is when dating, but are we blocking our blessings by being too shallow, or even potentially problematic? This week's toxic submitter has met a lovely guy, but is struggling to get past his high pitched voice. Join Fola and Rukiya discussion how important attraction is when dating and how as women we may be feeding into toxic masculinity...
episode 109: I don't care about International Women's Day
International Women's Day has just passed and while it'll always be an amazing prospect at to celebrate women at its core, Rukiya has realised she's always felt disconnected from the holiday.
episode 108: 108. Should women admit when they cheat?
Surprise, surprise women cheat too! In this week's episode Fola and Rukiya discuss the importance of honesty when being unfaithful in a relationship and whether the ex Love Islander, Marcel Somerville should forgive his wife Rebecca Vieira for cheating. Follow Us: Instagram: @waitamitoxic Twitter: @waitamitoxic TikTok: @waitamitoxic Fola's IG: @folashade Fola's Twitter: @fola_shade Rukiya's IG: @rukiya_newts Artwork by @WhyZedStudio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
episode 107: Who said Black people aren't healthy? ft. Dr Jessica Katanga
This week we're joined by the award-winning Medical Doctor Dr. Jessica Katanga to talk about all of the nuances to health for Black people of our generation.
106. Is your sex game weak?
Join Fola and Rukiya this week as they discuss all things about SEX! From practical tips (from non experts), to insecurities that may arise during sexual intercourse with your partners or f buddy. Follow Us: Instagram: @waitamitoxic Twitter: @waitamitoxic TikTok: @waitamitoxic Fola's IG: @folashade Fola's Twitter: @fola_shade Rukiya's IG: @rukiya_newts Artwork by @WhyZedStudio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
105. Why aren't we speaking about the epidemic of loneliness?
Join Fola and Rukiya discuss why busy Brits are becoming more and more lonely despite living in one of the most fast paced countries in the world!