Welcome to AA - Accountability Anonymous! We’re all hot on being progressive and the best versions of ourselves in public, but how accountable do we hold ourselves in private? “Wait… Am I Toxic?” is Fola and Rukiya’s safe space, where Black Brits can feel seen and take a break from cosplay adulting! Join us to talk about the real things we go through privately and the things we’d rather chew denim than share in public.
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Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 5 days 12 hours 9 minutes
episode 18: “I’m sick of bad vibes London, how do I escape?”
Please welcome Fola’s very special friend @drbroni to the mic! Our toxic submitter this week is very much over London and has decided it’s time for them to take the plunge and move abroad.
episode 17: "You're not a failure, your aunties are just pagans"
How far does continuously putting others before you get you? If we're honest with ourselves, not very far! This weeks courageous toxic submitter has decided to take the plunge and drop out of uni, but fears what her mum and those unstoppable aunties will have to say.
episode 16: "The way people approach sexual liberation is ruthless"
It is FINALLY nearing the age of sexual liberation for women, but the people who haven't quite found a comfortable place in the movement seem to be getting left behind.
episode 15: “I’m Black, but Black people make me feel self conscious” ft The Classic Manny
Us Black Brits are forever preaching about creating safe spaces for us to go out in, but have you ever secretly felt more comfortable around White people? This week’s toxic submission confesses to feeling conscious about how they are looked at and perceived by some of their own fellow Black people in Black spaces.
episode 14: "If I want to ride some married D, then I will!"
Have you ever been tempted to accept advances from someone who’s in a relationship? Our toxic submitter this week is passionate about not being held accountable for riding some married D.
episode 13: I thought, should I put this gun up my pum?
Living in London will cost you an arm and a leg, but would you go as far as holding guns to secure the bag? Join us this week as we speak to a single mother who was sentenced to 5 years in prison for a crime she was doing to make ends meet for her son.
episode 12: "Ngl, I'm not mad at being catcalled"
Come on, this is a safe space... Have you ever been catcalled and kinda enjoyed it? This week's submitter isn't too mad at the idea of being catcalled and Fola has a few ideas on why! Do you think there's a connection between self-esteem and the kind of attention that validates us?
episode 11: Language of Love ft Tracy Lomanga
Join us this week as we get to learn what it's like to fall in love with someone who doesn't speak the same language as you. The contestant, Tracey Lomanga spills all the goss on Davina McCall's new hot dating show 'Language of Love' on Channel 4!
episode 10: "Stop lying that we're all beautiful, some of us are just average"
"bEaUtY iS In ThE eYe oF tHe BeHoLdeR" ... Then why do I only feel beautiful once a year!? We've all had our moments of doubting how beautiful we are and this week we talk about what our standards of beauty are based on, and why trying to feel beautiful all of the time is a losing game.
episode 9: A man's best personality trait is his job
In this week's episode we quite literally beg the men of London to stop being so boring! To our dear @Jam£s_cityboy(s), let us help you up your dating game... FOR FREE! And for the gworls, this week we have a brand new segment to help you find your potential new lover in the UK (or abroad, if you're lucky).