Do You F*cking Mind?

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays we dive into episodes with a combo of neuroscience and pop pscyhology: your pep talk and mindset hacks are all here. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.

https://www.dyfmpod.com/

Eine durchschnittliche Folge dieses Podcasts dauert 44m. Bisher sind 511 Folge(n) erschienen. .

Gesamtlänge aller Episoden: 15 days 7 hours 39 minutes

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episode 328: 328. HEAD NOISE: Exes Lies Part 2, Forever Single and Thriving But Upset with Men, and Daddy Issues,


In the last Head Noise episode you guys LOVED the lies exes told so I’m bringing I back for an even more cooked part 2!

And then I get into Head Noise where I answer your questions.

  1. I'm 24, forever single, thriving and upset with men. ‘ve been single my whole life and honestly thrive. But I’m curious about what its’ like in a partnership and am open to a boyfriend but very rarely do I get genuinely excited by a guy. When I do I REALLY do...


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episode 327: 327. Matthew Hussey on How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person and Live Happily (No Matter What)


New York Times best-selling author and international life and dating coach megastar Matthew Hussey joins the podcast!

We're diving deep into his advice on dating, owning who you are, being comfortable with what you want, and his brand new book Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person and Live Happily (No Matter What)...


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episode 326: 326. HEAD NOISE: The MANY Lies Exes Tell, Growing Apart, I Cheated on my Husband


First I have a life update about something TRULY shocking that happened to me over the weekend, and I go through your stories of things men have lied to you about!

Then I get into Head Noise where I answer your questions. In today’s episode we’ve got two really opposite topics!

  1. My husband and I are in out mid 20s and have been together since our late 20s. His family are very close with him...


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episode 325: 325. Trauma Bonding: What it is, How to Notice it, and Knowing When and How to Leave


What exactly is Trauma bonding? What if I told you that bonding with someone else over a traumatic event isn’t actually trauma bonding – it’s something else entirely! It’s about a relationship with someone who is traumatising and abusing you.

I’m going to take you through what a trauma bond is, how to spot it, the 7 stages of trauma bonding, and how to know when (and how) to get out of a trauma bonded relationship...


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episode 324: 324. HEAD NOISE: Sexually Inexperienced, Letting them Down Easy, Relationship Insecurities and Messed Up Parents


It's Headnoise my beans and that means it’s time for me to answer your questions. I'm answering four of your questions this week ranging from an imbalance in sexual relationships in a partnership to trying to overcome the terrible relationship model parents set for one listener from childhood til now.

AND if you want me to answer your question just email me at info@dyfmpod.com  

  1. My current partner has had very limited sexual experience and our sex life is very average...


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episode 323: 323. You Don't have to Beg, Force, or Chase to get what you Deserve


How do you know when something isn’t right for you? Sometimes we get caught up in the idea that hard work or working really hard for something will always bring it out in the best in us, but sometimes it’s just not worth it. In this episode we’re going to find out how to identify that and how to stop chasing after things that are not meant for you.

We’ll also find out what you can do instead to start living a life that feels right...


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episode 322: 322. HEADNOISE: Am I Being Too Needy, A Tricky Friendship, and Fixing a Mismatched Sex Life


It's Headnoise my beans and that means it’s time for me to answer your questions. Here’s what I’m tackling this week. AND if you want me to answer your question just email me at info@dyfmpod.com   

  1. I’ve had the same partner for a few years and we’re two women in our 20s. We’ve had a few bumps in the road as most relationships do, and without sounding like a douche a fair few have them have been her doing/from her...


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episode 321: 321. How to Stop Inviting Drama into Your Life


First up I have a life update – I’m going to try out publishing my episodes on Mondays and Thursdays from here on in (although this episode is coming out on a Tuesday because it’s a national public holiday here in Australia.)

And on Thursdays you can expect the Head Noise episode.

Okay now – THIS episode, I’m diving into how to stop inviting drama into your life...


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episode 320: 320. The secret to creating habits that last


Habits! Those pesky little things that we're told time and time again are key to getting your life on track. They can feel like a tough nut to crack so in partnership with Medibank I’m taking you through my tips for how to form habits that last.

LINKS:

  • Listen to my episode 108. How Habits can Transform Your Life at https://rebrand.ly/he7hbsr .  
  • Listen to episode 280. How to form a habit that STICKS! At https://rebrand.ly/bxmjqfy ...


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episode 319: 319. Your Nervous System Explained and Top 10 Non-Negotiables in Dating


First up I have a life update about my Sydney Live show.
Then I get into the science of your nervous system, and the 7 types of nervous system (no there isn’t just one).

Then I take you through the top 10 non-negotiables you need to figure out for yourself when you’re dating.

LINKS:

  • Listen to episode 284 ‘Boundaries vs Controlling Behaviour’ at https://pod.fo/e/211dea  .
  • Join the DYFM Facebook Group https://bit.ly/dyfm-group ...


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